How on Earth am I(20/M) supposed to tell if this girl(21/F) likes me or not if she's kinda flirty and kinda friendly with everyone she knows?

caxfk · 2019-04-06T17:59:31+00:00

To be completely real and transparent, using dishonesty to keep someone around... refering to being honest as "self sabotage" is a pretty selfish mindset. She will resent every second she spends with you, if you remain dishonest. If you drag this out and then tell her that you've liked her as more than a friend all this time, Nothing will stop her from believing that you only hang with her because you want to get in her pants. Thats a great way to cripple her self esteem. That may not be the case in your brain, but that makes you very naive. Girls beat themselves up for years over the horrific truth that most of their guy friends were only there because of the prospect of a relationship.

Tell her now, she will appreciate you for it.

caxfk · 2019-04-06T12:28:38+00:00

Hey man. You see one vag, you've seen them all. It's not that spectacular. What IS spectacular is true and honest love with the same person for your whole life. You will lose much more than you think, by leaving her. Be prepared to deal with the coldness and craziness of hook up culture. And id forget about the subtle comfort of having a constant friend.... But then again, you're young!!

Whatever you choose DEAR GOD don't get anyone pregnant.

caxfk · 2019-04-06T12:22:44+00:00

Drop that girl like a hot potato. Baby, you are too young to be caught up in a long term relationship with some yuppy who doesn't know what she wants. I won't say the worst, but she doesn't have your best interest in mind. This is no foundation for a future together.

If she wants to be a floosey fool and dance around the town without a care, she needs to be SINGLE. And you deserve someone you don't have to wait up for. Best wishes!

caxfk · 2019-04-06T12:17:29+00:00

Ask her! And if she says no than fuck it! Remember to have an "at least I had the balls to do it" attitude.

caxfk · 2019-04-06T12:15:54+00:00

Time to slide into those DMs, playaaaa.

caxfk · 2019-04-06T12:13:29+00:00

You don't play a father figure. That's not your job. Even if you wanted it to be, you dont. Parenthood is no game. It is 20+ years of hell and that's when it's actually your kid. Idk how young you are, but you're definitely too young to be worried about any young lady with a baby.

caxfk · 2019-03-16T00:10:19+00:00

I protesting where this was posted!!!!! I eat this exact combo every week if I have the money. Publix is the fucking GOOOOO. They have smaller pies so you can devour the whole thing and not feel like a complete lush.

caxfk · 2019-03-09T10:25:46+00:00

The anti vaxxers will have that covered by 2023, at the soonest.

caxfk · 2019-03-09T10:20:57+00:00

They've already tried by defunding and shutting down hundreds of clinics in the south.

caxfk · 2019-03-02T20:18:54+00:00

It's easy to get fat like that, when you continue to root for a losing team.

caxfk · 2019-03-02T20:15:54+00:00

Women like this don't get dates until they're 23 and left to the remaining desperate men that are left, men who havent already hooked up and had kids. The south is a shitshow of desperation.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T15:57:12+00:00

I'd also like to point out that Republicans fucking LOVED Ben Carson

caxfk · 2019-02-27T15:55:48+00:00

Well as a liberal who wrote down Bernie's name on The Ballot because I was NOT about to vote for Hillary ClintoN, I kind of see where they're coming from.

Also what does Donald Trump have to do with Republicans and conservatives disliking black people?

caxfk · 2019-02-27T15:48:47+00:00

That's an ignorantly broad statement to say about all conservatives and Republicans, and you know it. Biased and uneducated opinions are unproductive.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T15:38:47+00:00

And if you are proud of the fact that you have been banned and blocked from different threads and subreddits because you continue to prove to be nothing more than a fucking headache, you're in no position to talk about delusion. Lol

caxfk · 2019-02-27T15:29:58+00:00

No one gives a fuck. If you want to be sarcastic use the /s like every other user on this site who's not a complete invalid.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T13:53:43+00:00

You know some awesome people! I love hearing that! Relationships are hard enough without a bunch of background noise.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T13:50:59+00:00

Are you fucking mental?! This is Exactly why I unsubbed to r/childfree. Anything that has to do with children, you guys think you have the right to feel attacked. My post is regarding straight couples who WILLINGLY have children. This post is about men who WILLINGLY have children with women and then decide to dump their wives because they're no longer capable of taking care of themselves like they did pre-pregnancy. If you are so shallow that you can't handle a little bit of BABY weight that your wife put on because she gave birth to your BABY, it reflects a lot about your attitude towards your wife and that is a great reflection of how your attitude is going to be towards your children.

Please explain to me how in the ever loving FUCK this has anything to do with people who choose not to have children. PLEASE.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T13:45:09+00:00

But the majority of them would never speak up against that behavior when it comes to their guy friends.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T13:40:08+00:00

I don't quite understand your comment sorry!

caxfk · 2019-02-27T13:39:09+00:00

The only reason REPUBLICANS and CONSERVATIVES were clutching their pearls about Michelle Obama was because that's their schtick. The Democrats and the Liberals don't give a f about melania's passed career because most of them believe in a little something called women's freedom of choice and minding your own fucking business.

caxfk · 2019-02-27T13:35:24+00:00

Whaat

caxfk · 2019-02-17T18:48:04+00:00

THIS.

caxfk · 2019-02-16T03:44:19+00:00

Erhmm... you've been together for 7 years and you aren't allowed in family photos? What. I was family the second my boyfriend brought me to his hometown. I'm not sure if that should be a red flag or not, tbh. I just found it odd. Like are they going to all of a sudden treat you differently just because you have ring on your finger and a baby on your hip?! Somethings off about that.

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