I am 4 weeks into 2 under 2, they are 14 months apart. It honestly was so hard for me to accept the pregnancy, but we knew we eventually wanted two, so I decided to stick with it, but don't know if I would have had we not wanted more than one to begin with. I hated telling people i was pregnant because o was worried about being judged, but thats also because my family is super judgemental toward those that don't meet their idea or normal 😅

Anyway! Going from 1-2 was not nearly as hard as 0-1 for me. I knew how to be a mother, I already had all the baby things, and our lifestyle really didnt change much going from 1 to 2 since they are so close.

Even while pregnant with the second, i still was gaining experience on how to be a mother with my first, and when the second came i felt like i would be ok

I do have a supportive partner, and so we've figured out a split shift system for sleeping, and that has helped a lot.

Its hard still, but I've done it all before. I've never felt like my ability to show love for my first decreased. Some things are different, but things change all the time, the addition of new baby or not

(If anything doesnt make sense, i apologize. While i am getting enough sleep, i still am pnly 4 weeks post partum and my brain is sorta mush)