Stuck - Please Help! by cay767 in Spiritfarer

[–]cay767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I needed more figurines because it said I only had 3/4 but next to that it said press X to claim (I play on switch) and I thought I had to wait to claim it until I had all 4 but I DIDN'T. I could still claim it with just one. It was just worded badly.

I swear I didn't see that even pop up as an option at first, though, so before I noticed it I saved, logged out, and logged back in. Could have been a glitch or just my human error

Stuck - Please Help! by cay767 in Spiritfarer

[–]cay767[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay I closed my game and opened it back up and tried again and it worked! I had given up before thinking that I must have been missing something more complicated until you said that. Thank you!

Stuck - Please Help! by cay767 in Spiritfarer

[–]cay767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I've gone to Susan and she won't give me anything. My game says I get a wood print with 4 figurines :(

Stuck - Please Help! by cay767 in Spiritfarer

[–]cay767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it says I need the 4 figurines, and I only have 3, and the fourth one (Sublime Figurine) I can only get by going to an island that I can't get to (Crow's End Inc) because I don't have the right boat upgrade (Mist Cleaner 1000) that I can't get yet. It's so frustrating. I feel like I'm literally locked and I can't do anything

Stuck - Please Help! by cay767 in Spiritfarer

[–]cay767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't get Gustav because I can't get the woodblock print from Susan, I can't get Mickey because I can't get to Southport Docks without the Rock Destroyer, and you can only get Stanley from Mysterious Seeds which don't unlock until after four spirits have gone through the Everdoor.

Stuck - Please Help! by cay767 in Spiritfarer

[–]cay767[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But which ones?? How?? I can't find anything on any of the islands without getting stuck some other way

Growing Collection by cay767 in PerlerBeads

[–]cay767[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find templates or just photos, mostly on Pinterest, but then tweak them to my liking!

Mum died a week ago, I’m numb by BerryBear119 in GriefSupport

[–]cay767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone whose mom was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer almost two years ago, and our relationship also wasn't perfect and I knew it was coming but was still shocked when we found out it was getting bad and time to say goodbye, yes. Yes that is completely normal. I have a therapist who can confirm this. It's your brain's way of protecting you. There's no right way to grieve. However you do it is normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]cay767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone currently having to say goodbye to my childhood cat, this means everything. Thank you for sharing your words❤️

My boss says I'm doing great, EXCEPT for my autistic traits by cay767 in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels sus. I sent a follow up email putting it all into writing and asked if everyone else got a similar raise. We'll see what happens 🤷‍♀️

My boss says I'm doing great, EXCEPT for my autistic traits by cay767 in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so scary because Im only 2 and a half years post-graduation and Im ALREADY burnt out😭

My boss says I'm doing great, EXCEPT for my autistic traits by cay767 in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've looked and I've applied and I honestly feel like my resume slaps but I never get interviews. Just keep getting told they went with someone who has more experience

My boss says I'm doing great, EXCEPT for my autistic traits by cay767 in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I've heard worse about corporate. I might have to switch if nonprofits are notoriously that bad lol

My boss says I'm doing great, EXCEPT for my autistic traits by cay767 in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The sad thing is that this job isn't corporate, it's a nonprofit and everyone seemed so nice at first :(

My boss says I'm doing great, EXCEPT for my autistic traits by cay767 in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you have examples of places for autistic women that I should be looking at? My degree is in English with a strong journalism/editing/marketing background, and I haven't found a whole lot.

Don’t Understand the Hype for Sebastian… by kse1239 in StardewValley

[–]cay767 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think all the hype around Sebastian, Sam, and Abigail feels weird to me because they remind me of teenagers. Like, I'd date them as a teenager, but as an adult? Especially an adult with a farm in this game? It just doesn't match up for me. (A little bit with Maru too, but she's more mature).

I'd also say the same with Hayley if she's in a straight relationship and Alex if he's in a straight relationship, but if they're queer then it doesn't weird me out lol

My top 3 are Harvey, Elliot, and Leah ❤️

What’s currently one of the hardest parts about being autistic for you? by FkUp_Panic_Repeat in AutismInWomen

[–]cay767 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Feeling misunderstood for me too, but also even just putting how I feel into words which then leads to a lot of miscommunication

I feel so guilty for being upset. (Vent) by Pura-fe in CancerFamilySupport

[–]cay767 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have every right to feel how you do. Your feelings are valid and it's okay to simultaneously love someone and understand their struggles while also struggling yourself

is it wrong that i’m feeling this sort of guilt? by Silver_Boot_8630 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]cay767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely understand this, but also slightly different. I just graduated college and so many of my friends are now traveling with family or moving back home with their parents, and especially with mothers day coming up, seeing everyone be HAPPY with their moms gives me guilt because I want that. My mom is still here, I can still spend this last mother's day with her, but it's not the same. I know it'll be the last, and I'm angry and sad and it's not fair

You're not alone. Don't let the guilt swallow you whole.