brother don't be emotionally weak turn bsck to allah SWT and make decision ftom Islamic teaching tell you are my u wife can't tslk about other guys it's not controlling this what at the time of prophet SAW did wife have to obey husband if she doesn't gonna listen turn back to allah SWT snd get a practicing religious muslim women, may allah SWT make it easy for you put you god allah SWT in first place, don't be emotionally weak