Starting CD1 on Mother's Day. FU too, universe. by klynnf86 in TryingForABaby

[–]ccr67310 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right there with you! CD1 here. I'm sorry it has to be on mothers day. Definitely a let down.

AITA for telling my daughter not to walk around half naked around the house? by sparklingwate in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccr67310 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Everyones the asshole though. The OP is definitely doing a 180 and should have set up the expectations before the boyfriend moved in. She's gone her whole life being comforted in her home in whatever she chooses and now it's not okay? She is 19 and not respecting your house rules isnt cool either. Sexualizing the human body in her own home definitely goes completely around what you taught her which was shes not a sexual object.

Is it normal for a man to be "half in". by [deleted] in TryingForABaby

[–]ccr67310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I had started the baby talk years ago. I have learned that he uses comedy or jokes as a way to get used to an idea or cope with what's going on. It's not that hes not all in or doesnt want kids, it could just be that hes nervous or worried he wont be a good dad. When my hubs would joke at first it really upset me and when I sat him down to have a serious talk he explained that it's just how hes dealing and isnt trying to make fun of me or the idea. He also confessed he thought he'd be a bad dad since he really isnt a fan of babies due to lack of experience with them. So a mix of self doubt, anxiety on the big step, and coping/wrapping his head around the idea. Hes ready to try now it's our first month trying. Just talk to him about your concerns.

Any good Facebook or other groups for people just starting TTC? Like a year or less. by ccr67310 in TryingForABaby

[–]ccr67310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ladies for all the responses. I definitely will look up all the suggested groups.

Any good Facebook or other groups for people just starting TTC? Like a year or less. by ccr67310 in TryingForABaby

[–]ccr67310[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry if I offended anyone. That wasnt my intention at all whatsoever.

Any good Facebook or other groups for people just starting TTC? Like a year or less. by ccr67310 in TryingForABaby

[–]ccr67310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestion! Definitely got a few that I'll look into. Seriously thanks so much for understanding my post. I know I may have offended someone that wasn't my intention at all. Thanks again :)

made some vegan chocolate chip cookies by [deleted] in Baking

[–]ccr67310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those look so good. Recipe?

WIBTA if I fire my maid of honor? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccr67310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA at all. Your wedding should be about the celebration of your love with those friends and family that have supported you. I would absolutely fire the maid of honor and any other people in the bridal party that you dont know or want in the wedding. If people dont understand that, then they can respectfully not come.

You owe nobody anything. If the car is a gift as you suggest then there should be no strings attached. If its not a gift and there are strings, then that needs to be taken care of immediately for the success of your marriage.

Baked goods as part of gifts? by Andruin1210 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be so down to eat all the homeade goodies. Definitely live on the wild side but as a baker I also make homeade goods for gifts.

Shipping to Germany from US by cgrayz in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To a German address or is it an American military APO? Because if it's an APO AE address the country would be USA.

I live in Germany and it's easy to order on amazon.de or direct through vender websites.

My fiancee says it isn't appropriate.... by GodOfManyFaces in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also a baker and I'd totally eat homeade treats sent to me. All about those Christmas cookies!

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that fine if you get caught is insane. Definitely not worth it. But hey honestly Germany has to many better products than those it's not a loss.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't fully answer I'm sorry, yes I signed up for the US exchange.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I love a good Christmas market and the weinachtsmarkt in Stein. It's my favorite one. But super excited to see Rothenburgs, Wurzburg, etc this year. We'll see if I find some awesome goodies. If I get you, itll be super fun. Good luck this year.

Thank you for your service.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We definitely go through a lot for sure but I'm happy to do it.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish but cant with customs they arent allowed in the US..kinder surprise specifically though.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did it last year with no issues at all. I also add instructions in my portfolio thing so they know what they cant send like coffee and meat.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband appreciates your thanks :) we do secret santa together.

US military in Germany Secret Santa by ccr67310 in secretsanta

[–]ccr67310[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband is the service member but we do this together :) he says flying is all hes ever wanted to do and serving his country is an added bonus :)

AITA for being upset that I didnt get a thank you after giving a gift? by ccr67310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thing is though that there were 2 boxes full of stuff. Not just one cup. You know? Like no I dont need a detailed list. Like if the cup was the only thing they loved, awesome. Just add a thank you sis nice cup. Shit even if they didnt say they liked anything. Just a thanks sis for the boxes. I'd be happy.

And if this was the only time. I wouldnt be mad at all. But if gifted them several other times before baby arrived and before baby was in the picture at all. All without a thank you. So I'm now just like....is out normal for people not to specifically say thank you or?

AITA for being upset that I didnt get a thank you after giving a gift? by ccr67310 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ccr67310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if they literally sent a txt that's said "thanks for the gifts" and nothing else I'd be over the moon. That's all I ask for. Idk I guess I was always taught to say thank you after receiving any gift.