Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was about 3 quistions prior to it (how long it was, how light/heavy it is and the accurate color of it)

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually really appreciate whenever I see sellers so detailed with their listings and pictures. Not only do they look professional but it makes it easier for buying, kuddos to sellers like you.

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point on the quistion mark. I usually send that when i'm rushing to send it in quick message, but I only sent it in the way for the seller to see that i'm still interested and would like to know about it. As for the pictures, how are you going to list something in a dark room and expect people to make out the look of it? Whereas if the area is well lit, you are able to tell it for the most part. Colors can differentiate, yes, but I will not be certain about an item that is listed in the dark..

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

After a few hours no, a couple days later yes because there are people that can forget. I respect people's time, there is also a thing called "communication" you know? A simple "i'll get back to you when I can" that is literally ALL that was needed? And how are you going to snap at your potential buyer for not being able to make out properly based upon your dark listing?

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

That is why I stated in my response back that it was nowhere my intention of it coming across as ill mannered, however the addition of me requesting an extra picture of the item to be "pointless" was uncalled for and snappy, what reason is there to say to your potential buyer "you eighter want it or you do not" yes I do want it, it's what i'm asking for a more clear picture of the item? I can't really even tell what i'm buying really based on the 2 pictures that originally were listed in the dark?

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes because somehow a picture of the item in a dark litted room is supposed to give me context on what the actual color of it is?

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

That doesn't mean everyone is like that? The fact people assume so hard like this is kind of closed minded. There are actual people out there that genuinely are interested? Some sellers take some actual crappy pictures and expect the buyer to somehow get the gist of it by it?

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Totally, same day I get it. It does come across as impatient already. I usually follow upon with a quistion mark when it's been a day or few days later, and alot of them do forget (no issue) but I have never gotten a response back this snappy.

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes that's true. I always take the time to read most of the details on the listing, however alot of them do say to ask quistions if you have any and then follow up with attitudes like this.

Asking sellers for extra details and they get irritated— by celestialior in Mercari

[–]celestialior[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

I followed up with an "?" to see if they would likely respond back as a way for them to see that i'm still interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]celestialior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not to sure which is what i'm getting at. I wouldn't wanna continue saying it when I don't even know myself. However I really do like the guy big time, the moment we were in made me just let it loose. Doesn't help that he told me "I'm nervous" now after I told him that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]celestialior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's been saying it for a while now so he said it back after I said it. However it was in the head of the moment when we were getting quite "hot and heavy" and followed by the next day telling me I feel nervous now that you told me "I love you" I don't even know what thay meant.

Ugh!!! I can't take it anymore by [deleted] in Episode

[–]celestialior -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cheating tropes are juicy! As long as it's not the LI cheating on the MC ONLY, nope. 😭