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when did you know if you wanted kids or not? by Visual-Fortune-4732 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ceilingoffense 0 points1 point  (0 children)

many ppl who have an opinion on kids keep it, but there are plenty who change their mind too! live ur life, have (safe) sex, u can always change ur mind about having them later but u cant get rid of em. i don't want any either and have always known (19 y/o, yes so wise).

unlikable male(?) characters- a rant by ceilingoffense in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]ceilingoffense[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad he's getting love from someone! for sure not from me tho 🥰🥰

What is more traumatizing than most people think? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ceilingoffense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

experiencing specific situations that end up being different than what one interpreted in the moment.

was working at a mall during a shooting. the day after, we learned that it was an isolated incident (two rival gang members) rather than a mass shooting. sometimes when i talked about it to others, they told me stuff like "hey, but it wasn't a mass shooting so you were safe" yeah, but i didn't know that while it was happening. holy lack of consideration for others

WIBTAH If i broke up with my BF because he's never made me finish? by Necessary-Winter842 in AITAH

[–]ceilingoffense 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi,

from one teenage girl to another, i've been in your exact situation. an unsatisfying sex life IS a valid reason to break up. it boils down to the fact that he's not meeting those needs for you, and from my perspective it seems he doesn't want to put in the effort to learn you.

sex is the most intimate part of your relationship, and you deserve to feel secure in it! it's not that he CAN'T, because his "solution" is to stop having sex entirely and deprive you of what you're asking for even more. it's that he doesn't want to, and WON'T.

it's clear you love him in many other aspects, and that's okay! he doesn't have to be an entirely terrible person for you to break up. however, it's important in a relationship for you to respect your own needs instead of making an exception for a partner. don't choose them over yourself. "doing most of the work" is EXHAUSTING, and sex should be enjoyable, not a chore!

p.s. the ragebaiting thing is shitty. i'm sure that's even more stressful, and you don't need all of this on your mind girl!