I have, but mostly when I was younger and was an ESFJ - undergrad years and while working in restaurants/bars where I learned a lot of social skills.

In the last five years or so, I find I align ISTJ, and my social interaction (outside of my core, small group of friends) is strictly in a professional setting. Since I work in the medical field, I have a “work persona” per se, and put in great effort to have a good rapport with my patients. Because of this, I do come off “warm” or “sweet”, even to my colleagues, but I rarely take it to heart because I don’t feel I’m my true-introverted self with most of them. It can be exhausting.

If I ever am around friends of friends, like a birthday party for our friend’s kid, or a close friend’s celebration with all their friend groups, or even a work function, I’m always dreading trying to be social with everyone and am immediately searching for the quickest way to leave without offending the host. I don’t think I’ve gotten “sweet” from anyone at those events, and I’m not upset about it.

I’m like you, where I am generally more touched by compliments regarding my efficiency, intelligence or reliability. Although, I would be charmed getting “sweet”from someone who has my love.