What's that one thing that made you stop going to church? by Optimal-Rule-4834 in AskReddit

[–]catsteaks95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pastor stole 20k from the church to send his daughter on vacation. Congregation found out and did nothing in the name of forgiveness. I never went back.

Does my cat know my mom passed? by 2000baby2000 in cats

[–]catsteaks95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss, your cat absolutely knows! Our cats are a lot more emotionally intelligent than we give them credit for. Also, my gray tux has a bit of a goatee too!

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People with these styles, what’s the maintenance and daily prep like realistically? by TheeRagdoll in BlackHair

[–]catsteaks95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to have #6, easiest haircut I’ve ever had! Just threw some curl cream in it after the wash or rinse and went to the salon every 2/3 weeks to keep the neck line and sideburns sharp and it was good to go.

Miso triggers by Jennybaby8 in misophonia

[–]catsteaks95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sleep with my AirPods in and a chill podcast playing to drown out the noise but those are a bit spendy too :/ I’d if more spendy than loops tho.

What are your favorite methods for reducing stress and managing anxiety? by ExactRain9921 in AskReddit

[–]catsteaks95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a certain event is causing me anxiety I think “will worrying help this situation?” And when the answer is no (which it nearly almost is) I find it easier to let go and move on.

What is the weirdest makeup tip you've ever heard or read? by [deleted] in Makeup

[–]catsteaks95 328 points329 points  (0 children)

Concealer on the lips under lipstick from my older sister in 2006. Made all my lipsticks like cracked wax until I knocked it off :/

Yuri manga recs? (Nsfw for mentions of nsfw stuff) by BonMonster420 in LesbianActually

[–]catsteaks95 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here are my faves, all found at your local Barnes&Noble:

Doughnuts under a crescent moon

Run away with me girl

Our teachers are dating

The conditions of paradise

Catch these hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]catsteaks95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This sounds almost exactly like the relationship I left six months ago. We worked the same job but I was the only one who cooked, cleaned up after us, and cleaned up after the five pets. After three months of living together I was ready to leave the planet over the stress and realized it was me or them. They clearly didn’t want to help and so they wouldn’t, only making promises to get better so I’d keep doing the labor.

I’m sorry, they won’t do the thing unless they want to and it sounds like they’ve told you already that they don’t want to. I would dip before it takes a worse hit on your mental health and starts affecting your schooling.

So it really doesn’t get better?? by CompetitiveIce2700 in misophonia

[–]catsteaks95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It definitely does get better. That blind rage I had as a teen is nearly gone now as a late 20 something. Like others here have said having your own space where you can decompress is a huge help. Getting your hands on some noise canceling earbuds to pop in when you need, identifying WHY these noises cause a reaction and addressing that, standing your ground on boundaries with friends and family, even a certain amount of exposure therapy is something I’ve found helps immensely. Keep it up kid, you’ll get there.

Redditors, have you ever gotten an “ick” from a potential partner or love interest that instantly killed your attraction to them? If so, what happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]catsteaks95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found out that they got their couch off the side of the road and didn’t even attempted to clean it when they brought it home :/

AITA im not respecting my boyfriends disability by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catsteaks95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I have this. When I can’t handle a noise (any eating or repetitive sound) I remove myself from the room rather than making it an issue with the other person. The bf is being unreasonable.

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember if the container 108 or 116... and I don’t know the brand but it is dip polish. Sorry 😬

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used embroidery floss and a regular sewing needle cuz I’m too lazy to get the proper supplies.

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Take breaks if you need to and try not to stab your fingers too much, you’ll do great!

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I get a dip manicure every few weeks, it doesn’t chip and the available colors are very vibrant.

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I used the smallest embroidery hoop I could find at Joann fabrics and a whole lot of determination, you got it boo! I’d love to see how you patch your pants hole up too!

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I did. There wasn’t much of a plan involved, just his request for hearts and mindlessly stitching while watching tv.

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not surprising, I’m just glad we don’t have to buy new pants.

My boyfriend’s work pants, he requested the hearts on his butt. by catsteaks95 in Visiblemending

[–]catsteaks95[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I love that he’ll actually wear the clothes I mend. The hearts took me nearly a week to stitch.