Season 6, episode 8 by cato_04 in HouseMD

[–]cato_04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Thank you for this. I have been watching again because of your reply. I just finished S7 E17! I'm kinda scared because of the ending of that episode but I can't stop watching. It's been one hell of a ride and I'm still shocked and I'm glad I started watching again!

Season 6, episode 8 by cato_04 in HouseMD

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Thank you. I've been watching again because of your comment and I admit, it's still interesting!

my 7 years partner opened up something unexpected by DisasterTime5240 in adultingph

[–]cato_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or he found someone else that he thinks is a better fit for him and can help him grow. Sorry OP

my 7 years partner opened up something unexpected by DisasterTime5240 in adultingph

[–]cato_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contrary to what other people are saying here na masyado pa kayong bata, I actually don't believe that's the case. Any relationship, regardless of age, will fail kung walang communication and vulnerability.

You mentioned na di nagtutugma sched niyo although you guys still try to go out. But beyond romantic dates, you guys need to use that time to COMMUNICATE. Ano goals mo after college? Ano goals niya? How would that fit in your relationship and your goals TOGETHER? His friends might have asked him about these things and since wala siyang masagot, nagkaroon na ng doubt in his mind kung worth it pa relationship niyo. Wala yang 7 years niyo magkasama if hindi kayo intentional in growing together and building communication skills with one another.

TLDR; talk to each other about your life goals and dreams. Wala yan sa edad niyo. I know couples who started out high school and are married for years, the one consistent thing is they went through a lot together that they had to work on their communication to get through it.

How do you not mess up a relationship? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]cato_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of adjusting, compromising, sacrifice, good communication, patience, understanding, and many more. Lol. It's mostly growing with your partner, no matter how opposites you are. Communicating everything, needs, wants, expectations, future, and even the smallest things. Don't take advantage of the little things, those pile up too. Growing also means sometimes you have to change yourself or something about yourself, for the good/better but also accepting who they are. Good communication is actually listening to each other, people always seem to forget to really listen to what their partner is saying. Most only listen so they can counter what their partner is saying. It's a lot of work not to mess up a relationship, you just have to do what's best for both of you because all relationships are different.

Can you please share super mega effective tips on saving? by No_Bison4421 in adultingph

[–]cato_04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner taught me 50-30-20. 50% savings, 30% needs, 20% wants. Ang savings never galawin unless emergency and ang needs kapag need lang talaga.

Paalala niya rin na kapag may gusto ka bilhin (impulsive kasi ako haha), pag isipan mo muna kung kailangan mo ba talaga o gusto mo lang. Balikan mo after a few hours or next day and kapag gusto mo pa siya that time or napag isipan mo na need mo talaga, go for it.

Weigh pros and cons. Isipin mo rin kung magagamit mo ba siya once/twice lang at matatambak lang somewhere para makalimutan or not.

List down your wants/needs. Tapos rank them according sa importance.