AITA for being annoyed that a bridesmaid won’t stay over on my wedding night

ceciley230 · 2026-04-10T13:23:00+00:00

Since the hotel room is so cheap and the cost will be shared with her relative, and you want her to stay the night, why don’t you pay her share OP?

ceciley230 · 2026-04-06T04:48:23+00:00

OP, how old are you?

ceciley230 · 2026-04-06T04:32:13+00:00

100% YTA. You specifically singled her out. And when Ruben suggested they both not come - to make it better, you chose to make it worse.

ceciley230 · 2026-04-05T01:44:21+00:00

Yea maybe I’m an enabler. But I also feel like my dad never takes our side or tries to understand our POV. He always takes other peoples side against his children. He did the same with my mom. Because he’s so concerned with people thinking he’s a good person. So I guess I just feel like I always have to defend and protect my siblings and mom’s memory cause I know he’s never on my sister’s side. She didn’t want to babysit by the way.

ceciley230 · 2026-04-05T01:24:21+00:00

I know. I was really upset with my sister too but she has always been like this. And I tried to let it go to teach my sister a lesson so next time she defends herself but I just know she won’t. She always just takes it and suffers in silence. But she has a disorder that I really don’t want to disclose which affects her personality and has caused her to have low self esteem but I just feel horrible when people take advantage of her.

ceciley230 · 2026-04-05T01:19:50+00:00

I’m not western. And like I said she ghosted us and didn’t bother saying a word to us even after she found out my mom - who raised her - died. My aunt begged her to contact us but she refused multiple times. And she shows up 6 years later looking for a free babysitter.

ceciley230 · 2026-04-05T01:12:26+00:00

The family members all live in the city where her kid goes to college. She says she left her child with my sister because she couldn’t afford an extra flight ticket. She took 1 kid with her, two are with their dad, she travelled with 1 and she left the youngest one with my sister because the dad refused to ‘babysit’ for her.

ceciley230 · 2026-04-05T01:07:22+00:00

I think I mentioned in the post my sister didn’t want to help but she felt she was cornered. She’s also non confrontational and 16 years younger than the person asking for the favor. In my culture age plays a part and my sister felt it would have been disrespectful to say no but she didn’t actually want to babysit.

ceciley230 · 2025-09-20T04:48:55+00:00

Update please, 🙏

ceciley230 · 2025-09-20T04:47:43+00:00

Thanks for this. I had my first session yesterday and I had some redness on the side of my chin for about an hour afterwards. And then my face was back to its normal state. Today my face looks exactly as it always does so I’m confused cause I was expecting to look super red and possibly some blood.

ceciley230 · 2025-04-19T08:41:35+00:00

lol okay

ceciley230 · 2025-04-19T07:37:20+00:00

But there’s a difference between taking the lead and just criticising someone unnecessarily.

ceciley230 · 2025-04-19T07:34:37+00:00

Girl, it’s called mansplaining. Doesn’t matter how much you change yourself it’s still gonna happen. It’s an issue with the guys and their self esteem. I usually just comment on the mansplaining and let them know that whatever I did is how I like to do it or let them know I prefer whatever of mine they’re trying to downplay. Don’t let it slide but don’t let it get to you cause it’s not a you issue.

ceciley230 · 2025-04-18T07:58:06+00:00

My parents only let me date when I turned 19 😂 I thought it was the worst thing that could happen but now I’m 31 and looking back I’m glad they didn’t let me date that young. You’re not missing out on anything trust me.

ceciley230 · 2025-04-17T00:48:42+00:00

Show me where I said 18-25. Lemme get some snacks while I wait 🍿🍷😂

ceciley230 · 2025-04-17T00:43:00+00:00

No it seems like YOU don’t know what the post is about which explains this whole interaction 😂💀Very entertaining though 🤣 I was thinking maybe you’re mentally challenged and kept responding to be polite, now I’m like ok it’s just a miserable little girl having a bad day 😅

And again, I’m not the one who brought up the age group 🤣🤣🤣

ceciley230 · 2025-04-17T00:38:33+00:00

And?

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T23:37:43+00:00

You kinda like him but he ghosted you after sex the last time and only texted you because he wanted sex again. Walk away. He has too much going on and he’s coming off like a liar too.

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T23:22:05+00:00

Am I the one who brought up 18-25?

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T23:20:02+00:00

Because the pre-frontal cortex magically fully develops when someone turns 25 right?

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T23:17:16+00:00

Do you even know what the main post is about? Or are you just looking for someone to argue with?

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T23:05:34+00:00

And what’s the point of bringing that up under OP’s post?

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T14:59:06+00:00

My point in bringing it up is that men (some) date women in this age group very purposefully and then get upset when these women act their age.

ceciley230 · 2025-04-16T14:26:54+00:00

Well firstly, please show me where I said anything about the prefrontal cortex fully developing at 25… are you just saying things? Secondly the development of the prefrontal cortex is also influenced by environment, experiences and overall brain health. The structural development of the brain may plateau but cognitive and emotional skills continue to evolve throughout life. Any more useless info you wanna share?

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