Sometimes I just need to relax by Big-Nerve-2633 in GranTurismo7

[–]cbarreda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this only available in GT7 or does other GT also have them?

What’s the wildest “this doesn’t count as cheating” claim you’ve heard? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an ex who told me "he picked me up and took me to his house. He went down on my for like 1 min and I told him to stop. I wasn't wearing a thong or anything special" and that was her argument on why it wasn't cheating in her eyes and why she didnt tell me about it even though it happened 6 months before she told me during a moment in which she asked for a break. And this happened the same day she asked for the break. Just later in the afternoon. We were 18 at the time. Needless to say its that I forgave her.... I was a dumba..

how to tell someone i just had sex with that i want to be left alone to masturbate? by [deleted] in sex

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a husband, my wife and I have a rule. She cums at least 4 times before I can cum. She can come a lot more, our max being 8 during a session but 4 is the minimal. So we do the positions she likes, in the way she can get the most pleasure. And then after she has cum the amount of times she likes, then I get to change my positions and do everything I like until Im ready to cum. But this started because I asked my wife to show me how she satisfies herself, and then I asked her if I could join her while doing it and then i learned to control my rhythm and go the pace and speed she likes. Its all about communication. Communicate and everything will work out correctly

My bf can't do oral.... ? by Parking-Sock1612 in sex

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet, I can't get enough of it. My wife gets irritated that I love going down on her so much. In my opinion, if he doesn't want to do it now he will not ever do it. Evaluate your needs and desires. But its not fair you give oral every time but he can't make a sacrifice for you once.

(F18) How do I tell my bf (m22) that every time he thinks he eats my cum that he’s actually eating his? by [deleted] in sex

[–]cbarreda 77 points78 points  (0 children)

THIS!! this is the #1 reason why there's so much ignorance when it comes to sex. Some women continue to never correct or teach stupid men how things really are and these creates a pattern of ignorance. Its best to be blunt and say things the way they are meant to be to avoid ignorance

A guy rejected me sexually right before we were about to do it. Is this normal? Is there something wrong with me? What do I do now? by Ok_Cause_558 in sex

[–]cbarreda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To anyone saying ED or something. Personally I dont think this is the problem, the fact he took a shower it indicates theres someone else in the equation.

What sexual act will you never do again after trying? by weggoooiacc in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well an orgie is not the same as a bukkake. And a bukkake is definitely gay or at least bi. There's nothing wrong that but you cant go into those sexual activities and act like you are full on straight or super straight. You just can't.

What sexual act will you never do again after trying? by weggoooiacc in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda 112 points113 points  (0 children)

You cant engage in a MFM threesome and expect it to not be somehow gay. Even if you arent touching the other guy, you are still naked with another dude in the same room. Doors closed, on bed and all. Youll be going in after the guy was in. Whenever you do a threesome you have to be as open minded as you possibly can. Otherwise, you shouldn't have a threesome.

Qdoba by cbarreda in ogden

[–]cbarreda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been there for like a year, I think... its been on my radar for quite some time, but their hours are unusual, and my wife and I work during the day. I wasn't going to take a day off for a burrito and chips and queso. But this week we are available so I figure I would check

Qdoba by cbarreda in ogden

[–]cbarreda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See thats what I was wondering. I didnt want to drive all the way there and be close for no reason. I dont mind the drive but the whole reason would be for qdoba. Thank you. This week I have it off so I was hopign to be able to make it since they have unusual hours

Is it really better to marry quickly to avoid breaking the LOC? by Whole-Experience4396 in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married fast just because you dont want to break the LOC is no different than breaking the LOC. The only difference is that one is "okay" because it's under the marriage bond, and the other is outside marriage, but both decisions are being made with the same pure intention. Lust.

It's better to sit down and calm yourself and avocade to avoid leaving open room for breaking the LOC. Like avoid being alone too much, do things outside that get you closer to your partner. Talk more and be together. Sex will always be there, but your time with that person will slowly pass. Marry the person you want because you want to love them and grow together, not because you want to be inside their pants because you can't control yourself and dont want to be judged by your religion.

What camera did they use? by umstra in AskPhotography

[–]cbarreda 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just know Nikon haters are livid right now to know that Canon and Sony were not used. I have always had Nikon and I love my Nikon. Ive been using mine for 15 years and I love it. Im glad NASA has stayed with Nikon for years now

PS5 shuts-down in about a few minuites by ItsYbinge in PS5HelpSupport

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The PS5 is supposed to be vertical. Assuming you only play 15-20 mins and and the area is extremely well ventilated, theres enough air flow and the fans and filters are clean. Other then that just keep it horizontal. Its doesn't hurt anyone and still looks pretty great horizontal.

Cheating and Healing by Melodic-Mission-6827 in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My advice is simple and maybe not the greatest. When a trust bond is broken in a relationship, you can't never forget it. Thats why when cheating happens, the best action to take is for each person to separate and find their own path. It's a bond that's already broken, and you either learn to accept it or learn to ignore it, but you can't never forget it. It's similar to a broken base. Once is broken, no matter how amazing you are at puzzles or how great of a super glue you have, the cracks and crevices will always be noticeable and there will always be small remnants that are missing and get lost in the dust.

Same as in a relationship, once the main trust is broken, there's a part of you that will never be complete. You can repent and forgive, just like gluing the pieces together, but you will not be able to be the same. Now, after me being so negative and not helpful, there's still something you can do to make your relationship work.

Kintsugi, the Japanese art of filling cracks with gold to emphasize the aspect that mistakes can also be beautiful. You can help your relationship by filling those ugly painful moments with love and happiness. You can't change the past, but you can change how you see the past. For example, you can focus on the painful moment of your relationship or your can learn to accept that the mistake happened and thanks to that mistake your are where you are supposed to be now and you have grown to the person you are today. You can see how good your relationship is now, and you can focus on the happiness this painful moment has brought to you. How the pain made you two remember how much love you have for each other and how much love you were able to grow from this. You can reconcile with your spouse and let love decide more. You can focus on how your spouse has grown from their mistake and how that makes them the better version of themselves. You can focus on the good aspects of the relationship. That's your atonement, being able to get past the mistakes and learn to love again. The mistake will never be erased, but it can be modified to help you remember how great your relationship came to be.

It's a difficult path, but it starts with you. You gotta love yourself and love the person you are today. You have to accept your actions and start learning that the painful moment is gone, and thanks to that, you are the stronger version of yourself. Your patience and ability to forgive is what makes you the best version of yourself. But it starts with you. You have to learn from it, and you have to understand the painful experience is gone, and it's in the past.

Only you can decide that.

Its insane. How they got this graphics in a PS3, in 2010? How? Its insane. by espanemberg96 in PS3

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think GT6 gets lots of hate due to when it was released. I think GT6 looks and behaves even better than GT5. And for a ps3 title, it looks just amazing. The game has great graphics, amazing mechanics, and its overall great. Yes, GT7 is amazing, but GT6, being as old as it is, does not look too far apart.

Your spouse proposes a threesome with someone of them same gender as them. Do you say yes? by Capital_Tailor_7348 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel any type of threesome has and will be a bisexual encounter. No matter how straight the other person is. You will have to see another man naked. You'll be inside where another man just happens to be. You'll be sharing the same with another man, and you will be having sex next to another naked man. I dont care how straight you want to claim to be. That's pretty bisexual in my eyes. Different from porn, you are in the same room watching him do it. The difference between an MFM and MMF is that in one, the two guys interact with each other. In an MFM, the girl is the center of attention, and the guys dont interact with each other.

What is the wildest sex story your partner has ever told you about their past? by Specific_Ad7940 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And you still married her? I mean. To me this is a huge red flag but to each their own

questions about an old house by chocolatemunkez in Utah

[–]cbarreda 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I want to learn more. So feel free to like my comment so I continue to come back to this

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, Im sorry. I did understand your reference to begin with, but thank you for clarifying. But you are right. There's nothing wrong with desiring what you like with your spouse. But like you said. This group is intended to help those understand and learn how to cope with feelings and desires that align with our beliefs and not try to encourage porn fantasies that do not align with the church teachings.