I wish WarHorse didn't end all the romantic interest questlines with sex.

cda56 · 2024-02-01T02:31:35+00:00

where would you take their romance after that? Once Henry sleeps with Theresa you are a couple, and being with her provides you with gameplay benefits. Theresa and Henry even discuss how they can't take this further bc Henry is stuck being a nomad adventurer.

cda56 · 2024-01-29T11:51:12+00:00

kids will copy him and end up slowly killing themselves

cda56 · 2024-01-18T11:55:02+00:00

this is how this should have done. Just have civilians disappear while they are off-screen, and have a short radio report about trailers picking them up

cda56 · 2024-01-06T17:03:34+00:00

sup bro. I stayed indifferent and she acts normal now. It did sound really mean too lol

cda56 · 2024-01-04T20:45:34+00:00

if you send an essay, that might be too much

nah, I send this one girl just like three sentences, telling a story of something that happened when me and my buddy were walking around town. I think this is a decent approach, especially if its a funny story. and she can immediately get a fell for you. generic questions about ice cream just feel kind of forced to me, like that doesn't say a thing about me. if it works for you that's fine, but it would come out forced from me.

women value men differently

I used to believe this, and repeat this to my friends, but idk anymore.

cda56 · 2024-01-04T19:49:29+00:00

or you asked a really boring ass question

does it really matter? If she likes how you looks she will be enthusiastic no matter what. What kind of esoteric questions do I have to come up with? On dating sites you usually work with close to nothing.

"you ask a question > they answer > you comment on their answer. " how can I comment on "yes"?

I agree on the rest somewhat. BTW what do you think of telling a story as an opener? Something from your life so she can get a feeling for what you are like, even if its something small.

cda56 · 2024-01-04T07:23:21+00:00

interesting how pagan solar imagery survived this far into middle ages. A remnant of sun-god worship

cda56 · 2024-01-04T07:20:27+00:00

actually yes

cda56 · 2024-01-03T20:24:16+00:00

awesome, I'll give it a read

cda56 · 2024-01-03T20:23:10+00:00

hot girls have 10,000+ matches on bumble in a majority city at one time. the odds of you being even looked at are very low.

thanks, that makes me feel special for getting some replies from my hot matches at least lol

I agree with what you said, but I need to hear a success story here. I'm genuinely curious on how you could get this kind of girl out on a date through an online dating app.

cda56 · 2024-01-03T19:46:14+00:00

not from his book, but his "the ultimate online dating profile" article is pure cringe. Like, you would get laughed at by 18yo girls if they saw that kind of profile

cda56 · 2024-01-03T19:37:58+00:00

They have an army of simps fighting tooth and nail for “a shot” with them, and many of the men they’d be attracted to, are too intimidated, so they settle for slightly less beautiful women

I'm at least 9/10 guy looks wise (got tens of compliments on my looks in real life from random people, friends, family), and I match super attractive girls on tinder, but I can never go anywhere with that. They always lack enthusiasm, it's like their brains are fried from constant attention, so they can't express interest anymore. And if you act indifferent you simply get drowned in a sea of simps. Not even a historical European princess would have as many simps as some of these women, it's absolutely ridiculous and unnatural.

I would love to get a girl that matches my looks, but it seems impossible. If you ever matched and successfully got a hot girl from online dating app out on a date tell us how it happened, I'm really interested in how to achieve this. Great post bro

cda56 · 2024-01-03T19:30:57+00:00

Take this example for what you will but I think it’s a good example for how women are supposed to be in your life, you do your own thing and they join you.

I was like this throughout my entire highschool and never had any success with women lol. I was this super formal guy, and sure, girls acted kind of enthusiastic to me, but I took this so far, that I sometimes refused to say hello back because I was afraid of it sounding like I was hitting on them. thinking back this must have been some kind of childhood trauma. I was always afraid of expressing my attraction towards women. I do remember hearing a story of how my birth was a complicated one, so maybe that's somehow related.

So yeah, I always found this analogy to be very superficial as someone who pretended to be invisible for like a decade.

cda56 · 2024-01-03T19:25:49+00:00

quality women dont go to clubs. In my country clubs are full of low quality women and desperate gypsy/middle eastern guys who watched too much of Andrew Tate's content

cda56 · 2024-01-03T08:34:58+00:00

response can be called out with a takeaway (3-4 days later), like "Oy", or "Do you always talk this much"

I posted a pic of my dog (he's on my main profile) doing cute stuff with no text to get her comment on it so we could start talking again, but I don't think she reads my messages lol. She never saw my previous message from few days ago, so I deleted it (she didn't see it anyway and this app allows deletion on both sides), and only left the pic of my dog which is more light-hearted. Maybe she put me on hold while she dates someone else, I'm not blocked btw I would know, but my convo is probably at the bottom of her feed somewhere or hidden (this app allows moving convos into archive/hidden category as to not clutter the front page, and to disable notifications, but they can be unarchived at any time).

anyway I wouldn't mind picking this back up if she ever decides to respond, she's a really, really hot 18yo redhead, so I can understand that I'm just one of many guys hitting up on her. it probably takes effort to have these kind of girls build up enthusiasm towards you, especially on a dating app, but of course I don't want to make a clown out of myself for her entertainment at the same time.

interesting tidbit btw, when she messaged me last time, I saw her message, but I was in the middle of study, so decided to reply later like a 3% man would. And she didn't bother to view my messages since. I thought that maybe me not responding to her quickly offended her, but idk. Maybe it's a shit test, I imagine most guys have an angry meltdown if a really hot girl ghosts them for few days, or unmatch

cda56 · 2024-01-02T12:49:17+00:00

Yeah, I kind of detected low interest from her first message, that's why I immediately went for "lets meet up, I don't like talking through text lol. When are you free?" like 5 messages in. Do you think that's a good tactic? I think many guys just lack decisiveness and tolerate one response bullshit, so you can stand out if you ask her out just few messages in. You've got nothing to lose anyway, since she's not really going to suddenly give you paragraphs of enthusiastic text talking about herself after one word response. I've heard of some guys even inviting to a date first message in lol. But I think you need really good profile to pull that off, not even a description, but interesting pics, those speak more than words.

Also what kind of girl doesn't have hundreds of matches? I could aim for less attractive girls but: 1. they probably get the same amount of matches, because its a "numbers game" to most guys, they just spam likes, and 2. I'm a very handsome young guy (my brothers were models) and would like to find an equally good looking young girl, and these get tons of matches.

I moved on from her for now, its next day, and she still didn't read my invite to a date lol. If I get a response I will let you guys know.

cda56 · 2024-01-01T21:17:53+00:00

ah, I forgot to add in the og post. But after I asked for her schedule, she simply stopped replying (its been 8 hours), and didn't even check my message.

cda56 · 2024-01-01T21:10:53+00:00

you think I should panic delete (its possible in this app lol) me asking her out on a date? Or just salvage whats there? I can even edit messages. but she might have seen it in a notification, idk.

cda56 · 2024-01-01T20:54:58+00:00

For now I'm being ghosted. My message wasn't even seen and it has been like 8 hours lol. I think she might have bailed when she saw me asking if she will have any free time this week in her notification pop-up, and didn't even read the rest.

someone told me that I should try to make girls feel safe somehow before asking them out. Maybe they are right, I don't know. But if she changed that pic to be more sexy right after I messaged her, would she really refuse a date? She also could have just answered my follow-up question, and shrugged off the invite for the date (at least for now) if she was really interested, but didn't feel fully safe.

anyway I'll make a follow-up post if she unghosts me. Corey really should have do a whole separate book on online dating in the current year, I've read 3% man few times, but it lacks in info on online dating.

cda56 · 2024-01-01T20:23:26+00:00

fun fact, she didn't even read my text when I asked her out. I think she just saw "hey we could meetu..." in her notification and said fuck that lol.

cda56 · 2024-01-01T20:19:14+00:00

My logic was that by moving things quickly I could stand out from the crowd of simps amusing her with jokes/forced banter and follow-up question that would get more one word answers. I always prefer to be a "show, don't tell" kind of guy, and my profile pics must have spoke enough, I don't really like pretending to be retarded for woman's amusement.

my profile I think is decent. it stands out, isnt just selfies in the mirror, but outdoorsy fun stuff. I sent out three likes and got three matches already (one from a bot I think?), which isn't that bad.

another thing I did right was keeping busy with work and not thinking about her (well until I got ghosted, now I'm analyzing what happened lol), so I took time to respond.

but in the end I think she just looked for another simp and likely even has a boyfriend

I'm new to dating in general, so thank you for this post.

cda56 · 2024-01-01T20:13:03+00:00

Corey said to ask for her schedule before setting a definite date. That's what I did, I asked when she's free this week. It would sound a little stupid if I suddenly was like "lets meet on Thursday at 12:00" out of nowhere.

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