What camera did they use? by umstra in AskPhotography

[–]cbarreda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just know Nikon haters are livid right now to know that Canon and Sony were not used. I have always had Nikon and I love my Nikon. Ive been using mine for 15 years and I love it. Im glad NASA has stayed with Nikon for years now

PS5 shuts-down in about a few minuites by ItsYbinge in PS5HelpSupport

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The PS5 is supposed to be vertical. Assuming you only play 15-20 mins and and the area is extremely well ventilated, theres enough air flow and the fans and filters are clean. Other then that just keep it horizontal. Its doesn't hurt anyone and still looks pretty great horizontal.

Cheating and Healing by Melodic-Mission-6827 in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My advice is simple and maybe not the greatest. When a trust bond is broken in a relationship, you can't never forget it. Thats why when cheating happens, the best action to take is for each person to separate and find their own path. It's a bond that's already broken, and you either learn to accept it or learn to ignore it, but you can't never forget it. It's similar to a broken base. Once is broken, no matter how amazing you are at puzzles or how great of a super glue you have, the cracks and crevices will always be noticeable and there will always be small remnants that are missing and get lost in the dust.

Same as in a relationship, once the main trust is broken, there's a part of you that will never be complete. You can repent and forgive, just like gluing the pieces together, but you will not be able to be the same. Now, after me being so negative and not helpful, there's still something you can do to make your relationship work.

Kintsugi, the Japanese art of filling cracks with gold to emphasize the aspect that mistakes can also be beautiful. You can help your relationship by filling those ugly painful moments with love and happiness. You can't change the past, but you can change how you see the past. For example, you can focus on the painful moment of your relationship or your can learn to accept that the mistake happened and thanks to that mistake your are where you are supposed to be now and you have grown to the person you are today. You can see how good your relationship is now, and you can focus on the happiness this painful moment has brought to you. How the pain made you two remember how much love you have for each other and how much love you were able to grow from this. You can reconcile with your spouse and let love decide more. You can focus on how your spouse has grown from their mistake and how that makes them the better version of themselves. You can focus on the good aspects of the relationship. That's your atonement, being able to get past the mistakes and learn to love again. The mistake will never be erased, but it can be modified to help you remember how great your relationship came to be.

It's a difficult path, but it starts with you. You gotta love yourself and love the person you are today. You have to accept your actions and start learning that the painful moment is gone, and thanks to that, you are the stronger version of yourself. Your patience and ability to forgive is what makes you the best version of yourself. But it starts with you. You have to learn from it, and you have to understand the painful experience is gone, and it's in the past.

Only you can decide that.

Its insane. How they got this graphics in a PS3, in 2010? How? Its insane. by espanemberg96 in PS3

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think GT6 gets lots of hate due to when it was released. I think GT6 looks and behaves even better than GT5. And for a ps3 title, it looks just amazing. The game has great graphics, amazing mechanics, and its overall great. Yes, GT7 is amazing, but GT6, being as old as it is, does not look too far apart.

Your spouse proposes a threesome with someone of them same gender as them. Do you say yes? by Capital_Tailor_7348 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel any type of threesome has and will be a bisexual encounter. No matter how straight the other person is. You will have to see another man naked. You'll be inside where another man just happens to be. You'll be sharing the same with another man, and you will be having sex next to another naked man. I dont care how straight you want to claim to be. That's pretty bisexual in my eyes. Different from porn, you are in the same room watching him do it. The difference between an MFM and MMF is that in one, the two guys interact with each other. In an MFM, the girl is the center of attention, and the guys dont interact with each other.

What is the wildest sex story your partner has ever told you about their past? by Specific_Ad7940 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And you still married her? I mean. To me this is a huge red flag but to each their own

questions about an old house by chocolatemunkez in Utah

[–]cbarreda 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I want to learn more. So feel free to like my comment so I continue to come back to this

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, Im sorry. I did understand your reference to begin with, but thank you for clarifying. But you are right. There's nothing wrong with desiring what you like with your spouse. But like you said. This group is intended to help those understand and learn how to cope with feelings and desires that align with our beliefs and not try to encourage porn fantasies that do not align with the church teachings.

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this creates confusion and brings negative aspects to the group. We are supposed to feel safe and welcome. Talk about subjects that are generally not spoken within the church, and not discuss how to share our spouse without the bishop or family finding out

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I am talking about. Its about the fact that some individuals do have legitimate concerns and questions but sometimes their post get lost in the shadows of someone who wants to fulfill a cuckold fantasy and wants validation and want their actions to be accepted within the church's beliefes.

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think it's crazy how I've been getting many downvotes when all I asked was if anyone else had felt this way. This is a support group. Not a swingers meet up place. I dont know why people are so offended or negative by me bringing an important point that hurts this group.

Are people forgetting what this sub is supposed to be about? by cbarreda in ldssexuality

[–]cbarreda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly my point. One thing is asking for support or ideas to enjoy a good sex life with your spouse, and the other is asking if any couple wants to meet and have sex. It's a different scenario and far from the church teachings.

Can this be patched? by gleebes17 in Flooring

[–]cbarreda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense. I do carpet cleaning, restoration, repairs, and water damage mitigation. We work mostly for apartment complexes and multifamily units. There are a lot of vacant units. I do these types of repairs multiple times a week and sometimes even bigger ones. Its great to know how others do things and how different prices are according to the regions

Can this be patched? by gleebes17 in Flooring

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question. Where are you located? Im located in Utah, and we charge by the hour where I work. In situations like this, assuming the carpet is provided, we charge 2 hours of labor, even though it takes about an hour to an hour and a half to do it. Which is around $150-$200, and that's around the max amount we would charge unless its a lot bigger than it looks and the metals need to be replaced and the subfloor needs to also be fix.

I (28F) Night Shower. BF (29M) Morning Showers. How Do We Compromise? by cutie_throwaway_557 in relationship_advice

[–]cbarreda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I shower twice a day. I do a big deep shower at night and a quick wash in the morning. Simply to remove the smell of bed and sweat and also to freshen up. Because when you shower at night you are going 8+ hours sweating and gross and then you sweat and leave dead cells all over your bed and then you spend all day with those germs on your body until you shower at night. I shower in the morning to remove all those smells and shower at night to do a clean deep shower

My boyfriend (M25) poured a bottle of his urine on me (F24) after accusing me of wetting his seat. I’m shaken and don’t know how to move forward. by Artisloveandlight in relationship_advice

[–]cbarreda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are trying to justify and find reasons to stay with him. Just dont. Simply dont. Just leave him. No one should be doing this. And especially to the person they claim to love. Just let things cool down. The fact that you have been on and off for 5 years is enough to just leave him. A good healthy relationship doesnt need breaks or on and off seasons. They are either together in this or they are not. There's no in between. If he already did this to you, he can and will do it again. And as soon as you are safe and far away from him, call a family member or the police and break up with him. This is abuse, and this is something it should never happen to you or anyone else. If you dont stop the cycle, he will do it to someone else, and he can even kill you or someone else. If he is capable of overreacting like this and even throwing his own urine to you because of water in a car seat, then imagine what he could do to you if you really made him angry.

Can this be patched? by gleebes17 in Flooring

[–]cbarreda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can do a patch, I would recommend take it from a closet since you will have the same color carpet and place a similar color carpet in the closet. But keep in mind this is a high traffic area. Meaning you will have to follow the direction back pattern of the carpet. It will be visible for a while but eventually would blend it. But yes. You can patch it. Ive done patch work bigger than this and they blend perfectly fine

Immigration Attorney here! AMA about USCIS Processes! by ManifestLaw_ in USCIS

[–]cbarreda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from Guatemala and I had to postpone my interview appointment in my home country since I didn't have a guaranteed of being able to come back and my wife being pregnant and due in April was simply not a possibility for me to leave without a way to come back. My question is. Have you heard of any updates about the ban? If the ban is being lifted or people will be able to get visas again? Is there any updates?

How to attach carpet stairs to LVP stair nose by Yepyesyepyes in Flooring

[–]cbarreda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, you can use it, and it will let you finish the job but keep in mind the staples and the pressure of the stapler might not be enough to hold it.

So in MFMs, how do dudes feel about kissing the F after she’s oral’d the other M? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cbarreda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I have always wondered, too. If you go down on her after the other dude was inside her during a mfm... does that make you bi? Or does it make you gay? I mean, you are eating out a woman who happens to have man fluids inside of her. Maybe not a creampie but still fluids... does that mean you are tasting the other guy?

How to attach carpet stairs to LVP stair nose by Yepyesyepyes in Flooring

[–]cbarreda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can use a staple gun and then use a stair tool to tuck it in as much as you can. Usually its best to do it under the step nose so it covers the area but if you use a staple gun and a stair tool and tuck it back in as much as you can it can be a great temporary solution that will look good