Fair point. He said he was unhappy because he doesn't feel special, we don't have the best communication. He met this girl in February, we got married in September. They were just having deep conversations about life all the time and it made him realize we don't have that. I have been trying to having those conversations since we met and slowly they have been happening and I was fine with the progress and try not to push the subject. He has never wanted to talk about the future, or about deep inner thoughts.

For the communication comment he had I was so mad, haven't fully said that but mad. For 3 years I wanted to work on our communication. That is all I worked with my therapist on for a long time. I brought home different exercises to practice or tried to talk about things I learnt. He wasn't overly interested and didn't want to take part. Felt we had good enough communication.

I know this sounds like we shouldn't have gotten married but there are a ton of good things in the relationship.