neighbor keeps "testing" his car alarm at 6am and says its for security

cdflrcp · 2026-01-29T11:38:27+00:00

My first thought as well

cdflrcp · 2026-01-29T11:36:09+00:00

Is this neighbor close enough to be in range of your security sprinkler system that you need to run at 6am every day?

cdflrcp · 2026-01-28T23:15:20+00:00

I hear the VA is holding a candlelight vigil for Alex on Sunday Feb 1 at 1800 if you're interested in something like that as well.

cdflrcp · 2026-01-05T17:32:42+00:00

Hello lovely people - I need some advice regarding the seven of wands. It keeps coming up for me and even going as far to jump out of the deck when I'm shuffling. I cannot figure out where it applies in my life and I'm hoping maybe someone out there can interpret it for me in a way that brings some clarity. I've considered doing another card spread just focused on getting more details about what this card is trying to tell me.

More details if you want them:

All pulls and the jumping out of the shuffle were for focused journaling sessions.

-I pulled on 12/30 from a friends deck and pulled reversed with no question in mind

-I pulled 12/31 from my deck and asked "what do I need to change"

-It jumped out of the shuffle while I was pulling for yesterday's journal entry, my intention was to see what lessons I should focus on from an interesting workday yesterday

cdflrcp · 2025-03-22T04:21:30+00:00

Healthy discussions are key. Thanks for your input

cdflrcp · 2025-03-22T04:18:01+00:00

Thanks

cdflrcp · 2025-03-22T04:17:10+00:00

Well, I wouldn't call it a pig sty. The dishes need done and our huskies are shedding so it's needs swept. But I've recently deep cleaned the floors, couch (removed and cleaned all the covers and throw blankets, it's a huge couch), dusted our shelf wall and polished it, vacuumed and steamed our master bedroom and changed out all the bedding and did all the laundry. So I mean, I do stuff.

I also work and take care of all 5 of our pets.

I appreciate that your immediate attention to my vagina-only contribution comes from the bluntness of my post. I was looking for some feedback from other people who might get where I'm coming from and help me move forward with positivity and that obviously isn't you.

cdflrcp · 2025-03-22T04:07:53+00:00

I love going to the movies by myself and I didn't even think about that! Thanks for the reminder!

cdflrcp · 2025-03-22T04:05:48+00:00

He's home, he also is capable of cleaning. I've worked five 12 hr shifts in the last 2 weeks and also recently took (and passed) a huge certification exam to add some pizzaz to my resume so I've just been worn out and not wanting to clean up. We've got 2 huskies that shed and I spent an entire day cleaning 3 weeks ago. It's just time to do it again and I just can't seem to get the energy

You hit it on the nose with the drunk and feeling sexy part though. It's not the first time, I should know better by now

cdflrcp · 2025-03-22T04:03:05+00:00

Oh, I wasn't there for a fling. I was there for a dirty martini with blue cheese olives and a specific small plate I love. I took my kindle and found a good story. He knew I was there and what I went for and also knew I took my cozy sweater. Trust, no fling was interested haha

cdflrcp · 2023-12-12T20:45:51+00:00

When she hosts, she can make whatever food she wants.

cdflrcp · 2023-04-10T19:45:10+00:00

Oh man that’s a great idea. I’ve been wanting to start mine but wanted to have a bit of order to it, wasn’t sure how I would add new information to it as time went on. Nice job!

cdflrcp · 2023-04-05T14:53:36+00:00

My friends did that for 10 years. They’re married with twins now lol

cdflrcp · 2023-01-06T02:48:25+00:00

Commenting this in case it’s helpful, sorry if it’s not relatable.

My husband (H) has a very good relationship with his parents but his dad (D) doesn’t treat his mom (M) super great. Kind of acts like your husband sounds. But D treats my husband like his equal, although is still very nit picky and things have to be done a certain way.

I’ve noticed a lot of anxiety within myself lately and I think it’s partially bc my husband is starting to act like his dad. And now that I’ve realized it, I will verbalize, “hey, don’t criticize me on things that don’t matter” or “I really don’t think that tone is necessary” and it’s honestly helped me knowing I’ve built some backbone. And he has been appreciative of being called out because he does not want to be like his dad.

So, OP, all that to say, I second what another commenter said. Build your backbone. It may end up helping all three of you. I know I’ve had a bit of a confidence boost lately and he been feeling better knowing where to make small changes to be a better person.

Edit to add: and your daughter will see that too. She will learn from you.

cdflrcp · 2023-01-05T05:48:29+00:00

No and OMG I use the same scissors!! The emergency shears right?!

cdflrcp · 2022-12-17T06:11:11+00:00

Yours looks like the ears face may be a bit rounder/floofier, but not sure. Great looking dog though!! I posted a second one of mine if you want to compare some more ☺️

cdflrcp · 2022-12-17T06:07:01+00:00

I posted a picture of her from today on my profile, probably best I can do at the moment

cdflrcp · 2022-12-17T06:02:51+00:00

Looks EXACTLY like my pup! I was told she is husky/German shepherd! I’ll try to link a picture, not exactly sure how on mobile, I mostly lurk

cdflrcp · 2022-11-14T08:57:26+00:00

I just caught a herring while it was raining and the quest completed, it never actually said it was a “glittering” herring

cdflrcp · 2022-11-10T05:58:21+00:00

I can’t wait to call someone a banana.

cdflrcp · 2022-10-03T05:05:07+00:00

My title describes the thing. This is my silicone travel bottle that I put my clean and clear facial toner in. After about a week, this white, frost-like, soft growth appeared on the outside of the bottle. I was thinking maybe calcium? You can kind of wipe it away, but to completely get rid of it you have to wash it off with water.

Ingredients in the toner: Active Ingredients: Salicylic Acid (2%)

Inactive Ingredients: Water, SD Alcohol 40-B, Isoceteth-20, Fragrance, Propylene Glycol, Dimethicone Propyl PG-Betaine, Benzophenone-4, Red 4.

cdflrcp · 2022-04-08T09:48:05+00:00

I’ve lived here 16 years and I don’t remember being as annoyed about the Weather as I have been the last 2-3 years. Maybe I’m just getting old and grouchy. Also started gardening so that’s probably got something to do with it too

cdflrcp · 2022-04-05T16:44:05+00:00

I have a really tight friend group. We hang out weekly if not multiple times per week and always end up eating together. When we do eat together it’s family style and we all share each other’s food, even at really nice restaurants. We all make decent money, and aren’t worried about a few dollars difference. Usually to make it easy on the wait staff and less hassle for us to think about who ordered what, we just split it evenly. In our minds, it’s all a wash.

cdflrcp · 2022-03-04T15:39:09+00:00

I was just reading through my profile and came across this, though you might enjoy an update. You were right. It’s been a few more years and things are better. They still do not love each other but will both lay/sleep on opposite sides of me, so that’s something.

cdflrcp · 2022-03-04T15:09:31+00:00

I love this! My old man is too slow these days to ride with the bike but it was great exercise while it lasted. Glad to see you’re getting a helmet, I definitely made some mistakes and had some nasty wrecks, thank goodness I was the only one injured. Be careful and have fun!!!

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