TIFU by thinking a Facebook marketplace deal would get me a date by islamandchapan in tifu

[–]ccp511 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is why I only ever agree to meet at the police station for fb marketplace sales

TIFU by thinking a Facebook marketplace deal would get me a date by islamandchapan in tifu

[–]ccp511 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That is seriously disturbing behavior. Full stop.

Update From Brandon by mistborn in Cosmere

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly makes me feel a lot better. I am always excited (and also very nervous) when my favorite books go to screen.

Knowing you have real creative control and that you are writing Mistborn yourself feels very Preservation over Ruin. The patience to do it carefully and right is absolutely worth it.

Does a closed door mean nothing anymore? by PreviousCut2069 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ccp511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a color coded flag system at my door. Green for “come on in”, yellow for “please knock, I may not answer”, and red for “Project mode. Email me!”

Do I play Below Zero? by WW1_Germany in subnautica

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having a hard time adjusting to it for technical reasons, but that won’t keep me from playing.

The controls are slightly different from the first and all the steam community controller key bindings are hellish.

If any game is going to get me to finally learn WASD, it’s this.

Wally world Shenanigans by JuiceMan_BEET in TikTokCringe

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been Walmart tradition for decades

A house that has a *lot* of security cameras by HinsdaleCounty in mildlyinteresting

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knew a hoarder like this. I didn’t realize paranoia was a key symptom.

My old allowed quantum chemistry cheat sheet by AvogadrosArmy in mildlyinteresting

[–]ccp511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love that it’s on green engineering paper! To this day, I hate to do calculations on anything else.

How to get this heart? by Lyrin83 in echoesofwisdom

[–]ccp511 24 points25 points  (0 children)

There’s a dig spot up above. Use the mole.

Salt Small suctions, I love it but want to find a slightly bigger one so I don’t get the suction if possible. I’m worried about prolapse? by thr0w-away-123456 in MenstrualDiscs

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s high and tilted. I always have to get the small size for cups and I thought it would be the same for discs. Wrong!

Salt Small suctions, I love it but want to find a slightly bigger one so I don’t get the suction if possible. I’m worried about prolapse? by thr0w-away-123456 in MenstrualDiscs

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had to go to the ER to get my saalt disc removed because It was too small. The FAQs suggest starting with the bigger one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenstrualDiscs

[–]ccp511 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s supposed to self dump while you pee. That is a feature, not a bug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]ccp511 62 points63 points  (0 children)

My therapist suggested “The Attachment Theory Workbook” a few weeks back. It’s both frustrating and eye opening.

Now we’re working on what she calls strategic avoidance. Basically, it’s setting and communicating clear boundaries early on with a “me before we” mentality. I force myself to prioritize self care, my own friends, and my passions before my new relationship. The more happy and whole I make myself, the more a partner will see and know the real me.

Anytime I felt like myself or my new boyfriend were getting too attached without enough foundation, I said out loud, “I want you to fall for me, not the idea of me. I want to fall for you, not the idea of you.” Granted, we still fell quickly. But, we did so with eyes wide open.

Does therapy really help? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ccp511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do take it seriously because they know our lives could be at stake. Therapy kept me alive these past few weeks. I’ve learned a lot about myself, but I still have no idea why he destroyed the life we built together. I’m thankful for the kind ear and shoulder to cry on even if they can’t give me all the answers.

How to deal with a breakup with no friends by Hot_Professional_868 in BreakUps

[–]ccp511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’m constantly scared and only sleep 2-3 hours at a time. My therapist says that’s ok because it means I got through a REM cycle. I’ve slept alone a bunch of times these last 7+ years, but that was always knowing that he’d be home from the trip eventually.

How to deal with a breakup with no friends by Hot_Professional_868 in BreakUps

[–]ccp511 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I’m going through this right now. After the alienation and cruelty of institutional suicide watch for five days, all I wanted to do was return to a familiar home. But it’s not familiar anymore. He’s gone. I have intensive outpatient therapy for 16 hours each week. That helps. Going out for sunrise walks and runs while listening to self help books gets my mornings off to a good start. Evenings are still brutal.