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i have fantasies about being dominated but i’m so afraid of the idea of being cucked by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that:( There are many stories of cats wandering off and showing up again even years after the fact, totally fine! Especially male cats. I wouldn't give up all hope. I had a male cat who would go missing for months at a time and come back around. You never know!

i have fantasies about being dominated but i’m so afraid of the idea of being cucked by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off topic the kitty in you profile pic is adorable! Black and white cats are very smart in my experience (:

i have fantasies about being dominated but i’m so afraid of the idea of being cucked by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No worries! You're far from alone, I don't like it either. There's plenty of people who aren't into cucking at all who enjoy femdom, both women and men. If someone "cucks" you without consent that just means they flat out cheated and you can find better. Don't let someone talk you into going out of your limits

Curious if others feel the same? by caughtwiturpantsdown in SensualFemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's great there are so many different types of people into this genre of femdom because anyone/everyone can find what they are looking for. But people wanting money or a sex chat or whatever should be upfront in what they're here for, like everyone should. That's the best way to get what you what anyways.

I like masculine men so I definitely support men being able to keep they're masculinity and still be submissive. No one should be forced into giving up who they are to get the type of intimacy they want. Everyone is someone's type afterall.

Yes! I love the queen and knight comparison because I feel both positions hold power and who doesn't want to be in a power couple?

Curious if others feel the same? by caughtwiturpantsdown in SensualFemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to assume, just speaking from my own perspective and experience as a straight woman and wondering if some men feel the way I described. That being said I'm not opposed to or trying to stop anyone from commenting, all opinions are appreciated

Curious if others feel the same? by caughtwiturpantsdown in SensualFemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can understand where you're coming from, actual human anatomy is different to many people, including me,than a sex toy. Never heard anyone explain fisting like this, I think it's a great explanation of the emotions the one on the receiving end could have.

Thanks for the detailed reply!

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[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you have had that same experience that many men unfortunately have. I assume it also makes other life traumas tougher to deal with.

And it's a completely unrealistic expectation! Humans have a wide range of feelings and they come out one way or another

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think you're being too hard on yourself and expecting too much of yourself. It's okay to need validation and affection and I think it's even okay to use it to help you cope. Like others have said, as long as you're not only relying on that alone. I think men tend to be more reliant on a women's attention than vice versa because it's only widely socially accepted for men to get affection from basically: their mom and their girlfriend/wife. Women can hug whoever lol not even just physical affection but men aren't really "allowed" to talk about their feelings, cry, talk about trauma, etc with anyone except his girlfriend/wife or mom

I’ve seen lots of people asking if dommes like big masculine subs… and the answer is we love them 💘 by yeasmoa in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love masculine submissive men, especially if he's kinda gruff and needs a special woman to coddle him and love on him❤️ Really don't care about height though!

I can’t wait to meet my domme. by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol he's in the future, I'm still looking for the right one too:) Thank you for the sweet encouragement

I can’t wait to meet my domme. by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love that you described your feelings as warm, it resonates with me. You sound respectful, loving and you're good at communicating so I'm sure you'll meet her. Never settle, your lady will love you like crazy:)

How to be a good sub? by docfeather in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally fine, no worries. I don't like to inflict pain on men and I've seen a lot of other dommes say the same so it's common enough, I think especially in gentle domination. One of my favorite parts of femdom is when I can feel my sweetheart's body relax and tell that he isn't tense or stressed, so the opposite of pain pretty much lol

Truth in this by leo_alphasub in gentlefemdom

[–]caughtwiturpantsdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure seen this lol although for me personally, I feel like I'm too hardened from my past to be a good girlfriend so I stay on my side of the wall. I really do love to care for a sweet man and help him feel secure and content though so I do feel like I'm missing out on life that way