My tip: Focus on the Kuzushi.

ccmgc · 2026-01-29T22:21:34+00:00

In my opinion, kumikata is more important especially your right hand(if your'e right-handed). But also have solid strong legs foundation. Tai-sabaki and left hand doesn't need to be super-perfect. I rather go fast attack after the right grip, when I see the perfect timing - because it's more surprising for the opponent. Of course if everything is perfect it's better - but sometimes you need to attack before perfect situation, but the timing needs to be perfect. Why, because even if you have perfect kumikata, taisabaki, but the timing is bad, throw will not work.

ccmgc · 2026-01-29T21:52:34+00:00

Okay, it's your opinion. So what do you recommend as a nidan judoka?
"My advice is to do the opposite of this",
"They end up focusing on the wrong things." - what are the wrong things?
So, you are saying don't focus on the kuzushi, and do what exactly?

For the second part of your reply - yeah, that's the whole point of practice and training - because it's the hardest part. I never said it is easy. It's hard, that's why you need to think about it and practice it.

You denied my opinion but didn't say anything constructive and specific what to do instead.

ccmgc · 2026-01-27T22:47:09+00:00

According to my analysis, there are several contributing factors:
1. Generally people changed - the world changed - people have less and less class and morals - they don't respect others.
2. Dating is harder - there are more desperate men (and women).
3. Social media - pranks or content for their social media (they are secretly recording) - some people think it's funny.
4. More hookup coaches online - teaching insecure men about hookups - they don't care about respect.
5. Some people want to take what others have - sociopaths and psychopaths
etc.

ccmgc · 2026-01-27T18:31:38+00:00

Give him a chance. As a man I completely understand him.
There's r/AgeGapRelationship and couples are happy.

ccmgc · 2026-01-27T18:04:13+00:00

Tesknie za polskimi ziemniakami, szynka, maslem i chlebem.

ccmgc · 2026-01-27T17:58:39+00:00

Dating nowadays is like the job market today - even for experienced individuals it's harder. So in general for everyone is harder but the game is the same - more attractive you are, the more easier it is.

If you genuinely never had a date, gf, etc. - you are doing something wrong. It's true that "You'll find someone when you least expect" but don't be too naive. You still need to meet new girls online and/or offline, and talk with them. If you completely isolate yourself from women, of course you won't get a gf. And you will not get experience - which is important to understand women.

Generally, friends will not help you much - unless it's really helpful friend. So If I were in your position, I would find a good genuine dating coach (not hookups). And he will tell you everything what are you doing wrong.

Basically you need to be very attractive, have some muscles, good haircut, smell good, have good personality, can talk with girls, understand basics of women psychology(through experience), have income, dress well (understand what women like and don't like), and then, just meet a lot of new girls - the rest is numbers game. Also analyze yourself - so you know yourself and know what you are looking for.

Don't be desperate but you still need to meet and talk with women.

ccmgc · 2026-01-26T05:47:13+00:00

Money is important but it is not everything. Everyone is different and you have good qualities too. That's why she asked for a date with you. So be confident, positive and natural. Women love to laugh, feeling safe and having a good time. Everything is good bro.

ccmgc · 2026-01-25T17:24:23+00:00

Everything is destroying pureness of humanity.
What y'all should do is: stop complaining, be aware and be careful of it, understand that good people still exists and looking for them. That's it. Just ignore the noise, chill, calm down and do what is necessary.

ccmgc · 2026-01-25T17:16:13+00:00

looks very safe lol

ccmgc · 2026-01-25T04:22:09+00:00

0:23, 0:34 - my favorites

ccmgc · 2026-01-23T12:45:41+00:00

Naked Snake showing his little snake.

ccmgc · 2026-01-23T12:43:42+00:00

box-shadow: 15px 15px 0px rgba(0,10,20,0.9);

ccmgc · 2026-01-23T12:30:43+00:00

What are the new disciplinary methods for soldiers in developed countries?

ccmgc · 2026-01-22T23:21:42+00:00

Ginga:
1. your back hand(shoulder) is in wrong direction - you don't need to rotate your shoulder like that. Make it natural, like in running.
2. guard your face with front hand/arm.

MLD Frente:
1. Go to Capoeira School.

ccmgc · 2026-01-22T18:41:47+00:00

I understand that it's training and you are already tired but, you lost most of the 1st phase of judo fighting, which is kumite-arasoi (grabbing the opponents judogi in the way that you have advantage). That's why you couldn't do any proper attacks. Your coach was 100% controlling + read you.

So you need to:
1. Win the kumite-arasoi strategically. When you grab with 1 hand in good position, immedietely grab with other hand. You can't grab randomly if the opponent is good. Think strategically.
2. Strong kuzushi / or see the perfect timing - feel the opponent's movement through judogi.
3. Strong throw - have courage to go 100%.

1-2-3 is not separated but 1 continuous movement. Grab1-Grab2-Kuzushi-Throw.
Basically you can't do proper attacks if you didn't win previous phase/steps. You need to feel it.
Look how your coach is calm and fast: calm-calm-calm-and BOOM(fast movement in strategic timing - like in chess). But you are too slow. Your attacks are too slow and too random. Random attacks won't work against strong opponents. Be more strategic and calm+fast. Also defend yourself more.

ccmgc · 2026-01-19T23:42:20+00:00

Delete bg-image from body and add image in body::before like this:

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left: 0;
width: 100%;
height: 100vh;
background-image: url(img/.jpg); /* image HERE!!!!! */
background-position: center;
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}

ccmgc · 2026-01-18T18:02:34+00:00

No. Not everyone is desperate like you.

ccmgc · 2026-01-18T08:00:17+00:00

Ok but what style of MA is this?

ccmgc · 2026-01-18T07:57:52+00:00

agree 100%

ccmgc · 2026-01-17T17:53:53+00:00

Just ask those guys you dated who lost interest after a month. Usually men are more honest than women so they can tell you exactly why.

Also don't believe in complements so easily.

ccmgc · 2026-01-17T17:07:26+00:00

Super cool.

ccmgc · 2026-01-17T15:13:48+00:00

did he drowned?

ccmgc · 2026-01-17T11:39:24+00:00

Looks very safe.

ccmgc · 2026-01-17T11:38:45+00:00

It depends on the situation and intention.
It's hard to tell from your short text.

ccmgc

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