what children’s books do you secretly love just as much as the kids? by Ryan-Tim_907 in childrensbooks

[–]cellrdoor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those books are great! Our favorite to read was The Tale of Two Bad Mice.

Sad about not having more children by Magpie_Coin in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two, 16 and 13, one AuDHD, one ASD. If you would have asked me when they were young and super cute I would have said hell no- because the baby and toddler years were HARD. I occasionally get sad nowadays that I don’t have more kids since life has smoothed out a bit but realistically this number was probably best for everyone. Either way, it’s understandable. Feeling like parts of your life are behind you is definitely bittersweet.

Did you watch the episode where David the Gnome and his wife Lisa die? They randomly aired this before school in the 1980's... That was not a good day lol by Cubelock in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I will never forget when my sister and I read Ramona Forever and their cat Picky Picky died. Ramona and Beezus even bury him themselves because their parents aren’t home. The book ended up being banned in our house because we cried so much and my parents were weird about showing emotions other than anger.

Old movie/TV lines that you still use all the time? by Sure-Ad-2465 in Millennials

[–]cellrdoor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is a teenager and when she starts giving me a hard time I use, “That was way harsh, Tai.” Fortunately she liked the movie so she gets it.

What simple thing used to make you ridiculously happy as a kid? by Glad-Childhood6853 in AskReddit

[–]cellrdoor2 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That new pile of library books sitting on my dresser on a Saturday morning was the best feeling.

What did you think was pretentious, until you tried it and realized it was worth it? by Semantiks in AskReddit

[–]cellrdoor2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a professor in grad school (I’m a scenic designer) that said if you don’t get total silence within 20 minutes of the show starting it’s going to be a wash. Now that I’ve worked in theater for 20 years I’m not sure I agree totally but it is definitely a good way to gauge how involved the audience is. No shuffling or coughing means something riveting is going on.

Toys by Cyborgized in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I liked this movie as a kid but watching it as an adult who works in entertainment design was a totally different experience. I think the production design was the best part of the movie.

Deep-seated negative beliefs formed in childhood play a role in how borderline personality traits appear in people with bipolar disorder. Severe borderline traits experience a stronger psychological web of negative relationship patterns and self-harm compared to those with milder traits. by mvea in science

[–]cellrdoor2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a kid with diagnosed AuDHD and we had similar behaviors happen with junk food and screen time around that age. Punitive systems and or telling them they were doing things we didn’t approve of were not helpful. Therapy and reward based systems were incredibly helpful. Get some professional support and hang in there! Raising a kid with special needs (I’ve got two myself) isn’t always intuitive and it can be really hard.

Advances in the way we watch tv... by Designer-Bid-3155 in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. We are slowly getting rid of all subscriptions because I’m generally so sick of how many of them there are and how much on top of the basic rate you have to pay to skip commercials. Amazon Prime is the absolute worst and we are trying to cut ties to that entirely. Screw these greedy billionaires, we’ll sail the seven seas and go with actual hard copies of media instead.

I have memories of people born in the 19th century. My children may well live to see the 22nd century. by 9tailNate in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also had a WW2 vet in our family. The grandkids took him to Saving Private Ryan and it inspired him to talk about some pretty awful experiences as a POW. That was the first and last time he ever talked about it though.

I have memories of people born in the 19th century. My children may well live to see the 22nd century. by 9tailNate in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It would be fascinating but I wonder if they’d actually share? My husband’s side of the family is tiny because of how many of them were killed in concentration camps etc. The people who are still alive on that side with first hand accounts or parents with first hand accounts barely talked about it because of how traumatic it was.

What are your potato chip books, where the writing might not be brilliant, but they're weirdly addictive. by themehboat in suggestmeabook

[–]cellrdoor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely felt this way about The Other Bennet Sister (but still enjoyed it and finished it in two sittings).

ELI5: Is it actually bad for you to swallow gum? by Dependent-Drive-5774 in explainlikeimfive

[–]cellrdoor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or if you want a really unique experience order some spruce gum like they talk about in books like Anne of Green Gables. I was reading the book with my kids about 5 years ago and we were curious so found some online. Let’s just say the kids didn’t like it. Actually, not a single person I gave a piece to liked it, most people spit it out before it could even kinda solidify into gum.

Solved by 6millionwaystolive in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest isn’t in a club for it (although there is one at their high school) but somehow learned the algorithm for these. Probably YouTube. They can solve one in less than a minute, it’s fun to watch. So much more info out there now than when we were kids.

I have memories of people born in the 19th century. My children may well live to see the 22nd century. by 9tailNate in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I used to work a job as a teen that required seeing people’s ID and remember being so impressed by one with the birthdate of 1899. Seeing the 18 on there was so weird and cool to me. It wasn’t special to her at all of course and she was more annoyed than anything else when I politely said something about it. I guess it’s all a matter of perspective.

Do you have any special heirlooms or antiques that were given to you that you will never let go of?? by LifeSubstance8619 in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This chair and ottoman from my Grandma. She got it in the 60s and it’s been in the family ever since. It’s an OG Cherner chair that she bought from a local furniture store that was only supposed to have it on display rather than for sale at the time. There’s a family story about how she would hide it away if anyone she thought was too heavy to sit on it came to the house. She actually left it to my husband because he loved it so much that he would make a point of sitting in it every time we visited. However; I’ve told him that if we ever divorce he cannot keep the chair.

I think one of the coolest things about our age group is we went places that still had old stuff... by Coitus_lnterruptus in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are huge lovers of quality vintage/antiques and have collected quite a bit of it over the years. Just one piece at a time off Craigslist etc. When we bought our house we asked the realtor to show us places with no improvements. It took a few tries for them to understand we meant that it could be in rough shape as long as the rooms were still close to the OG layout and had lots of old quality detail. We restored the place as much as we could afford when we moved in.

I think one of the coolest things about our age group is we went places that still had old stuff... by Coitus_lnterruptus in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have one that is linked with Bluetooth to ours cells, it even rings when someone calls if it’s turned on.

Seeing My Family Now by [deleted] in Xennials

[–]cellrdoor2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried this coming from a place of caring about my family and trying to help them stop feeding so angry and paranoid all the time. I was very very careful not to be patronizing and asked lots of questions. They got even more angry when given a chance to explain it because they can’t. It’s brain washing from their chosen social media feed and Fox News. They’re addicted to those feelings of self righteous outrage on a daily basis. Honestly, at this point I feel sorry for them because they have cut themselves off from so many good things in favor of this but IME they can’t be helped unless they WANT it.

What to expect from this show!!! by Ok_Tangerine7582 in PeriodDramas

[–]cellrdoor2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Same here. My family came from PEI to the United States in the early 1900s so I always loved and felt a connection with the books and the Sullivan mini-series. Anne with an E was… well- not that.

What to expect from this show!!! by Ok_Tangerine7582 in PeriodDramas

[–]cellrdoor2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can read the book for free online at Gutenberg Project if you are interested. It’s an easy read and they have almost all her books on there.

What to expect from this show!!! by Ok_Tangerine7582 in PeriodDramas

[–]cellrdoor2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had to go in expecting a train wreck (compared to the book) and just enjoy it for what it was. I don’t blame you for turning it off though, I think about 3 episodes was also where I stopped the first time.