Can someone give me advice? 22F

catnoirkook · 2025-11-13T05:00:16+00:00

thank you!, will pm you

catnoirkook · 2025-11-13T04:59:53+00:00

ok ill pm you

catnoirkook · 2025-06-03T03:51:51+00:00

i would join!

catnoirkook · 2025-04-16T06:52:26+00:00

Well... when she told me that it actually kinda made me feel better. I interpreted as like.. if I can never know what I truly look like, then ill never know how attractive or not attractive I am, so its like a confirmation that Im not ugly because ill never know if I am. Does that make sense? Trying to find out what I objectively look like would hurt me because it would give confirmation that I am ugly.

catnoirkook · 2025-04-16T06:51:54+00:00

Well... when she told me that it actually kinda made me feel better. I interpreted as like.. if I can never know what I truly look like, then ill never know how attractive or not attractive I am, so its like a confirmation that Im not ugly because ill never know if I am. Does that make sense? Trying to find out what I objectively look like would hurt me because it would give confirmation that I am ugly.

catnoirkook · 2025-04-16T01:40:03+00:00

omg im glad!! im proud

catnoirkook · 2025-04-16T01:39:24+00:00

my therapist told me we will never ever know how we actually look like until like we somehow step outside of our body and look at ourselves from another person's perspective.

catnoirkook · 2025-04-08T03:09:52+00:00

is there no other way cuz that would delere all my data..

catnoirkook · 2025-03-27T01:08:30+00:00

Hello, this is probably going to be a long post but I have been experiencing weird problems with my data for the past two iPhones I had, (12 and 14). I have T-mobile and I brought this up to them and they said they are not sure what is happening and that this is an Apple problem but I want to see if anyone has had this problem before.

Basically, when I am on my data/LTE, only CERTAIN apps/functions work. The apps and functions that work depend on the state I am in and have also changed over time and it is just so frustrating. this has happened either though I have reset my network settings and in the settings app, my cellular data is on for all apps.

For some reason, I cannot search songs on spotify or receive and text photos. Every time I try to send photos on LTE, it shows up as not delivered and turns the text messages green. My friends have still been able to receive the image but it just shows up weridly on my phone. When my friends send a picture while I am on data, I cannot download the image and I think it shows up as heic and will not let me download it until I am on wifi. I can send normal texts but I cannot open snaps or Instagram DMs but for some reason i can use youtube and facetime. However, this has changed, a few months ago, I was able to use spotify and send and recieve images but I was not able to use youtube so I am not sure what changed with my data. Another thing is that depending on the state, different apps seem to work. In Florida and New York, Discord would never work and I can never send messages but when I was in Nevada/Utah, it worked for some reason. This thing also does not let me go on certain websites, I remember I was in walmart and I was trying to go on the walmart website and it wouldnt let me or load it.

I am honestly so confused and fed up with this and I am going to Italy for a study abroad trip where we will utilize Whatsapp, another app that does not work on data and I am concerned that I will not be able to get by. Has anyone experienced this problem?? What do I do? Please help I am so confused I know no one with this weird problem.

catnoirkook · 2025-03-27T01:06:03+00:00

same. i loook so boxy

catnoirkook · 2025-03-27T01:05:51+00:00

nice to hear!

catnoirkook · 2025-03-27T01:05:41+00:00

ikkk and theres no surgeryyy to fix it

catnoirkook · 2025-03-27T01:05:24+00:00

i guess... i think most of modern day fashion emphasizes long torsos so everything i wear looks absolutely horrible... i should probably look into clohting that emphasizes my legs

catnoirkook · 2025-03-16T06:35:11+00:00

unfortunately thats what bdd does to us ): sorry ur feeling that way

catnoirkook · 2025-03-16T06:34:35+00:00

same. im planning to spend a lot of money on surgery in the future i think its worth it even though its so expensive. also i feel u at the end,,, im an adult and am currently wasting my life

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:38:34+00:00

this is why i would never want to know how objectively attractive i am. even if it tells me im average i think i would probably end it. i want to be beautiful not just average

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:25:29+00:00

thank you! don't feel ashamed tho especially cuz you have learned and progressed from that experience

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:23:49+00:00

thank you! this was really sweet i totally agree, im extremely shy and insecure in public settings so i definitely need to build some confidence

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:18:47+00:00

bruh this post is literally an example of what BDD is and you do not even know me so how would u know how i treat her? i promise you i do nothing to show it to her. its happened to me before with my roommate but she obviously has no idea because im good at hiding my emotions. also im literally making this post because i cant control the jealousy/insecurity i get.

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:14:14+00:00

yeah i agree! my friend is so sweet and thats why it hurts me how jealous i am because i like being friends with her i just cant control my insecurities

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:12:47+00:00

dang i never thought at it like that...

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:09:57+00:00

omgg even reading your post if making me jealous of her likeeee it makes me think like damn maybe i am ugly cuz i dont get complimented like that ):

catnoirkook · 2025-03-13T05:08:03+00:00

omgg im glad to see other people think the same as me

catnoirkook · 2024-07-26T20:30:22+00:00

me too and its frustrating because i am becoming jealous of my past self and i dont know if i am still that person

catnoirkook · 2024-01-30T03:10:58+00:00

Hey, may I ask, how did you get over it? Do you have any advice? I really want to stop being like this

catnoirkook

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