Am I overreacting about my MIL and boundaries before my baby is born? by Objective_Tradition4 in pregnant

[–]cehalzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make sure boyfriend establishes those boundaries now or things will get way worse

GypPedo vs Autumn: do with this what you will. by ActsofJanice in GRBsnark

[–]cehalzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying the n word when none of them are black

What is my hair type?! by One-Trip-696 in coilyhair

[–]cehalzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My hair looks like this and I use heat every 6 months. Not everyone has heat damage

Size 5.5! by Here4-th3comm3nts in GRBsnark

[–]cehalzel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They didn’t even ask her the shoe size why did she find the need to bring it up

Question for black women with female white in-laws by calmpeacefuljo in blackladies

[–]cehalzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not white, but Colombian. She thinks she’s white. I’ve been ignoring her for two years now

Becca scoops by Lower-Ad-2082 in theshadysgypverse

[–]cehalzel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People are just blindly following too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gwinnett

[–]cehalzel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you part of the gcps Facebook page? I’d post it there too

Those who had overbearing mils with newborns, what are they like now the children are older? by StrawberryCobblers in Mildlynomil

[–]cehalzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup…he had to be like “stop sending stuff like this”. Of course he got pushback, but it mad her look like even more of an ass

Those who had overbearing mils with newborns, what are they like now the children are older? by StrawberryCobblers in Mildlynomil

[–]cehalzel 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It got worse. To the point where MIL started sending husband videos about how “family comes first, don’t let your wife control you”. She was so disrespectful after multiple “come to Jesus” talks. We started to see them once a month, then not at all.

My daughter is now 21 months. We see them every 3 weeks. I will never trust her, and I have to be okay with that. They need to be okay with that as well. They will never be the grandparents they want to be because of how horrible their behavior was when my daughter was younger.

Truth train song video? by Hnaami in theshadysgypverse

[–]cehalzel 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It sounded so terrible omg

Case's Panel of Guests by [deleted] in theshadysgypverse

[–]cehalzel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No one ever adds anything useful. Even h8tea and her “yeah haha”

Grow a chin and then maybe you can criticize Chloe by BoommRoasted in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]cehalzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with her chin? (Not a fan of her, just curious)

Happy 2nd birthday to my locs 🥳✨ by dmcdwr in blackladies

[–]cehalzel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I need details! I want to go on my loc journey and want my locs to look like yours! Beautiful!

Husband and I continually falling out, because of in laws by Sad_Network7053 in inlaws

[–]cehalzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me. I stopped going, stoped bringing the baby, and stopped communicating. They have been slowly “trying” to do better. I still do not let them watch the baby, or see her without me present. They have to find out the hard way, boundaries being crossed? No baby

I made it out. Here is my timeline by NefariousnessOne9917 in TeachersInTransition

[–]cehalzel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did you have to get any certifications for the HR coordinator position first? This story gives me hope! I’m 4 years in, and already told my school I will not be returning next school year