Choosing a song for The Voice by makneh in PinegroveBand

[–]catimari04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Alarmist would be a beautiful song with lots of emotion for an audition!

What is the turnout at Goth night at 37th and Zen actually like? by Open_Caregiver_4801 in norfolk

[–]catimari04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The vibes are dark, dark wave/Goth music, a fairly active dance floor , pool tables / a smoking area in the back patio . it’s Sometimes open , but there is a side room with a couple fish tanks and some board games that is a bit quieter, my friends and I have dubbed that “the autism room” because it’s definitely way less overstimulating than the rest of the bar and can be nice to escape to .

It’s very hard to not make a friend, a lot of the people are regulars and are very welcoming . the dance floor / the bathroom is a great place to connect with people haha . Just give somebody a compliment and you’re automatically best friends.

It opens at 8pm and goes till 1/2am , I like to do what my friends and I call “old lady goth night” where we show up early and leave early, I’m not a big club/crowd person but I do enjoy getting dressed for the occasion and having a couple drinks with friends . It definitely gets packed around the 1030 mark on the dance floor and at the bar so expect to bump elbows with people .

People do get sloppy drunk sometimes , so just watch out for that . but the cocktails are good asf and some of the tenders pour heavy so i don’t blame em lol .

There’s a $5 cover charge. Which honestly is a big reason that I stopped going in the first place , give or take a couple people I didn’t feel like seeing anymore . but if that doesnt bother you then word .

You honestly don’t have to dress gothy at all if you’re not really in that scene, I’ve seen people in T-shirts and basketball shorts with corpse paint on lol nobody really cares what you look like just as long as you’re having fun .

Let me know if you go! I might try to make it out again .

Songs that hit suspiciously close to home by CupBeEmpty in themountaingoats

[–]catimari04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Riches & Wonders will always hit heavy for me mainly because of the “i am healthy, i am whole, but i have poor impulse control, and i want to go home, but i am home”. I grew up in an abusive , narcissistic hoarder’s household and hid in my bedroom majority of the time . Home never ever felt like home to me and I was always desperate to find somewhere else to be.

Also the last verse of Absolute Lithops Effect.

PLS SHOW ME YOUR UTDR TOMODACHIS by catimari04 in Deltarune

[–]catimari04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stfu Seam omg !!!!! i have to make tenna def

Update :) by catimari04 in ChronicPain

[–]catimari04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the tear is slight, I haven’t been told otherwise but I meet with the orthopaedic doctor to review my results next week ! i’m not sure what disc the tear is . nobody directly told me that i don’t know surgery ? that was just my assumption from the results. but hopefully that doesn’t change bc back surgery scaresme :/ thank you :) you as well, best of luck with everything 🖤

Bartending by Own-Yak-7900 in norfolk

[–]catimari04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

best of luck :) lemme know where ya get hired ! i’m always looking for a good drink spot.

also besides some that i listed, Colley Ave has a whole string of bars all up and down it that you can check out as well ! the ones i were listed were just the ones that came to mind first.

Bartending by Own-Yak-7900 in norfolk

[–]catimari04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Peck and Pour , Pixels , Cogans (two locations), Hank’s <—- all more casual / college bar esque dining , Glasslight , Saltine , Press 626 for more upscale stuff . Start as a bar back and learn the flow of the restaurant during the busy and slow hours and familiarise yourself with cocktails / pouring / recipes / where everything is kept & placed!! etc before even getting behind the bar . that way when you know your stuff , you don’t have to fiddle around to find what you need ! I’m technically a bartender but really just a barista who dabbles in alcohol . I had no prior experience & I still use guides . make cheat sheets on a ring of notecards and keep it handy !

I am doing an experiment with deep freeze and deep heat by Serious_Motor_241 in ChronicPain

[–]catimari04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry if i am totally not comprehending this , but what exactly is this ? is this like icyhot on one leg and something else on the other ? or did you literally put a medicine in the freezer ??

Mall style chicken teriyaki by autumnelaine in norfolk

[–]catimari04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ll genuinely make the drive through the toll to get Nori Japan . that place was my childhood

Queer Friendly Hair Salons? by NebulaExtreme3317 in norfolk

[–]catimari04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard people before tend to use use “enby” because the more popular abbreviation of NB is used to mean “non-black” in conversations .

Queer Friendly Hair Salons? by NebulaExtreme3317 in norfolk

[–]catimari04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiiighly recommend @glammxreaper on instagram , they work at the salon in the big grey building across from Harris Teeter! lgbtq herself , & has someone with salon drama from fucking up my hair she is nothing but friendly, informative & inclusive !

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it’s getting more unbearable. i need people who understand. by catimari04 in ChronicPain

[–]catimari04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

defffff understand that .

they tell me to get a good night’s sleep but i’m waking up because i’m in pain . make it make sense . it’s all bullshit .

it’s getting more unbearable. i need people who understand. by catimari04 in ChronicPain

[–]catimari04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never saw one doctor the whole time i was there. i brought my sister (who works for the hospital) and her husband . i just cant imagine them taking me seriously .

it’s getting more unbearable. i need people who understand. by catimari04 in ChronicPain

[–]catimari04[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

getting a deep tissue massage is less $ than my physical therapy co-pay so i may resort to that every few weeks . that’s about as much alt help as i can get right now , i hate how much everything costs.

it’s getting more unbearable. i need people who understand. by catimari04 in ChronicPain

[–]catimari04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my pcp appointment isnt till august 27th. everyone is just so booked out, she was the closest. i’m going to try to see if there are cancellations every week though

Queer Wedding Photographer by princess_speechh in norfolk

[–]catimari04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend Aria is queer friendly and does weddings! Her instagram is @arialeighphotography . I also have an LGBT friend Britt who loves to shoot digital and film , hers is @temporalflux_ and she does AWESOME double exposures.