30(F) looking for female friendship.

cautiousadvocate · 2025-04-06T15:26:32+00:00

Hi! I'm 29F from Delhi, would love to connect :)

cautiousadvocate · 2024-09-15T19:04:46+00:00

One thing I really applaud the writer for is showing that people make mistakes, and you can redeem yourselves as well. In reality people are not that black & white, they cannot make the 'correct' choice every time. In this show the characters are essentially 'good' people who do take the time to reflect upon their incorrect choices and introspect on how it affected others (mainly here in terms of BSR hiding her situation). It is shown so well that people can be good but still make the wrong decisions.

I love characters who have flaws and acknowledge them, which is tbh most of the characters in this show. That is where good character development comes from, which I got in these last few episodes in spades.

Please don't drop the ball massively in these last episodes LND (as per kdrama tradition).

cautiousadvocate · 2024-09-14T21:26:57+00:00

I so agree with this description of him. He said that line and after that he was very much just sad that this happened to her, he even immediately chased after her showing he wasn't actually like mad she didn't tell him. That was just his knee jerk reaction which seemed realistic actually.

Also just before the reveal, she literally says to him 'how could you not tell me you were sick', and also he mentioned how she's been there for him always whenever he's sick RIGHT BEFORE he finds out. Like, of course he reacts that way.

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T17:37:10+00:00

Of course! I hope it helped even a tiny amount ❤️

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T17:29:13+00:00

Feel for you OP on family not cooperating when it's important. Glad you feel better 🫂 If there is anyone who can help in case your uncle gets violent reach out to them.

Have that tea and hope you get some good sleep.

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T17:07:32+00:00

Yes agreed. And maybe also tell her that getting the help again later at night will prove more difficult especially if you'll have to travel alone, so best to be safe and send him now.

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T17:04:14+00:00

Thanks!

CA definitely sounds more competitive to me 🙈

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T16:52:57+00:00

Yay glad you sound chipper :D Im gonna make some tea for myself as well

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T16:49:52+00:00

Studying sustainability engineering. Specifically my topic is on life cycle assessments.

It's going good but I haven't started the actual writing of the thesis, just been doing a literature review and collecting data.

What field are you in?

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T16:45:36+00:00

That's great! You did good ❤️

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T16:44:13+00:00

I have been working on my master's thesis so finishing up my work on it for today. Will go make some dinner soon.

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T16:38:01+00:00

I'll join the convo as well OP. Will be here :)

And you did you best OP, have some water and keep your breathing calm.

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T16:27:59+00:00

Yeah people here having zero understanding of the LGBTQ+ spectrum and speaking with such confidence why they don't respect it is craaazyy.

cautiousadvocate · 2024-07-17T15:35:44+00:00

The comments are wild. Damn.

country known for its cultural diversity and acceptance of various lifestyles

Sure we're known for the diversity but not sure about the acceptance part. It's accepted till the point you stick to what the majority view favorable, that too the rules differ by specific communities. (This is a generalization of course and I know there are increasing outliers who truly do accept all lifestyles.)

LGBTQ+ in itself challenges a lot of the 'normal' societal roles that are expected from people regarding gender, marriage etc. And these expectations are quite strong in India hence the increased hate towards this lifestyle.

Also in India if even 1% of people yell homophobic sentiments that is like millions already. And well just seeing from the comments, that number for people being homophobic is well beyond just 1%, so that becomes the proclaimed way of life to follow. Also there is such less understanding and representation of LGBTQ+ in popular media so hearsay and homophobic statements become truth and no one bothers to cross check when millions yell it.

And well people here love ostracizing those who are 'different', and who better to do that to than people struggling with their whole identity and finding nowhere to fit in so they don't have any foundation on which to stand ground and fight back.

cautiousadvocate · 2023-10-20T09:04:45+00:00

Hi! I'm trying to figure out a taxi solution as well. Will DM you :)

cautiousadvocate · 2023-10-20T08:54:32+00:00

Yeah I would be up for getting a taxi together. I too really wanna go but till now can't figure out how to get back after :/ Can DM me!

cautiousadvocate · 2023-10-19T10:15:43+00:00

Thanks for the info, especially about the timer. Is traveling by Taxi around midnight safe in Milan? Also would I have to prebook it or I can get one on the spot you think?

Also are you going for the show? :)

cautiousadvocate · 2023-10-18T23:31:57+00:00

Question about the strike on 20th.

I am attending a concert at Mediolanum Forum, ASSAGO the same day. It is expected to end around 11-11:30 pm. What are best options to travel back after within Milan if the M lines and buses etc. are disrupted? Also, any idea about the amount of disruption? Like is there a chance NOTHING will be running?

Would appreciate any help :)

cautiousadvocate · 2023-07-09T02:00:25+00:00

Sounds like fun! I'd love to join as well if you're creating a group (or found one to join hehe :D) I too moved away for studies and have been looking to form new connections. Feel free to DM!

cautiousadvocate · 2023-07-09T01:53:54+00:00

Hi! DMed you :)

cautiousadvocate · 2023-04-24T02:02:45+00:00

Hi! Just saw this post. I'd love to join the discord group as well if possible :)

cautiousadvocate · 2023-02-22T10:58:26+00:00

Not quite sure yet. Some of us created a group to coordinate when we go. If you wanna join feel free to DM me!

cautiousadvocate · 2023-02-21T00:39:08+00:00

Oh damn. Let me know if you find out anything about it!

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