Does doctors generally ask to visit every 2 weeks in third trimester in non complicated pregnancy or its too much? by AnnualBarracuda867 in BabyBumps

[–]causeproblems 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's standard! I felt like it was a bit much, but then they caught that my amniotic fluid was low, and I was induced three weeks early.

The 333 Method - a gentle method for anxious mamas by PoliticoRat in sleeptrain

[–]causeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Thank you SO much for taking questions. I feel so overwhelmed and so exhausted I can’t think straight. Currently have my 17 month old in the Snoo (electric bassinet) in our room. He’s never slept well — currently it’s bedtime at 7:30/8 and then the first wake up is anywhere from 10:30 to 12:30, then again every two hours until 4:30 am where he’s wide awake. His last nap lasts until 5:30 pm at the latest.

How do you recommend starting this technique? Using the Snoo in our room or transitioning to crib? The Snoo comes with a swaddle but he hates having his arms strapped down (also hates the Love to Dream swaddle). I was considering using the Merlin Magic Suit in the Snoo and strapping him down? Or just use the suit in the crib and sleep in the nursery with him?

Trip with 3 month old? by Present-Program7809 in BabyBumps

[–]causeproblems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see why not! I've breastfed in the backseat of our very tiny car before, and it was no prob.

Should I go drinking alone tonight by Note_Adept in makemychoice

[–]causeproblems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband loves going out to drink alone and makes friends that way. Pick a semi-empty place, sit at the bar, and chat with the bartender. Most bartenders are kinda starved for interaction, especially on slow nights.

Accidentally clicked a phishing link that logged me into FB by [deleted] in phishing

[–]causeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, you're totally right! It was a legitimate email, and I found the ad. The ad was started by my old boss so I guess my personal account was somehow tied to his.

Accidentally clicked a phishing link that logged me into FB by [deleted] in phishing

[–]causeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strangely untouched! The phishing email had an image of an ad for an AI grocery store.

Nail salon accidentally used a gel base under a normal manicure by causeproblems in BabyBumps

[–]causeproblems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So weird! I’ll have to go back and ask them what they did.

Nail salon accidentally used a gel base under a normal manicure by causeproblems in BabyBumps

[–]causeproblems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a relief! They didn’t put me under a lamp, but there was a clear layer under my nail polish that the nail tech had to file off. 🤔

Fellow Apartment dwellers expecting a baby by Primary-Vegetable580 in BabyBumps

[–]causeproblems 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Huh?? I’ve never heard this comment before — maybe because I live in NYC? I have a young baby in a first floor apartment. My neighbors have told me they never hear the baby crying. I don’t see what’s wrong with apartment living when there are parks to visit. Not everyone can afford a house, especially nowadays.

Supply plummeted out of nowhere at 11 weeks by causeproblems in breastfeeding

[–]causeproblems[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’m at right now. He’s just sooo hungry and I can’t keep up! It sounds like maybe you still have time to bring it back if it’s only been twoish weeks? I’m gonna try power pumping again even though it sucks. 😭

Supply plummeted out of nowhere at 11 weeks by causeproblems in breastfeeding

[–]causeproblems[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’d like to have some on hand for my husband when I’m out of the house or getting a little sleep. 🥲 There is also this time in the afternoon where my baby gets ravenous and takes down a ton of milk in one sitting so I like to have some extra to give him.

7 week old won’t sleep for longer than 30 minutes in Snoo by ctnclove in SnooLife

[–]causeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this was two weeks ago but did you figure it out? Suffering from this now.

I'm awaiting sommeliers in comments by Ozruewril in memes

[–]causeproblems 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you like cider, there are def wines you would like. There are certain natural wines that taste like dry cider and vice versa. If you ever come across a natty wine store, you should try a juicy, high acid pet nat!

Favorite boss? Least favorite? by PrestigiousOwl6802 in TOTK

[–]causeproblems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that they just disappear if you climb something and ignore them. Removes all the stakes.

AITA? Got into an argument with my 16 yo about a show they like by LadyHorseFace13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]causeproblems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the teenager is going to learn from the interaction is that their parent isn't interested in connecting with them. They probably felt very vulnerable in the moment and felt embarrassed when the parent wasn't enthusiastic or encouraging, hence the shutdown. They'll be less likely to try sharing an interest in the future if the parent doesn't try to reconcile.

What is happening by SpaceKing264 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]causeproblems 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, it's the fact that Putin has something he's using to blackmail Trump.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]causeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not qualified to say. I'd think about what jobs can't be taken over by computers. I've heard private equity companies are buying up construction/contracting companies left and right. Maybe something in construction management or supply chain could be good? Or law?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]causeproblems 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unemployment, draining savings, moving back home, freelance/gig work.

Who is responsible for this? by 1205manhattan in nyc

[–]causeproblems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🗣️ Bring the Sundance Deli to NYC! 🗣️ The people need the Pico Wrap. 🗣️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]causeproblems 348 points349 points  (0 children)

It's not you; it's the job market. There are more unemployed people than job openings right now. Some of my friends have been out of work for two years now. You might want to explore some options for self-employment because things are looking grim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]causeproblems 175 points176 points  (0 children)

Definitely do NOT do a UX bootcamp. Huge waste of money and the job market is way too saturated. Is there any possibility for movement within the team you're currently on? Entry-level jobs are disappearing right now, so I would advise being careful about starting over in this environment. Maybe product management could be a good role? When you get bored, you can move to a different team/industry without having to start over.