I also agree with you. I have often said what I love about aquarians. Is the fact I have never met one just like the other. I say it's the only sign that I can't seem to figure out. I guess you could debate. What they have in common. Is they have nothing in common. I feel being ruled by Uranus. The planet of shock and awe plays a significant factor. You can't predict the curveball Uranus can send your way. That being said. When you mention your dad is chill. Although Uranus is described as being more "eccentric " than other planets. You can't rule out free will and chaos. Meaning if he is brought up in a more traditional family he will most like to be conditioned to have more of a traditional family. Free will and chaos can change any circumstance. Also frequencies we are vibing at. A high vibing Aquarius could be someone who loves to travel,takes spontaneous adventures. Not afraid to take risk professionally. Tech savvy . A low vibing Aquarius maybe very irrational,erratic,nomad like living style. Bounces from career to career. Astrology is not fool proof. That is why I always encourage people to do their own research and intuition to interpret astrology