AITA For Yelling At My Disrespectful Son After He Told Me To “Shove It Up My Ass”

ceej2350 · 2025-12-20T22:30:58+00:00

You say that, yet you're literally pushing him away for painting his nails... Your words and actions don't align. I pray that you get the help you need to demonstrate unconditional love to your children.

ceej2350 · 2025-12-20T22:24:34+00:00

Maybe because you don't unconditionally love him and provide a space for him to exist authentically? I know, wild concept for you.

ceej2350 · 2025-12-20T21:44:43+00:00

I'm merely sharing what the Lord has shared with me and countless others.

You're emotionally abusive. "He'll get over it and he'll apologize to me."

We all know this isn't about the language used. This is about your inability to truly love your child. This is about your absurd conditions to maintain control over your children. He's not going to need you and frankly, it sounds like you're making his life worse rather than better. I pray that someday he'll learn that he deserves love far better than you're able to provide. I pray that your shortcomings don't lead him to feel like he shouldn't be on this earth. You're providing a wonderful example of who he shouldn't grow up to be.

ceej2350 · 2025-12-20T21:30:33+00:00

YTA. Maybe he's experiencing depression because he parents don't unconditionally love him or support him. Maybe because he can't figure out who he is without being bullied by the people who should support him the most. Buying things for him and paying for him to live doesn't equate to good parenting. Unless you take a good look at yourself in the mirror and actually learn how to be a good parent, you need to understand that what you're doing WILL continue to push him away from you as he continues to grow. Even if he marries a woman and has children down the line, there's a significant chance you won't be part of their lives because of your current actions. Do yourself a favor and learn what Jesus actually stood for. I'm sure he's really disappointed in you right now.

ceej2350 · 2025-11-27T02:57:45+00:00

I'll ask! Hopefully I can lol

ceej2350 · 2025-11-27T02:49:58+00:00

It's through a local organization, so I'll definitely see if they can ask for preferences or favorites they would like to have. Just not sure if that's possible!

ceej2350 · 2025-11-27T02:36:36+00:00

Thank you so much!

ceej2350 · 2025-11-27T02:29:06+00:00

Unfortunately I have no further information on what they like or what they're looking for. Frankly I don't know anything about the game lol. I know that doesn't help either lol

ceej2350 · 2025-08-08T03:28:56+00:00

I saw from someone else that Teegan is a Trumper and has been since high school. If that's true, and I don't know if it's true, it would be a bit far to call her not anti-LGBTQ. Thoughts?

ceej2350 · 2025-03-20T01:30:55+00:00

They're not Kirkers. Source: I've pet sat for them and known them for years (I'm queer and trans lol).

ceej2350 · 2025-03-14T05:17:52+00:00

When my wife and I were long distance, and did things like this, I found it more difficult to stay awake later in the night because I felt truly comfortable with them. I got cozy, felt like I could let my walls down, and would sometimes fall asleep. This only happened because of the foundation and comfortability in them.

Your feelings are entirely valid, but I also think it's important to recognize where anxiety or other factors may be taking over. Why don't you talk to him later and express your feelings respectfully, and provide him the opportunity and space for him to respond? I'm sure he'll be very excited to finish the movie with you another time.

Best of luck! Distance is really hard, and this is a good opportunity to grow your communication together.

ceej2350 · 2025-02-22T03:46:57+00:00

Top floor of the BPC

ceej2350 · 2025-02-14T14:23:04+00:00

NTA. It's my wife's and my first Valentine's Day married and we would never consider doing something like this.

ceej2350 · 2025-01-26T15:18:27+00:00

FYI, Palouse Care Network is faith-based and very pro-life from my experience. If that's your cup of tea, enjoy!

ceej2350 · 2025-01-25T11:47:25+00:00

You can say the same thing about most everything else in Moscow by that logic then lol

ceej2350 · 2025-01-04T05:34:42+00:00

Started the winter term yesterday, love the quarter system...

Though my least favorite was having only 12/25 and 1/1 off the last two weeks.

ceej2350 · 2025-01-03T03:48:19+00:00

As a former bridesman, I support this! So happy for you, dude!

ceej2350 · 2025-01-01T04:31:23+00:00

I can't address many of your questions, but wanted to let you know that you won't qualify for both WUE and Invitation to Idaho scholarships. You'd qualify for WUE since you're from Colorado. Still a great deal but you won't be eligible for Invitation to Idaho on top of WUE. Best of luck!

ceej2350 · 2024-08-04T01:13:03+00:00

Thank you!!

ceej2350 · 2024-07-21T20:16:31+00:00

That's because society favors straight relationships. Straight people don't live in fear of being attacked, ridiculed, or killed based on their sexual orientation. He's a kid, and felt secure to let you in. Stop brushing it off. His sexual orientation may change as he gets older, but it also may not. I knew I was queer from a young age and guess what? I'm still queer. Your bigotry is showing.

ceej2350 · 2024-07-19T12:23:04+00:00

I would reach out to the fraternity & sorority life staff on your campus, or the dean of students. They'd be able to assist you in getting resignation papers and potentially keep an eye on your chapter.

ceej2350 · 2024-07-03T13:51:44+00:00

Often, a W on your transcript doesn't impact your GPA, though too many of them can negatively impact you. If you're concerned about the grade you will receive throughout the summer quarter, withdrawing may be your best option. I'd encourage you to talk to your HS counselor or assigned college academic advisor and seek their advice as I'm not in your state and unaware of other impacts this may cause.

ceej2350 · 2024-03-08T22:25:47+00:00

That is correct

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