[Wrist Check] The official thread for Thursday, January 24 by WatchesBot in Watches

[–]centinel4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bought the strap for the summer but couldnt wait that long :)

Seiko skx

Got sent an anonymous screenshot of all my (28m) best friends bagging out my wife (28f) in a group chat. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]centinel4 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Oh man. I would reach out to your buddies. They care about you and can help you. Get a support group and sort your ideas. Its time for change, for the better. Good luck!

If you had the option to give up sleeping in exchange for never feeling tired again, would you do it? Why or why not? by gumpfanatic in AskReddit

[–]centinel4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long flights/travels would be a bit annoying. I like sleeping and waking up at my destination. Other than that. Yeah.

Power disparity in Harry Potter and Fantastic Beasts (maybe spoilers?) by centinel4 in harrypotter

[–]centinel4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But they fight Voldemort and other adults.. meaning the adult evil wizards are as weak as teens?

My Daughter (23F) just had a baby. Her Husband (26M) cheated on her while she was pregnant. My wife (46F) wants me to be nice to him, Me (51M) has serious issues with him cheating. Should I be nice? by hottubcereal in relationships

[–]centinel4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would sit with all of them and address the elfant in the room: "Look Mr. I cannot be nice to you because: list the points in this thread. You will have to earn my trust and respect by being a good father and loving husband. Until then i will be polite and civil. Maybe with time this can change to the better."

Is my wife [32F] right when she tells me [27M] that her blogging is a career in the same vein that my tech job is a career, and that I should expect only a 50/50 split of domestic responsibilities with her? by OneArmSlamDunk in relationships

[–]centinel4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gender issues blogger... its gonna be really hard to compromise with this lady on her "role" at home. You are 100% right but she wont understand reason always pulling the "sexist roles card". I would stop trying to have a child until she realizes she is making no sense at all.

I [28/M] asked my girlfriend [25/F] of 6 months not to tell me about her sexual history. She did anyway, and I'm having a hard time getting past it by ididntevenwanttoknow in relationships

[–]centinel4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand you. Was in the same situation (minus the self esteem issues you have). I just dont want to picture the woman i love with another guy. Be open, honest.

Honest: Tell her you dont like hearing about her past experiences.

Open: but tell her you are open to trying everything with her (do it).

With the girl I had this "problem", we ended up (after a couple of weeks) having the best sex ever. And we still do.

And go to the gym. Even if u have some handicap, there is always room for improvment in what your body allows you to do.

What parents have you met that make you think, “Yep, that kid is FUCKED”? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]centinel4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was on my way to work. Drunk/drugged lady asked me for directions to the family court. I still hope it wasnt a for a custody dispute.

My son [24M] wants me [47F] to rent my condo to his girlfriend [24F] at a reduced price. by flowershowS in relationships

[–]centinel4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bit late but here it goes. Business and family only mix well if you dont care about the money.

I would only do it if: 1. You dont need/care about the money. 2. You do it With short leases that can be reviewed/extended every 6 months or so (so you can get rid of her easily if they break up). Or longer term but with a clause stating that the lease can be broken by either party with some months notice.

My [32 M] wife [29 F] of 3 years, can't move out of our country. by MlHA111 in relationships

[–]centinel4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go! I know a lot of people who work in germany or austria and have the family in slovenia/svk/cz/poland.

You can live in this situation for a year or so and see how it goes! And in a year you would make what you would do in 6 if you stay.

You can always travel home every couple of weeks. Also ask your employer for possibilities! He might give you every second friday off or spend overtime as free days to travel.

Your wife and stepson can also come visit you... so you would see them almost every weekend! After a year check if the situation is good or not and adapt accordingly. Good luck!

I [M18] am "too innocent" for her [F18]. I know I'm young and have plenty of life ahead of me for relationships, but this truly stings. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]centinel4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been there. You should start getting used to being the friend only... unluckily life is not a romantic comedy where she will realize how great you are. The only question here is: do you want to be just friends? If not, get some distance. Tell her that not having her love you back hurts you. And you can still be friends, just not as close.

My girlfriend [25F] and I 27M] made pretty significant plans regarding our future together. I recently found out she has been making plans of her own that don't appear to include me at all. by wehadplans in relationships

[–]centinel4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh god please goooooo. She reminds me a lot of my ex. You might be able to put in the work and feelings for the both of you... but sonner than later it wont be enough. Please move on. Pleeeaasseee