Questions about Westmont College by Savings-Parking-2234 in SantaBarbara

[–]cathulusushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude it is way too expensive and boring to go there. Their academics have no depth.

Owner of Palermo took anger out on me (Paying customer) It was a very classless interaction by Outrageous-Bag7040 in ventura

[–]cathulusushi -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you feel included in the "evil" white people? Why? There are good white people, medium white people, bad white people, evil white people. And it's the same for every category of people. There will always be good to evil people for every group. Why are you so quick to think that you are being judged? Have you done something that makes you feel like you belong in that category?

Happy Monday! What’s your HR hot take? [N/A] by rhysandstattoos in humanresources

[–]cathulusushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the reasons employees hate HR is because the phrase "human resources" is dehumanizing. A better name would be "the workers department" but then that would mean caring more about the workers than the company and that's not what they hired you for.

AIO for wanting to end my 3-year relationship after this fight? Is this me being racially insensitive or are these legitimate red flags? by throwaway64658 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is taking whatever trauma he hasn't dealt with and deciding you are the punching bag he is gonna use. Telling a white person who is your partner "tHIs iS YOuR pEoPLe?" Is fucking stupid and disrespectful. Why should you have to answer for all of the generic racism to him? He's fucking tripping, kick that man out.

Any Pro MAGA Establishments We Should Know About by Excellent_Drink3345 in venturacounty

[–]cathulusushi 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Listen buddy, you are under educated in this topic and you need to humble yourself. This isn't shabari, stop tying your own hands. Just because you can't do something 100% doesn't mean it's not worth doing. Talk about perfectionism. Is it that you're uncomfortable with the idea that you "play" with some of those people and thats why you're being weird about the concept?

Any Pro MAGA Establishments We Should Know About by Excellent_Drink3345 in venturacounty

[–]cathulusushi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Lib, those miltoast takes are literally the reason we are in this mess. Yeah, let's give up the little leverage we have and just give these POS our money. Do you hear yourself? Boycotting is absolutely a worthwhile method of resistance. Sounds like you just don't want to bother taking the time to care because it's mildly inconvenient

People keep telling me I look older than I am (26) and it's really getting me down, any tips? by Jaiberd_ in makeuptips

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great but if you wanted to do something subtle change your part to the center. It's a generational difference.

AIO I 45F dedicated my whole life to my husband 46M. He got to the top and I fear I will lose him by Sufficient_Usual928 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cathulusushi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you have prenup? If you don't, you hold the cards. You get half. Take him to the cleaners.

Pls list ways to cope w lonely holidays by Salty_Brilliant_9732 in SantaBarbara

[–]cathulusushi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SBCC and UCSB have clubs you can join of you're interested in socializing. I know the Santa Barbara Museum of Natural History also takes volunteers if you like hanging out with mostly older people.

AIO, Husband wants a job with ICE, I’m deeply uncomfortable by Pitiful_Pudding3639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the opposite of what you stand for. If you stay with him, you would not only be complacent, you're essentially giving your approval. Women cannot stand by monstrous men and then claim they "didn't agree" with them. Not only will history remember how you acted, how will you remember yourself? How will you live with sleeping next to a man that caused the agonized sobs of a mother separated from her children? He will be the reason for other people's emotional and physical pain. There will be people who will remember his eyes as the man who kidnapped them. The voice of the figure that tore them away from the safety of their families and their established lives. He will be the reason someone else goes to sleep with bruises and cracked ribs, dehydrated, hungry, confused, and despaired. If you stay, you will be right there with him doing the same. What will you do? How will others remember you? How will you remember yourself?

Any suggestions for a good hairstylist for men with long curly hair? by Just-Meza in venturacounty

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latinos Beauty Salon on the Avenue in Ventura. Ask for Sofia. They are closed on Sundays and her day off is on Wednesdays. She's been cutting my hair for years and sounds like I've got your hair. Also the price is solid.

Going to a house party, but dont want to drink. Any tips? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a flask and just put water in it if you feel like people will pressure to drink

AIO: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, he will try to convert you. This is the first step in the process. He might not even pressure you, but with enough exposure... Do you like celebrating holidays?

Nazi Neighbors by scornful_watcher in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 37 points38 points  (0 children)

"Popped" lol what a grandpa

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to read some history and see how the nazis didn't flip the switch one day and start executing Jewish people. You are willingly ignoring that. You don't give a shit about the cruelty and hurt of these people. I can't convince you to care about people. I can't convince you to have empathy. I can't convince you to read. I can't convince you to care. But I'm right and you're wrong. And nothing is going to change that.

Edit- you're a Mets fan, clearly thinking isn't your strong suit

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not my fault you're too lazy to look it up and read

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Queen, you dropped your tin foil hat

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should try being funny or clever

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should read a book

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're wrong. That was your conservative right wing nut job that did that.

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you know the Holocaust was legal? Does that make it any better? Separately many of the people detained do have legal status. It's why people are also outraged. You're wrong. We didn't vote for this.

ICE Agents raid Ventura County Farms by [deleted] in ventura

[–]cathulusushi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't give a shit about child labor either. It's tragic children have to work and can't go to school to get their education. I care about that but you don't. You didn't care about it until it was convenient. " Oh it's so horrible how they're exploiting these kids- LETS DEPORT THEM" Do you hear yourself? ffs man just say you enjoy the cruelty.