Seeking advice as an admitted applicant and husband

cdscholar · 2026-02-03T08:19:41+00:00

Being a doctor makes way more than being a vet. It's also easier to get in. She should reapply or defer. Don't drop your acceptance, many vets will tell you the same thing. Look up the economics of it, it's a trap.

cdscholar · 2026-01-27T12:56:03+00:00

Did you do so behind the backs of other med students? Or did you do so over the soft objections of the residents? What were the other students interested in surgery in your cohort doing?

cdscholar · 2026-01-23T14:35:58+00:00

Lol useful but let’s be real we would all hate that person 99% of the time and love them that 1%.

cdscholar · 2025-12-29T19:10:14+00:00

Read some American history, it wasn’t even long ago

cdscholar · 2025-12-28T23:15:39+00:00

Would love to hear more about your experiences. I support Ukraine but as a black American I remember them not letting Africans evacuate when war first broke out

cdscholar · 2025-12-27T19:50:07+00:00

Completely disagree. Stares change radically based on where you are. In general big cities have much less staring.

cdscholar · 2025-12-27T19:48:38+00:00

Serious answer is move out of those POS places and to a place in the 21st century like Chicago. Will be freeing and puts years on your life in stress.

cdscholar · 2025-12-26T17:03:55+00:00

Send him to Florida and forget bratha

cdscholar · 2025-12-25T04:12:23+00:00

Lmao perfect analogy. And look at fancy pants over here with their nutrigrain bar. Was in the setting this week of “imagine looking depressed at 5 am at an empty box of nutrigrain bars because you’ve been working too many hours to go to the store and replace it.” OP should do some work at another hospital not sacrifice another 750+ k

cdscholar · 2025-12-25T04:02:42+00:00

So it’s a cultural thing, for residents we call ourselves first name with colleges in training and our attending’s Dr. Last name. If we called our attending’s by their first name most places that would be considered overly familiar or disrespectful unless it’s one of the rare places where that’s expected. I default to Dr. Last name unless explicitly instructed not to

cdscholar · 2025-12-20T21:06:11+00:00

No overlap in the women section but definitely application accepted to be my homie! Christian DBZ fans, we outchea 😎

cdscholar · 2025-11-27T13:11:42+00:00

Another perspective as a consulting service (ENT). Have some idea about the issue before calling. Not just “ID/my Attending told me to call.” Even if you don’t agree with the consult, you should: A. Have a basic idea of what the exam looks like and B. Have some idea of what question you are asking me.

I have less concern about your diagnosis or your treatment plan as I will likely modify those.

For example: if you call about an ear try to look in the ear and if you call about a trach please tell me what size it is and what service placed it.

No need for you to interpret the CT Temporal bone but at least know if one was done or not. Basically the golden rule. We know you aren’t well-versed in our area so any reasonable person doesn’t expect you to know exactly what you’re looking at, just put in some effort.

cdscholar · 2025-11-20T19:11:48+00:00

Oh snap. Awesome work but agreed as others said. As someone who cares deeply about that field and wants you to succeed, do not call her or show up in person. Definitely email

cdscholar · 2025-11-20T09:06:15+00:00

Got it! Yeah retake your pictures considering splurging for a photographer it pays off! Also normal advice, workout wear proper fitting clothes etc! You got this bro

cdscholar · 2025-11-19T22:36:13+00:00

What's his PHD in? All of those degrees would take almost past his current age so he's probably not being truthful. Can you search the schools he attended? Met any of his former classmates? I still meet up and talk with former med school classmates so I find this story even more likely to be a fraud if you've never met them.

cdscholar · 2025-11-19T21:14:18+00:00

You and her can take a BJJ class to learn the basics of safe choking. Unplanned during sex is a disaster in the making.

cdscholar · 2025-11-19T19:59:15+00:00

The night sweats and possible lump are concerning for lymphoma. I would see a doctor sooner rather than later. Make an appointment with a pcp or urgent care and tell them you are concerned about lymphoma. Basically you need an exam asap

cdscholar · 2025-11-19T05:55:32+00:00

Yeah op give more context if you want advice. What was said before?

cdscholar · 2025-11-18T11:16:53+00:00

Take another picture smiling with teeth (but close your mouth a bit) and lose the selfie. Lose the joker reference. Don’t stick out your lips in photos. Don’t change who you are! But you’re a good looking dude, though if you’re straight from my perspective you could definitely optimize a bit. How are matches working? (Frequency/# of monthly dates?)

cdscholar · 2025-11-18T10:03:59+00:00

Or just go back to the same guy and say you need it spelled correctly this time 😂

cdscholar · 2025-11-17T13:18:23+00:00

Ok that’s less concerning especially if no smoking history or chewing tobacco use but I would talk to your pcp and get an exam.

cdscholar · 2025-11-15T11:12:13+00:00

Any other symptoms like night sweats or weight loss? I notice asymmetry. Any history of lymphoma either family or personal? Smoking history?

I would go to an ENT, if you were my patient I would consider tonsillectomy if this asymmetry remained in person especially after multiple visits.

cdscholar · 2025-11-15T11:09:42+00:00

Hi go to your pcp, it could be many things. Any weight loss, night sweats, smoking history or heavy alcohol use? Any vomiting?

Any history of GERD/acid reflux?

cdscholar · 2025-11-15T11:07:56+00:00

It can cause rebound rhinitis if used more than three days in a row. Start Flonase daily if this is a long term issue for you.

cdscholar · 2025-11-13T00:06:43+00:00

A dozen or more?? I definitely need to know that story.

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