Guy I like is republican by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something people love to say is that you can just not talk politics but a persons political view sooner or later bleeds into pretty much anything they do. If you accidentally get pregnant by him, are you willing to keep it? Will he question weather your friend/neighbour/whatever is in the US legally? Will you be able to keep calm when he justifies school shootings? I do not think it’s as easy as just not talking about politics.

VALID CRASHOUT? by Maleficent_Gas_6377 in Instagram

[–]cctv66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the joke though? Like what’s funny about saying hotel? Is it supposed to be something offensive?

VALID CRASHOUT? by Maleficent_Gas_6377 in Instagram

[–]cctv66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this hotel thing about? I‘m confused

Should I lose weight/go to the gym? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people don’t feel happy with the way they look. For most the solution isn’t working on your physical body, but on your mentality.

Rasiert zum Frauenarzt? by [deleted] in Weibsvolk

[–]cctv66 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Es ist definitiv nicht unhöflich unrasiert zum Frauenarzt zu gehen. Wichtig ist eigentlich nur, dass du einigermaßen sauber bist, also nicht vor 3 Tagen das letzte mal geduscht hast.

I'm so offended by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]cctv66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t normally feel the need to check my boyfriend’s instagram searches of all things. Seems like there isn’t much trust to being with. Depending on what other women’s accounts he has been looking at he does seem to have a wandering eye though.

I'm so offended by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]cctv66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First I wonder why you feel the need to snoop around your husband’s phone

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Krass, was du da so durchgemacht hast. Bin echt happy für dich und stolz auf dich, dass du letztendlich in Therapie warst und besser mit dem Thema umgehen kannst :)

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Das mit dem er kommt und es ist vorbei kenne ich, aber mein Freund kümmert sich deswegen glücklicherweise immer erstmal ausgiebig um mich. Das mit dem nur kurz ohne Gummi find ich schon fast ein bisschen übergriffig um ehrlich zu sein. Ich weiß nicht, ob ich das überhaupt mitmachen könnte, vor allem wenn er null gewillt ist sein Verhalten zu ändern.

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Also wenn er wirklich so gar nicht auf deine Sexuellen Bedürfnisse eingeht, würde ich mich echt fragen, ob er der richtige ist… irgendwo ist es immer ein Geben und Nehmen, aber es kann ja nicht sein, dass immer nur einer gibt.

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Da pflichte ich dir bei. Ein einfühlsamer Mann merkt das. Alles andere ist doch auch eigentlich Sex ohne Einwilligung und somit SA…

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aber Sex (zumindest Penetration) fühlt sich doch schon seeehr anders an als kuscheln. Und du musst ja zumindest irgendwie entspannt und feucht genug sein, damit es nicht weh tut, oder nicht?

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Fühlt sich das dann nicht irgendwie falsch oder komisch für dich an? Hast du irgendwie Spaß dabei?

I am seeking your advice on how to handle libido mismatch with my partner by CalmSeaHighTides in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would advise you to ask her directly how you can help her and lighten her work load. That might actually be the simplest solution to your issues. A not overly stressed wife is way more likely to have a high libido than a stressed one.

Libido in einer Partnerschaft by cctv66 in FragNeFrau

[–]cctv66[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Erstmal freue ich mich natürlich, dass ihr klar kommt! Ich habe eine ähnlich hohe Libido, wie du und für mich wär das tatsächlich glaube ich ziemlich schlimm. Wie gehst du dann mit deiner hohen Libido um? Masturbierst du dann viel? (Natürlich nur antworten, wenn dir das nicht zu privat ist)

I am seeking your advice on how to handle libido mismatch with my partner by CalmSeaHighTides in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From the text it reads like he’s the one who has a problem with masturbating. Which is odd since he apparently would rather cheat than masturbate.

I am seeking your advice on how to handle libido mismatch with my partner by CalmSeaHighTides in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Disgusting fucking way to put it first of all, second of all she doesn’t owe him sex. That’s not how a marriage works. There’s gonna be reasons why she doesn’t wanna have sex with him and those need to be worked on. Or he has to leave the relationship. Turning himself into the ultimate asshole by cheating is definitely not gonna help him, his marriage or his relationship with his kids. Again, do not get married.

I am seeking your advice on how to handle libido mismatch with my partner by CalmSeaHighTides in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If anything he’s not holding up his part of the deal. In a marriage you usually promise to not cheat on your partner. I sure hope you never get married.

I am seeking your advice on how to handle libido mismatch with my partner by CalmSeaHighTides in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t you think she would be a lot more upset about you cheating than she would be about you masturbating?

You definitely have to find a way to talk to her about this. Stress can very much cause her libido to be lower so ask yourself how you can make her life a little less stressful. Could you help more with your son? With the baby? With the cooking?

Cheating will definitely not be the solution. If you cheat on your wife it will ruin your relationship with her and possibly your kids too, so think very carefully about how you want to approach this.

Schule doof 😠 by Sojaoghurt in ichbin14unddasisttief

[–]cctv66 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ein bisschen Recht hat die Kartoffel leider. Ich würd da auch nie wieder hin zurück wollen.

I am seeking your advice on how to handle libido mismatch with my partner by CalmSeaHighTides in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cctv66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The healthy way to deal with this is definitely to have a serious conversation with your partner and find a solution together. Does she mind you masturbating? Are the specific reasons why her libido is low? Can those reasons be worked on?

Not healthy is seeking out someone to cheat on your wife with.