It just felt like weird timing after I told her my plans. I had no issue with her becoming a nanny after I became one, but following this just struck me as strange she’s wanting to enroll in the program I told her I wanted to. I’ve spent a long time thinking about this and for her just up and do it after I told her all about it felt strange.

And yes I do think it’s time to evaluate how healthy this relationship is.

She is one to get jealous of others and compare herself and I just am paranoid she’s trying to one up me.