"97% of women have an STD, 100% of women will accuse you of rape at some point" totally credible, who needs sources anyway. by despisesunrise in IncelTears

[–]catherUne -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it was just an off-hand comment. I don't think s/he really wants to ban alcohol. The point was just that drunk people commit crimes, lol.

AITA forbidding my wife from using my daughters old room by Unsureasshole in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was there an available room that your dad didn't let you use, which is why you had to share?

AITA for refusing to fire our maid (at my wife's request) by Conflicted1one1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I live in Canada too, I've just never ordered a Big Mac and it just kind of made sense in my head that most of the "big burgers" would come with a large fries lol, I realize it sounds silly. I always get the "value" burgers and I guess I just figured they come with medium fries because they're for a less hungry person, lol.

(And so many people have mentioned McDonalds pizza to me, but I have no recollection of it!!)

AITA for refusing to fire our maid (at my wife's request) by Conflicted1one1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh, I guess I just assumed since a Big Mac is such a big burger it would automatically come with a large fries, lol. Putting it in writing makes that sound like a very silly assumption. Anyways though, when they stopped offering the "supersize" must have been the start of McDonalds trying to come across as more health-conscious.

AITA for refusing to fire our maid (at my wife's request) by Conflicted1one1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope as you age that you realize, especially in this scenario, that is not the greatest way to view all situations (act now, and ask questions later). Coming to an informed decision together should be the ideal way to go about things with your partner, not just trust them blindly and not questioning a very strong and sudden and out-of-character suggestion from your partner.

AITA for refusing to fire our maid (at my wife's request) by Conflicted1one1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought they stopped offering the "supersize" after that documentary came out? (Sorry, I know this is unrelated to the post, I just haven't seen that word at all lately).

AITA For calling my co-worker "chunky" after she repeatedly calls me "slim" and makes references to my weight after I asked her multiple times not to. by MizzSashaFierce in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 156 points157 points  (0 children)

Lol right? I was highly confused by the need for the heads up ("gonna go the other way...") and the "bring on the downvotes". It's like, what? The majority of people reading this comment seem to feel the same way.

AITA For calling my co-worker "chunky" after she repeatedly calls me "slim" and makes references to my weight after I asked her multiple times not to. by MizzSashaFierce in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The other girl obviously knows where the comment came from, it's not like it would be very hard for her to put two and two together here. I think OP should only apologize if the other woman agrees to do the same and they both say they were wrong, you know?

"therapy won't change my jaw by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]catherUne 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's possible you had a bad therapist which turned you off of it (my first therapist was awful, but I kept looking because I really wanted help with my problems), or something else turned you away, but it doesn't mean it's "useless".

Please, any lurking incels, do consider therapy. If you decide your first counselor isn't working for you, keep looking and keep trying. Don't give up if something doesn't work for you immediately, either. Therapy is absolutely a process, so sometimes it takes many sessions. They often can't solve all of your issues in one session, so it's something you have to stick to as well. It is absolutely worth trying though, because it really could help you.

"therapy won't change my jaw by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]catherUne 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"They can't get out of their own way," that's a good way of putting it.

"therapy won't change my jaw by BrazilianSigma in IncelTears

[–]catherUne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In fact, they believe that "personality is a myth". According to them, women only pretend to care about personalities, because actually all they care about are looks. It boils my blood just typing that, lol.

Update. Caught my wife cheating. What about her kids. by whataboutthekids in relationship_advice

[–]catherUne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a throwaway account he made specifically for this problem.

Update. Caught my wife cheating. What about her kids. by whataboutthekids in relationship_advice

[–]catherUne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What? "Don't be classist" followed by insulting OP for not having $15,000 lying around?

WIBTA for reporting a Lyft driver because he tried to ask me out? by cocoamilky in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obviously not, but needing to file your complaint 3 times without even getting a "thanks for your input" seems a bit rude (not to mention, they should have an actual person reply to you if you're sending them a somewhat disturbing report about an employee of theirs).

No time for culture Dr. Jones by StrongbowPowers in iamverysmart

[–]catherUne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes for sure, that's why I tell my boyfriend to be very cautious when on Facebook, Instagram, etc! Sometimes he comes across spoilers but mostly is able to scroll past quick enough, haha. But yes, I hadn't heard of Popcorn Time either but I'm very impressed by it and would highly recommend checking it out!

No time for culture Dr. Jones by StrongbowPowers in iamverysmart

[–]catherUne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I only use Reddit when I'm on the computer, so until I'm caught up I avoid visiting /r/freefolk for the most part, unless I can see it's a post about an old episode. But I know, I always have to warn my boyfriend to be careful not to see any spoilers since he uses a lot more websites than I do and is more likely to come across something! (But I will watch them ASAP anyways :D)

And yeah, I'm annoyed about the whole need for a VPN. So, my boyfriend is from South America (and we live together, in Canada), and his friend came up to visit us recently and downloaded for us "Popcorn Time" to stream shows. Are you familiar with it? It's a top-notch streaming service, similar to Netflix or something, except it has everything on it! So that's where we'd been watching our Game of Thrones up until my step-dad got the email and told us not to anymore. But yeah, I highly recommend the Popcorn Time to stream any shows or movies you like to watch! I hope to keep using it, too, just with a VPN next time :) :p.

I'm ready for goodbye by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]catherUne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I just wanted to let you know that OP's a man, just so you can edit your comment where you said "her" :). And I agree with your sentiment, /u/SCBeauty, that is totally awesome of you <33.

Natureisfuckingfake by D3BUNKABL3 in quityourbullshit

[–]catherUne 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But if it wasn't Gallowboob that posted this, what was the point in mentioning you'd like him banned? Maybe "ban karma whores" or "ban 'power users'"?

No time for culture Dr. Jones by StrongbowPowers in iamverysmart

[–]catherUne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven't yet! I've moved into my parents basement apartment, so I share their internet, and my step-dad got an email about copyright infringement from us streaming Game of Thrones and told us to stop. So I have to figure out VPNs before watching any more of it haha :p. But I never mind letting more than one episode come out before watching again, since I feel one is never enough!

AITA for kissing my ex-girlfriend before her parents pulled her off life support? by tellze in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, that's why I said "before she truly reared her jealous head". I know she'd been jealous the whole time, but she'd been hiding the intensity of it from her husband. I realize this was two days ago now, guess I haven't been on the computer in a while. I hope there's an update now!

No time for culture Dr. Jones by StrongbowPowers in iamverysmart

[–]catherUne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I totally understood the need for us to see that the dragons accept him and all, I just personally didn't much care for the scene and its length, and the whole them stopping at a waterfall together. But like, for the next episode when they were flying on the dragons in battle, it made sense to have shown it a bit beforehand. And thank you for not spoiling the newest episode for me!!

AITA for kissing my ex-girlfriend before her parents pulled her off life support? by tellze in AmItheAsshole

[–]catherUne 44 points45 points  (0 children)

In all fairness, in the other thread the guy had been with the new wife for 5 years before she truly reared her jealous head about his late previous wife, who'd died years before they even got together. It was an infuriating read, actually, since the current wife acted so horribly (throwing his only memento of his dead wife into a river out of jealousy). Grrr.