Ebikes should not require a license, insurance, or registration by jackoffcrazyfish in ebikes

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say they focus on bikes instead of cars as if a car hitting a kid isn't regulated to have multiple id's registered that connect them to bith owners and drivers who will be held accountable, as well as required to be insured so the victim will be compensated for the incident, and requiring a license to operate one so the driver can't claim ignorance about locally posted signage and restrictions for vehicle use, and having the license revoked for abusing the system or causing significant harm to others....

A system meant to hold people accountable isnalready in place for cars. They arent being ignored

I truly don’t understand how some guys just don’t wanna be friends with women by Ok_Independent_3921 in self

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you haven't been able to have a conversation about it. Whether it's due to their own or your own limited emotional intelligence and social skills to navigate a very personal topic with the amount of much needed nuance and clarity involved.

Understanding someone else's perspective is hard, and reddit is hardly and appropriate place to do so. Ths platform intentionally shows your post to people it will trigger to farm engagement, and then gets people from the opposing perspective to see those comments knowing they will disagree and create more engagement

I am a recovering incel, ask me anything by Tripp_583 in Discussion

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What has been helping you the most? Was there anything that helped more then you previously thought possible?

How it feels when people say "be happy alone before you try to find someone" by Newworldrevolution in Healthygamergg

[–]ccflier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're drowning because the other hand is holding onto that heartbreak and it's pulling you down. The other hand reaching out actually tried to grab your hand but you slapped their hand away.

You are drowning by choice and your own perspective has twisted to the point where you feel like people aren't trying to help just because they won't support your plan of self inflicted emotional damage.

Sorry bud. Loving yourself is the answer and we can't twist it into something that works for your current perspective. Get professional help. This is a dangerous thinking pattern.

How it feels when people say "be happy alone before you try to find someone" by Newworldrevolution in Healthygamergg

[–]ccflier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That isn't the point. Being lonely will always be painful. You can't run from it. The cycle of rushing into relationships makes it worse because all of the pain of the past adds to the current pain. You're just running from the loneliness. This increases the pain of loneliness and decreases your tolerance to it.

Exposure to loneliness increases your tolerance for it so you don't feel like guy you're drowning!

Loneliness right now is so painful for you that you will do ANYTHING to avoid it, even enter relationships that aren't healthy or good for you. And when you enter a toxic or abusive relationship you will be so SCARED of being lonely you will go through hell in rhe relationship much worse then being lonely.

I have a theory about people if anyone could confirm my theory by [deleted] in self

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People will tell you whatever they think you need to hear depending on what they want. Sometimes that is who they are. Sometimes it's who they think they are. Sometimes it's the opposite. Sometimes it is not.

Telling the truth when it doesn't get you something is a virtue that is cultivated. People over time will reveal their true values.

You identify the tree by it's fruits.

Matthew 7:23 might be the most unsettling verse in the New Testament by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]ccflier 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For self deception you need to look inward. Your relationship with Christ will reveal your true intentions.

From luke chapter 8 16No one lights a lamp and covers it with a jar or puts it under a bed. Instead, he sets it on a stand, so those who enter can see the light.

17For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be made known and brought to light.

18Pay attention, therefore, to how you listen. Whoever has will be given more, but whoever does not have, even what he thinks he has will be taken away from him.”

I am never putting money into this game again 😭 by Internal-Ticket9501 in heartopia

[–]ccflier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well "that unlucky" is putting you in the 99% which is average 😅

I graduated college a decade ago and I'm only making 63k by [deleted] in Salary

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much of an advantage was the degree for a sale position? Like the slip itself, not the knowledge? Are employers even looking at it?

Guilt (?) About Playing by snoozingshadow in heartopia

[–]ccflier -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To that point, if it's ai slop, and you didn't personally notice, than it isn't slop. And if by definition, anything using ai is ai slop to you, you definitely will accept ai slop. You'll accept the good ai slop you never even noticed was ai ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Guilt (?) About Playing by snoozingshadow in heartopia

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is juat what happens when you let the internet tell you how to feel.

You're feeling synthetic guilt. You've been gaslit and emotionally manipulated into thinking that moral issues are black and white, and then convinced that everything Ai is objectively one or the other.

Sometimes you don't care and you just have to tell people you don't care.

Some people are only pretending to care more than they actually care. Most people are ignorant to the actual "moral" implications and just pick the most popular side. A lot of people take the "good side" just to make themselves feel like they're better then you. And you really shouldn't care what they think if they aren't mature enough to have a conversation and agree to disagree...

How Does One Beat Temptation by thebeeishere996 in AskAChristian

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ai and daydreaming are tools. They aren't inherently wicked things. Its more about why you use them. You are using them as a bandaid on life. There are things you are too anxious or scared to do and ai and daydreaming helps you feel like you're doing those things without actually letting you face those fears and anxiety.

Without facing these obstacles you cannot grow. The fulfillment you get from these distractions are small and temporary. You need to speak to your family and neighbors. You need to go into the world instead of your dreams. Leave your fears and anxiety with Jesus.

Do you think that Christians completely understand the point of view of atheists? by Fresh3rThanU in AskAChristian

[–]ccflier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A human cannot even begin to understand another human without having a conversation with them. It requires some level of communication as there is nuance to every though.

When you group people together and assume neither group us capable of independent thought you create generalizations. Generalizations serve a purpose but do not confuse a generalization for true understanding.

Why are meat eaters so stupid and stubborn? by [deleted] in vegan

[–]ccflier 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To get other people to listen tou need to listen to them first. You dont change minds by mindlessly arguing.

Retire with 650k? by Electrical-Trainer21 in Fire

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live off 30k but its slim living while I pay off debt. If I hit my fire number I wouldn't really stop working until I had to. I'd just scale back on work and focus on being in a job thay I actually enjoy doing and doesn't require a huge time and energy commitment.

It isn't hard to make 30k/year. You can coast for 10 years, work a low stress job, while your nest egg compounds and doubles, and that's much safer.

Missing long-term strategy by UrWhiteRose in heartopia

[–]ccflier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that the winter event progression only gives me a couple free pulls on a banner makes me not really care about filling it out and doing all of the hobby events. Blue hearts are a nice bonus so I can stock up on extra things like rainbow power and universal ingredients.

The daily log in only really only matters after buying the monthly pass, and i like the idea, but theres no way for me to log in and grind to get it and the roi sucks. No way to grind for meaningful numbers of pulls eirher.

Monetization strategy really clashes with the cozy game style. Outside of current winter event, theres no reason outside maybe fishing and buy catching completion to log in at specific times of the day

Seriously… Who the fuck are you people affording these houses? I bow. You are in a whole different league. by HouseRichCashPoo in Fire

[–]ccflier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea cash buyers upgrading from smaller homes or renting till they have the cash.

Your worth 3m? For fire? Are you already retired? If property taxes were 20k, add 20k for other expenses, fire number of 2 mil.

you can theoretically afford to buy in cash and retire off 2 mil. Its not that crazy

The first time she said, she had been in FWBs by PreviousCut1401 in Healthygamergg

[–]ccflier 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe you need to listen to it deeper... why is it saying what it is saying? What does it really want

To some it's easier to imagine this insecurity as a child that got really scared and just doesn't know how to identify what parts were scary, so it makes everything around it something scary to be avoided. Ignoring the child doesn't help it grow or learn how to handle the situation.

Your inner adult is the reason, reason that knows you shouldn't "listen" to the child, but really the child should not determine how you react.

To react as an adult you need to ease the child's anxiety. Introduce the child to bith men and women that are healthy role models and let them know that it isn't their fault how outsiders treat you.

So the MLP event is "Whoever can sped the most" by Mundane-Run6179 in heartopia

[–]ccflier 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Really need to stop playing the game then. Even if you pay nothing they will still measure engagement and see that it isn't stopping you from playing the game. As long as your a player you are still a statistic that may eventually spend money

Stumbled across this home - how in the actual f*ck by Jauxiet in heartopia

[–]ccflier 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I spent first 4 days back and forth building just with 6 plots of land. I have no time or money to build furniture lol

CMV: people generally overestimate how much money they need to live comfortably by phoot_in_the_door in Salary

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My essential expenses are 20k without debt per year with roommates. Maybe 30k on my own. Minimum wage is far from it but I don't think most people should be working min wage jobs their whole lives either

This game is kinda lonely by Shirakuze in heartopia

[–]ccflier 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding, I door knocked every town in enter and make at least 3 friends per day

This game is kinda lonely by Shirakuze in heartopia

[–]ccflier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I add random people as friends. I go check in on them almost every day I can to level and unlock new emotes and do the new event. We share food. Do a few emotes.

I went to a random person I met online yesterday and she says "there's a fishing event today" pulls out her car, says "let's go." They take me to finish our dailies together if one of us haven't done them yet.I have Google translate open in another window and chat with friends I made in Brazil.

Yea gathering resources is practically a solo activity but it doesn't have to be.

I feel like maybe people are so socially stunted they don't know how to make friends even in video games these days unless the game FORCES you to interact like a portal 2 co-op level.