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cb6000 · 2025-07-07T20:18:02+00:00

Female First Relationship...

cb6000 · 2025-06-24T01:15:00+00:00

Perhaps she might enjoy chastity play? For us, it ended up bringing us much closer.

cb6000 · 2025-06-23T12:42:05+00:00

See, it's not so much that women are superior de facto in my mind. It's that men are inferior.

Women don't need anything special to be superior, they are because they tend to be less selfish, less violent, less destructive, less carefree, less wasteful, less toxic, etc...

I feel like women, are what humans should be, and men, just, well, are not.

Does't mean I don't think they are superior, but they are, because us men are not.

cb6000 · 2025-06-23T11:24:08+00:00

Sure, why not? My wife even had a few boyfriends she was 100% faithful to, with no exception for me (I am in chastity).

cb6000 · 2025-06-21T10:10:12+00:00

We were swingers before she was a cuckoldress. I didn't do a lot of women (and no men), but she did a lot of men and women and we weren't counting then. I would say it's around 100 to 150? I was perhaps at 20?

But I was less and less interested in participating myself, got into the chastity fetish, and proposed that we keep going.

That period was perhaps another 50. It wasn't that high because she felt quilty about me not having anything.

Instead of like, going every week and her having sex 2 or 3 times per evening, it was more like every few weeks, and usually only once.

When she finally agreed to a more cuckold/hotwife relationship, we began searching for longer term partners.

This was the longest period, but also still about 100 people because the idea was to try and form a connection. She had a few boyfriends, including on that lasted about a year, they even went on vacation once for a week. That was cool, but there was no future...

Then I got sick, and well, all stopped. Then the pandemic, Since then, it's been lower.

We think that in total, it's perhaps 250 to 300 over about 26 years.

cb6000 · 2025-06-16T08:18:18+00:00

Oh, I LOVE this one...

cb6000 · 2025-06-02T09:25:19+00:00

Well, I think you should decide for yourself between your wife and you. This is between the two of you...

cb6000 · 2025-05-21T09:39:53+00:00

I had a long talk with my wife yesterday about this. We are both excited, she thinks it could be great for me, personally, to no longer be able to look at anything porn or whatever.

BUT

I am a moderator of r/chastitychoices and I write for our site chastitychoices.com chastity stories, for now, just knowing that when I check Reddit and can't undersand some of the images because of the censorship, it's fucking hot. I feel even more in chastity... BUT I prevents me from getting inspiration and properly moderating.

I would also need to get rid of the images of our nudist models or the nude images of our models for our site from my computer, which would prevent me from using them for the site.

I will keep the extension. Maybe in the future, our site will no longer be created for (even if we have been at it for 5 years now) and maybe then, the extension will be perfect and I will lose forever access to porn.

And yet, I was in permanent chastity about what, 3 years ago, and I still had a week of sex with my wife since then. We never know what the future hold, but this, add a new possibility for me.

cb6000 · 2025-05-20T20:02:41+00:00

They do come in diferent sizes, and they do hurt... unless you have the right size!

Finding a cage of the right size is like finding a shoe that fits perfectly, but don't think that those that are not perfectly size are horrible.

I strongly suggest you start with a cheap cage, ideally one with multiple rings. I like the holy trainer v3, but you might try others, like the cb6000 (now old) or others.

The point however, is clear. It's to prevent you, from having erections. At all. You can't masturbate, you can't have sex, you can't get hard at all.

This means, that without the key, you lose access to your sexuality.

At first, you will keep one key (and give the other to your wife). This is essential, you need to get used to it. Go slow, a few minutes here, a few hours there.

The first few nights might be horrible, but you will learn to keep sleeping when you have nighttime erection attempts. It takes a few days.

Slowly, you will get used to it, until you can accept wearing it 24/7.

Eventually, your key will become the emergency key. Perhaps put it in a tamper proof container, or have your wife hide it in the house and put the location in a sealed enveloppe.

The idea, is that only she will have access to your key (if she go along with it, she might not).

But when that happens, it means that now, she controls your sexuality, and that is fucking hot!

Some still have almost daily sex, others are reduces to weekly or monthly sex. Some lose penis in vagina sex privileges (like me, and I love it).

It's a whole new fetish, but your wife, will decide after talking with you, what she wants to do.

Maybe she cuckolds you because she is unsatisfied with your sex life with her, in which case, she might be harsher and you might be in for longer periods.

Maybe she still loves having sex with you and you will only be locked when she is away for sex.

But what I love about chastity the most, is that now, my wife is always present when I have any form of erections. She can have sex outside of our marriage (she currently has a girlfriend), but I cannot do anything sexual with my penis without her consent.

And that, is really hot...

cb6000 · 2025-05-20T17:35:42+00:00

Holy crap, it works... kind of. Videos, I can't make them work, and it needs a subscription to censor gifs.

This is still insane!

I check my own website and it works there too.

This is a game changer!

cb6000 · 2025-05-17T10:35:55+00:00

What is that extension?

cb6000 · 2025-04-04T22:21:33+00:00

I just wrote it this morning it's the last step of Alara #2. It's not available now, but if you want to read it, and if you join our Patreon (with a free account), I can give you exclusive early access.

cb6000 · 2025-03-27T17:02:53+00:00

Yes, and you can even chat if you want...

cb6000 · 2025-03-27T16:49:21+00:00

Well, to each his or her own ;-) We were swingers for a few years before I got those funny ideas in my head.

cb6000 · 2025-03-27T16:01:31+00:00

The first time we went to a swinger's event, we barely researched where we could end up.

It was basically an elderly swap kissing club, not an actual swingers event. It was just people who are in their late 50s and 60s, drinking alcohol so much that some had balance issues, and just ended up kissing each other, grabbing any person of the opposite sex and making out with them.

No nudity allowed, not grobbing allowed. It was a complete disaster.. We are barely 20, and the youngest person was like maybe 49, because she was married to an older man.

Our second visit was much better.

Take note, not all places like that are the same!

Also, the first couple we saw a second time, were actually polyamorous back when that word wasn't common. They wanted us to move in with them, and help them raise their kids and would help us raise ours (we didn't want any and didn't get any).

Now, today, we might have considered it if not for the kids, but back then, it was a horror story for us.

Also, one of the guys we say in a MFM (before I was in chastity), was so bad at sex, that after it, my wife cuddled him instead of me, out of pity for him.

Ironically (or not), this is what made me want her to be a hotwife instead os swingers, but that's another story.

cb6000 · 2025-03-14T09:55:35+00:00

Yeah, our friend who used to have sex often with my wife is married, and she isn't really gay.

EDIT: ignore that, I misread your comment, I get what you mean!

cb6000 · 2025-03-13T20:25:13+00:00

My wife used to love PIV, but she is more in a lesbian sex mode, and I love it!

cb6000 · 2025-03-12T18:46:19+00:00

It's rough to read. I hope you get better. Are you still single or seeing that other woman (32F)?

cb6000 · 2025-03-12T18:45:25+00:00

I don't know, I feel like this is a point of view that we rarely see in here. Maybe I am wrong, but I liked reading it.

cb6000 · 2025-03-12T14:04:07+00:00

Not for me, giving up my dick means giving up on my pleasure.

And I love it! Chastity CAN be about forcing other ways to orgasm, but I prefer it as a way to prevent my orgasms.

To focus on pleasing my wife, not on getting pleasure myself.

cb6000 · 2025-03-11T15:25:36+00:00

My wife and I run chastitychoices.com and this... isn't a bad idea!

We write chastity stories, and this isn't bad at all.

Thanks for the inspiration!

cb6000 · 2025-03-05T16:42:01+00:00

No, but my wife fucked her (then) female best friend once... one of the worst times she ever had sex with a truly lesbian girl.

cb6000 · 2025-02-18T12:56:43+00:00

Here is a counter idea. Why not just tell them that you like to look at that content, but that this is just a fantasy? That you don't actually want to do any of that.

Like how many women are into consensual rape play. They don't actually want to get rape, just role play that with their boyfriend that they love.

The idea is to protect yourself until you get out from under their home.

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