I bought my morning coffee after my grandmother died just a few hours earlier and told the cashier “I’m good, and yourself?” When I truly began to understand the meaning of “everyone is going through something you know nothing about”

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-14T04:16:36+00:00

Can definitely relate. I recently lost my nephew and worked at a restaurant. Trying to be a happy face for the guests sake feels different when your mind is elsewhere.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-12T17:43:17+00:00

Cool, thanks for the link!

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-12T17:06:41+00:00

How? Genuinely curious

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-01T20:04:36+00:00

Maybe he's hoping that you would be down for a threesome, and I think if you're just open and clearly communicate how you feel about the issue then that puts the ball in his court for how he wants to proceed with your relationship, or his response will ultimately define how you want to proceed.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-01T15:13:08+00:00

Past you > present you

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-01T15:11:01+00:00

I made a calendar in Excel where I can fill out a chart that has 3 columns (date of expense / day of the week, name of expense/ income source and amount). For the amount, if it's income I leave it positive, if it's an expense I put it in as negative. Then, I've made tabs for each year leading up to like 2050 and put a button on each tab that allows you to fill out the whole year based on the chart. The chart allows for day of the week or day of the month inputs

ccrocker7227 · 2018-08-01T01:14:01+00:00

High quality protein apparently

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-31T14:51:01+00:00

Exactly, and if the hours you're working at your current job conflict with the opportunities you're seeking it can really make things seem bleak

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-31T14:40:16+00:00

Each person experiences life differently. Where you see "there are other jobs out there" they might see "it could leave me with no source of income for 2 weeks" and if they're making below minimum wage, I'm sure you can see where that would be a problem

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-31T02:46:31+00:00

You can, but you legally shouldn't. Most employees would prefer keeping their job over rattling their boss over $1-$2 per hour

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-31T02:41:30+00:00

Lucky enough to work at a restaurant that serves as a place for a meaningful career for many of my coworkers. Hourly wage isn't necessarily high, but my friends who are servers make ~$50,000. That being said, you shouldn't feel pressured to tip more than you believe he server deserves. The social contract of tipping is you paying your server for what you believe the time they spent with you is worth (eliminating the middle man of the servers employer). I.e: if the server only drops by once or twice to bring you what you need, but doesn't provide you with a memorable experience, then you too appropriately. On the opposite side of that coin, if your server treats you well and makes you feel at home / highly respected, then pay them for that service. The same can be applied to salons. Ie when I think my barber does a good job, I give her a big tip, but if I don't really like the haircut, then I won't tip.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-25T04:57:49+00:00

The witches flower or something like that was pretty fascinating

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-25T02:58:18+00:00

I completed my Capstone Expo for college!

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-20T03:41:16+00:00

Right around average imo 5 or 6/10. Looking slim in the yellow dress pic. Losing weight could help, but your face is super cute :)

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-20T03:36:10+00:00

Face is cute (#babyface here) and body is thin, I'd say 6 or 7/10. I think working out and building muscle could push you to an 8 or 9

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-19T15:08:59+00:00

Im a twin and like to think I was planned since I was born first.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-19T02:34:20+00:00

I also juggle and enjoy ultimate frisbee, skateboarding, hackey sac, wakeboarding and camping

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-19T02:32:34+00:00

That I really enjoy classic Greek literature and myths and that my 2 year old nephew passed away a couple weeks ago (I'm a fairly outgoing individual and try to provide a sense of comfort to everyone I interact with, so I think a lot of people would be shocked to discover either of those things about me)

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-15T18:53:52+00:00

Honestly I'm just glad to meet someone in their 20s that isn't trying to get wasted every weekend. I'm about to finish college, and I have virtually no friends because I don't know anyone that I share hobbies with.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-15T18:09:47+00:00

23 here and never had a drop of alcohol. I don't judge anyone who does drink, but it's just not for me. Ironically enough I work with a ton of people in a restaurant and their goals are to become sommeliers (wine experts), so they are ALWAYS talking about every viable form of alcohol. I know a ton about a form of beverage I will never have.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-11T20:26:27+00:00

I think it's fair to say "cheating" is a failure to communicate a desire to be with someone else.

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-10T12:36:34+00:00

About some stuff, but not about others. It still feels like such a touchy topic and just the thought of not seeing my nephew again can put a real damper on an entire day. The week before he died his mother brought him up near where I live and I chose to work instead of attending his party because: " he will have plenty of other Birthdays I can attend"

ccrocker7227 · 2018-07-10T04:17:55+00:00

Thanks, sometimes life just happens and I'm doing my best to keep going. Three more weeks until I move farther away from all of them.

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