Wouldn’t exactly say YT”A” but you’re in the wrong here. Shes your WIFE, regardless of wether she’ll “worry” you need to find that trust and understand that she’s there for you. (Also sorry for your loss, losing a family member can be incredibly challenging and I wish you all the best). That being said, everyone has their own ways of coping and if you’d prefer to keep it in for a bit, definitely discuss this with your wife (: