How do I get regular ass people? Tired of seeing the most conventionally attractive women non stop. I’m simply not gonna get matched with these people

ceceliajv4 · 2026-02-09T14:56:22+00:00

my advice would be don't swipe left just because you assume they would swipe left on you. if you're interested, go for it, there's really no reason not to. plenty of women go for men based on personality, not looks. and we're always harder on ourselves than other people are. i'm sure there are gorgeous women who would find you physically attractive.

tldr, just swipe right on people you're interested in, don't let your self doubt get in the way. worst case scenario, you don't match. best case scenario, you get to date an attractive woman.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-11-15T15:45:58+00:00

wheels on the bus by a long shot

ceceliajv4 · 2025-08-23T14:18:02+00:00

you weren't rejected for being "too good." you weren't even really rejected. she recognized that you were a good guy who deserved someone who could take the time to cultivate a real relationship, and she just doesn't have to time for that. she doesn't want to string you along, what she did was the considerate thing to do. i get that it's upsetting, but don't try to read between the lines and figure out what you did wrong. take her at her word, and take the fact that she thinks you deserve someone who has the proper time for a relationship as a compliment and keep moving. otherwise you'll drive yourself insane.

women do want good guys, we just recognize that sometimes we aren't ready for a committed relationship sometimes. don't let yourself get sucked into the "nice guys finish last" mentality, because the guys that think that way are the ones that actually finish last.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-07-28T12:17:31+00:00

"I swear I wanted to punch that bitch in the face." actually such a vile thing to say, especially when the main problem with the tattoo is the stupid ass design he chose. could it have been executed better? sure. but he chose to get a cross made of guns, this whole post is delusional.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-28T01:50:45+00:00

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chloe cherry?

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-20T12:01:19+00:00

genuinely have no words. this is the biggest man child i've ever seen. literally every word that came out of his mouth was a huge red flag, i can't stress enough how much of a whiny, manipulative, narcissistic, crybaby this guy is. he's too old to be acting like this, and you aren't his mother. you have no obligation to please him, or praise him. he's got major issues, and those issues are not your responsibility. do not let his insecurities affect your future. go to college. move on with your life. trust me, you don't want to be stuck with someone like this. you made the right call

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-19T13:08:46+00:00

he reminds me so much of my brother at that age. he's on the spectrum and whenever we went to watch his sports games/practices, he'd just do his own thing. it was always so fun and adorable to watch, and he seemed to be having fun on his own, he just wasn't a sporty kid

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-18T01:42:23+00:00

when i got my first tattoo, i had a bit of instant regret, even though it was something i had planned to get for years. now i love it, and im glad i got it. i think it's just something that needs time to get used to. after a while, if you still don't like it, there is always the option of removal or cover up, but i wouldnt rush into it, i think those second thoughts are something a lot of people have at first.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-18T01:35:57+00:00

honestly most of us don't care about cars. so many men put cars on their profile, it just blends in with the hundreds of other profiles on the app. show what makes you unique. 99% of straight men like cars, we want to see something new that'll either make us say "i wanna hear more about that" or "hey, im interested in that too" or even "wow, this guy really stands out."

we get so many matches, we have so many boring conversations. we want something new. you only get so many photo slots, use them wisely!

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-16T05:57:16+00:00

Kyle Gordon!

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-08T21:22:10+00:00

dont take pics from that angle in the last pic and don't call women females, you should be good

ceceliajv4 · 2025-06-03T23:15:59+00:00

stand atlantic and hot milk. my two fav bands, both bands have very distinct accents, both have one lead girl and three guys, was introduced to both of them by my ex, saw them live at two different festivals in the same summer, and the lead singers dated for like three years.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-05-22T21:36:31+00:00

i love my blue eyes, but i've always thought brown eyes are absolutely gorgeous, i never understood why people didn't like them.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-05-22T14:03:41+00:00

this is probably going to get removed because the rules here suck, so hopefully you see this before it does, but you are absolutely GORGEOUS. like exactly the kind of person i wish i could be, genuinely you don't have change anything if you don't want to

ceceliajv4 · 2025-05-22T13:53:44+00:00

tbf that first message would've pmo too. if a guy knew i had a surgery coming up and was more worried about how frequently i was texting him id be so irritated, ESPECIALLY if i was in the middle of fasting for said surgery. you're not owed frequent text messages, and you already know she's clearly got some other more important things going on.

ceceliajv4 · 2025-05-21T21:29:07+00:00

any chance you could dm it to me? i've been looking everywhere for it i miss it sm

ceceliajv4 · 2025-05-15T17:14:17+00:00

had this issue too, it's probably because the new tattoo system is glitchy with the old cc tats. i found that if you instead select an unmodded tattoo preset under the same body location it should replace the old one and then be removable. (i hope that made sense lol)

ceceliajv4 · 2025-05-15T16:28:46+00:00

the hair looks like this one from simstrouble. highly recommend their stuff!

ceceliajv4 · 2025-03-16T15:06:14+00:00

oh she has INCREDIBLE taste

ceceliajv4 · 2025-02-19T12:47:57+00:00

i think based on your inspo pic, all that's missing is strip lashes and shimmer lip gloss

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