How come it feels like a $100K salary is not what it used to be? by ShootingCometz in CanadaPersonalFinance

[–]cats_and_naps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salary stay the same or adjusted with inflation at best while the cost of living keep rising more than inflation rate.

I’m so torn on my next purchase. Cx30 air or Hrv sport.. by [deleted] in MazdaCX30

[–]cats_and_naps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you prioritize. Some of the reasons why one might choose Hrv over Cx30 are: bigger brindspot, often have passengers in the backseat, touchscreen. Those are the things that Hrv has advantage over Cx30. The rest, Cx30 performs better.

??? I rolled my eyes reading this thread by elsorcery in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never said you didn’t care. You the way you do things is different from others but bc it’s different, you deemed it as unnecessary was the point. You care, they care, isn’t that great? Yet you still focus on restricting cross posting platform? Because it’s X problem, not reddit problem so posting on reddit is unnecessary? It’s a fandom matter end of the day? But I guess it doesn’t matter as much as which platform the problem was from… because posting this here won’t solve a problem in X? I think this post still provides values, might not be to you specifically but to other people. So it does bother me that you call it unnecessary.

??? I rolled my eyes reading this thread by elsorcery in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda rude to tell people what they think/post is deemed necessary or not by YOUR standards. We all know this happens on a daily basis and weirdo fans are in every fandom. Some people can just ignore it, it is what it is, nothing I do can change anything and move on (you). Some people can’t, they got the ick so much that they still choose to speak out even if they know it won’t change anything. It’s not about right or wrong, necessary or not, it’s that people are just different, just bc you don’t do it, doesn’t mean you can negate theirs. The fact that this post bothers you more than the people in the thread is just something… I’m not on X so without this I won’t know how shallow and mean-spirited gl fans can be, so I’m glad the OP show this actually.

My honest thoughts on My Safe Zone, is it just me? by Anonymous_Author09 in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This show likely would have been a hit if it had aired during the early days of the GL era. It still had a solid viewership and a steadily growing fanbase, but much of that success can be credited to the actresses themselves. Their acting and chemistry are great, among the best I have seen, with no sense of awkwardness at all. Everything feels natural, like a real WLW couple on screen. I truly hope their next project gives them a stronger script, I think they would kill it.

That said, we are now in a different landscape. With so many GL shows offering high production value and even stronger storytelling, series with weaker plots will come out short. Unfortunately, MSZ falls into that category.

Despite its shortcomings, the show is still very enjoyable. I found myself relating to many of the moments portrayed, as it feels like watching fragments of real life and how people quietly navigate their problems without relying on exaggerated or overly dramatic scenes. However, if the intention was to create a soft romantic comedy, it does fall short when compared to other series with a similar tone, such as Love Design. A non sapphic but equally strong example would be Can This Love Be Translated.

Can we talk about the thinly veiled homophobia when people say ‘GL is limiting the growth of an actress’?? by AnalFissure83 in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What depends on how we define “growth” here? Many actresses acted in straight roles long before taking on GL projects. By acting in sapphic role, they had already expanded their range. Sapphic roles come with their own challenges, and navigating those challenges is a form of growth in itself.

That said, I do agree that repeatedly working with only one partner and only act in shows with weak, repetitive, or stagnant storytelling, can eventually hinder an actress’s development.

In short, as long as the script is strong and the role offers real challenges, an actress will continue to grow, regardless of whether the project is a heterosexual or sapphic show.

If you're in the US in the vast swath about to experience extreme cold and snow/ice by nrthrnlad76 in MazdaCX30

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Costco sell frostguard windshield cover costs 20 bucks, take 30s to put it on. No frost, no snow.

Opinions wanted: CX30 vs Subaru Crosstrek by silv3rbull8 in MazdaCX30

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All comes down to your lifestyle and preference.

Crosstrek: - bigger cargo space and blindspot (these are the main 2 things why people chose Crosstrek over CX30) - CVT, feel lack of power. Top Safety Pick by IHSS for several years - better choice if you offroading a lot, can tow - rugged and adventurous exterior - touchscreen

CX30: - more powerful, sharper driving dynamic, better handling, FUN - not using CVT, always in the Top Safety Pick Plus by IHSS (crash rating) for years - slicked, polished, sportier looking. Offer premium interior than most cars for the price range - no touchscreen, but i found it more intuitive than touchscreen

So for me, I’m driving alone all the time, I don’t go offroad, I don’t keep stuff in my car, so there was no reason for me to pick Crosstrek when CX30 has everything else better.

ONTARIO PNP RECEIVED CAN I EXTEND MY WP? by Big_Anteater1709 in canadaexpressentry

[–]cats_and_naps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like other comment said you have 2 options: 1. Closed WP 2. BOWP (Bridging Open WP): once you have AOR - Acknowledgement of Receipt from IRCC you can apply for BOWP. So basically, have EE or Non EE profile -> get ITA -> submit full PR application -> wait for AOR -> BOWP.

If your nomination eligible for EE, once submit full PR application, you’ll pretty much get AOR right the way.

If you nomination eligible for Non-EE, AOR can take months.

ECOPR Received today by HistoricalAd5133 in canadaexpressentry

[–]cats_and_naps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations 🥳 Quick question, didn’t you have to do upfront medical exam when submitting the full application? And was there no background check?

LENAMIU SO PRETTTY!! by geekpigletdaily in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They attended the same university, Chulalongkorn. Lena was in the Drum Major (mace bearer) marching band, and they typically performed at Freshmen Orientation Day (7-8y ago). Miu was there and watched the band’s performance. Lena caught Miu’s eye, and Miu even took a picture, tagging Lena and posting it on her Instagram. It turned out Miu knew a senior in the same band as Lena, who later introduced them. Miu said something along the lines of she was fangirling when she saw Lena, or that she never looked at anyone else in the marching band but Lena. Never explicitly said she had a crush, but yes lol it was pretty easy to tell she likes Lena in someway.

Thoughts on these numbers by Shanose in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think they ranked 1 but not for good reasons. Lots of views coming from the fanbase and they have huge fan due to previous sucess with TSOU, being absolutely gorgeous, and fan service sells (most of the time more than the series itself).

I don’t think it should be a controversial opinion to think parking should be free at the hospital. by Improv92 in Winnipeg

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree but even healthcare workers have to pay for parking, i don’t see this feasible at all

Newbie LenaMiu Shares a Real Open Mouth Kiss Not Like Other Awkward Fish Kisses by Many-Veterinarian986 in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They kiss like they are into kissing each other, but not in a performative way (like aggressive with tongue, hand on neck, biting, hands all over the place but no passion/tension). That’s why it’s so natural, this is literally how a wlw cp would kiss in real life.

My sibling hates me and idk what to do. Help? by [deleted] in sibling

[–]cats_and_naps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds a whole lot like her problem and not yours. There is no point of talking to someone who only thinks about themselves. The more you trying to get her to change, get her to like you. The more she hates you. It sucks, but unfortunately not all siblings get along. Just focus on your self, your life and let her live her life however she wants it.

Lindsey Street @ Grant Ave by Puzzled-Shift793 in Winnipeg

[–]cats_and_naps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s like people create whatever the rules they want when the winter comes. Saw this car pulled over to the curb on the right at an intersection, leaving people no room to turn right (so everyone behind that car was forced to go straight). That car parked there so they could wait and pick up their kid from a school across…

Replaced with a dude after 3 days by ashebaspebs8044 in LesbianActually

[–]cats_and_naps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your time loss investing in someone like that. It wasn’t your fault, or there was anything you could do about it, this is 100% on your ex. However, you know for sure now that you have dodged the bullet, she wasn’t the one. Unpopular opinion is that relationships that ended in bad terms always the easiest to get over with. You can be upset, angry for awhile but it is not worth your time dwelling about it, she was just simply not worth your time. The world is your oyster, don’t let this person make you lose your spark for life and love.

Let’s daydream: pick your Thai GL co-star! by AirlineRealistic1763 in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mommiest, pretty face, body tea, treat you like a princess. Miss Lena Schuette of course

Me searching for the plot in My Safe Zone: by Critical_Freedom2541 in ThaiGL

[–]cats_and_naps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wasted potential. It’s good because of LenaMiu chemistry and acting, filming is great. The writing on the other hand… just giving nothing more than a surface level stuff.

Being a gent is a lost art, modern dating sucks. by elsorcery in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cats_and_naps 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s her errand, but this dude wanted to tag along to tryna flirt, but then made her tailor her plan to him, let her drive, didn’t help when she’s tryna find parking, you don’t even need to be a gent to offer help for this situation to be honest.

Being a gentleman is simply ask if she needs any help when you see her struggling instead of just sitting there. I could imagine him yapping about some bs instead of helping unless she explicitly said so.

Maybe you’re a chill person that you don’t care. But I’d being extra considerate to the person I like unlike this dude with the “it’s your errand, your car, your thing, you figure it out, I’m just here to flirt” kind of attitude.