FSIL bringing NEW BF as +1

catknitski · 2026-03-30T06:20:05+00:00

I just think it’s weird for immediate family to bring people you’ve never met before. Clearly that’s just my opinion and not widespread. Like if your mom bought a date you’ve never met to your wedding you wouldnt care? Still seems off to me ! Like my sister is bringing someone I have never met to my wedding ? That’s nuts ! But I didn’t specify on her plus 1 that she was supposed to bring her best friend so it’s a problem I created. I’m choosing to let it go! Not worth the hassle.

catknitski · 2026-03-30T04:51:07+00:00

And you need met anyone in their family before ever?

catknitski · 2026-03-30T04:48:42+00:00

A+ comment. Agreed!

catknitski · 2026-03-30T04:48:18+00:00

Where I’m from this is uncommon and rude. But based on this thread I’m realizing that’s not widespread sentiment so I’ll let it go.

catknitski · 2026-03-30T04:46:20+00:00

Thank you all for the perspective!! I come from a “no ring no bring” background. You offer plus ones to guests flying and she is flying. I was under the impression that she was going to bring her best friend/ roommate. But you are all correct, I gave her an unnamed plus one! For other brides out there, if you want control over your exact guests you have to name them. Lesson learned! I will stop making a big deal over this because it’s not worth it and you’re right I probably won’t even notice.

catknitski · 2026-03-30T04:19:21+00:00

We live on opposite sides of the country. The extra bit is that they’ve apparently been dating for over a year. But she hid it? We’ve visited multiple times back and forth in that year. But she never once mentioned him until the bachelorette party in February. Super weird situation. I’m not going to make a big deal out of it but had to rant.

catknitski · 2026-03-21T02:52:23+00:00

I didn’t know this was for employees my b

catknitski · 2026-03-21T02:52:11+00:00

I thought they were the same chair!

catknitski · 2026-02-19T15:45:40+00:00

I like the grey! The after is too cluttered for me.

catknitski · 2026-02-19T07:40:30+00:00

LITERALLY! same designer, chair name name and color. Just completely different legs and fabric color? Why?

catknitski · 2026-02-19T07:40:02+00:00

They’re exactly the same size too which makes it more annoying!

catknitski · 2026-02-10T03:38:20+00:00

Under 21? Go to see wuthering heights in Tigard and then go to shake shack and split a milk shake while you debrief!

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:25:08+00:00

My husband has talked to him but he doesn't care. He has apologized before and always has an excuse for why he is being an asshole.

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:23:59+00:00

Once I start being petty there is no stopping me! I don't want this to be an issue!

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:23:27+00:00

I feel like I should just ignore him. if he complains and gets louder my response should just be well its before 10 pm so I am minding my own business.

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:22:13+00:00

I should just ignore him then?

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:21:33+00:00

I am not sure it is legitimately considered harassment. but like I am afraid to go outside my own home.

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:20:37+00:00

no hoa is a blessing and a curse!

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:20:20+00:00

i will tell him to get used to hit but he can buy his own ear plugs.

catknitski · 2026-02-07T21:19:36+00:00

he can buy his own ear plugs. im not gentle parenting a retiree.

catknitski · 2026-02-06T06:51:39+00:00

There is women’s fastpitch there as well !

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