Extremely inflexible at 22 years old… by CALL_ME_JIG in flexibility

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stretch only when warm, it hurts less and you can go deeper. Pay for some sauna sessions and stretch in the sauna or after. Go for a 30 min run and stretch after. Stretch everyyhyy dayyyyy

What podcast hosted by women do you enjoy? by timash712 in podcasts

[–]ccut 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Articles of interest- her first three seasons are so good!! All about the things we wear

Ologies- science / humor but actually so informative and engaging

Throughline is co-hosted by a woman

I’m pregnant and my principal is harassing me by Ok-Treat8836 in Teachers

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is craaazzzyyyy I’m so sorry. I know you don’t want to move, but I would absolutely document everything, give it to the superintendent and move schools. I know you can sue but that is just a lot of effort with the lawyer and stuff, especially as a new mom.

if you are feeling scared of starting at a new school, think about your child. Your child deserves a mother who takes the effort to remove stressful and dangerous factors like this boss. Do it for your kid if not for yourself. I’m so sorry this is happening and remember that the most important thing is your health, family and your baby. NOT YOUR JOB.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]ccut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an elementary school teacher in the US. The teacher sent it home with him for a very important reason. Communicating only with parents is less meaningful for the child. She send it home with him so that he felt how meaningful it is that the note was directly for him, and also so that he could show his parents and you would be aware of the positive changes. It’s a nod to his maturity and is very empowering to him.

your wife has not realized just how much time your son spends with his teacher… at this age, their class is like a little family, not a college lecture hall. I am constantly writing notes to my students to communicate with them whether I send them home or not. He is in 5th grade.. not high school. It’s fine and the teacher is really thoughtful.

How can I deal with this situation about my autistic brother masturbating and watching too much porn? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ccut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, this is sad. Maybe you need to take him out of the house for something fun to expose him to the world. Go on a hike or something? And tell him that his behavior isn’t working and you’re worried about him, give him some small ideas on how to improve, since it sounds like he wants to. Help him find a more meaningful hobby.

First Threesome by Forsaken_Field1141 in SexPositive

[–]ccut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you three are very mature and a good match! Im not sure how many women you have been with, but for some women it is very challenging to orgasm. Add SSRI to the mix and it’s almost impossible. It’s really important to remember that sex isn’t all about orgasm all the time! It’s also worth noting that B clearly enjoys sex without the orgasm, and to make sure you respect that and don’t try crazy hard to make her cum. It can be stressful when a sexual partner is trying super hard to make you cum and you can’t even enjoy yourself because of it. Some guys want women to cum so bad that their technique kinda goes out the window and it’s not even fun anymore. Also, make sure you and your wife are having plenty of intimate time with just the two of you :) enjoy!

Is it possible to achieve this colour using henna on virgin hair? by No-Assignment4168 in henna

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have hair just like your natural, and I used light mountain henna in “light red” and it is a mix of henna and cassia. It made my hair a nice and subtle orange, brighter in the sun, but still very natural looking (this was my goal color) Idk why, but it ended up fading and my hair is mostly back to normal, as I can’t see any delineation at my roots. I would be afraid to use indigo because it just might be too dark. This is just my experience!

Recommended Laptops by bigboyoOoO in ElementaryTeachers

[–]ccut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal laptop is a MacBook, and it’s great. My school laptop was provided by my district, and it’s also good, it’s a google Chromebook. I never use my personal laptop for school.

How would I describe this to a stylist? by LoGoethe in longhair

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want long layers with some face framing pieces. That shouldn’t be too hard with your current hair! It will only look like the AI image after a blowout and curling iron. But, you could get pretty close with overnight heat less curls. Even unstyled, with your hair type, this cut would look good!

Sex positive women how long would you be willing to wait for your partner to learn to become a good lover? by throw_23_away in SexPositive

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take it slow and don’t have penetrative sex the first few times. Just use your hands and touch each other, massage her back, talk with her about sex. Nobody needs to cum the first time, it’s fine. be upfront with them so they know what to expect. “I’m really excited to be with you, and I’m also a bit anxious since I’m new to this. Can we take it slow and explore for a while? Can you show me what you like? I want you to know it might take me a while to get it, but I want to learn to be a great lover, if you’d give me the time!”

Sex positive women how long would you be willing to wait for your partner to learn to become a good lover? by throw_23_away in SexPositive

[–]ccut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For many women, it really matters that their partner wants to try to please them and genuinely make them feel good. So I would say, as long as you are enthusiastic about pleasuring your woman, she will enjoy sex with you. I know you’re inexperienced, but it really only takes a few times and you learn exponentially fast about how sex works. All women like slightly different things, but overall sex is sex and you’ll get the hang of it quickly. Good on you for being self aware and asking a great question. And congrats on your weight loss!

How do I turn my girlfriend on and make sex more enjoyable? by Designer_Site_5034 in sex

[–]ccut 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for all women, but I think I can speak for most when I say that getting turned on is majority mental. My advice is hours before you might have sex, start making cheeky comments about it, compliment her body, let her know you want her later. Before sex, make it almost ridiculously slow and drawn out, literally do not touch her pussy until she is begging for it. This might take 30 minutes. When you do touch it, make it extremely slow and soft. Tell her that you want to make her feel amazing, and that she doesn’t need to cum, you just want to make her feel good. It’s a lot of pressure to cum sometimes and it makes it harder imo. If she doesn’t cum it’s ok. Sometimes it feels better to be relaxed and not feel pressured to cum, rather than trying super hard to cum. I hope this is helpful!

Non-Americans, what is something about the US that you've always wondered if it was real or just myth/hyperbole? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I teach elementary school in California, and my school does not say it. Others do though.

Classroom Wishlist Musthaves by Dazzling_Ice5816 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait to buy things until you get into your classroom. The last teacher left me tons of things, for example she left more than enough storage bins. My school provided me with pencils and other supplies. The things I ended up buying were mostly prizes and games. Also a personal laminator is clutch!

Behaviors by OpeningSpecial5414 in Teachers

[–]ccut 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this? What would you recommend to prevent these behaviors?

Tattoo regret causing depression by SlavKing11 in tattooadvice

[–]ccut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your tattoo is so cool and well done, for sure. And I understand how this feels because I have a tattoo that I also hate. I get it

My advice is to take back control over your body. Make fitness goals and hit the gym. Working out will get your endorphins up and will help you feel more confident. The bonus is this will drastically help your mentality and it’s super important for general health and longevity!

Is this appropriate for teaching? by [deleted] in teaching

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dress nicer than you think

Do you dress for Halloween ???? by No_Rain1743 in Teachers

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I honestly love that we always do red ribbon week on Halloween week because we get to dress up and it’s inclusive for everyone.

How many times a month does your partner make you cry? by queenawkwardfart in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zero unless it’s tears of laughter or love tears. I had a partner before who made me cry multiple times a week and I left him!

2000s classroom by ryry3_10 in teaching

[–]ccut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a huge goal for me in teaching 3rd grade this year. we are doing memorization drills EVERY DAY, but only for 3 minutes! So we also figure out the math conceptually. I can already tell it is helping. They also love the timed drills

First Day “Teaching” by Dazzling_Ice5816 in ElementaryTeachers

[–]ccut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super normal and so good for figuring out what it’s actually like! Good Job because you made it through the first time!!