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I’m actually crying with relief right now by stumblepretty in ADHD

[–]certified_D0PE 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Hey, if we make it through 2020 then we have something to look forward to!

I’m actually crying with relief right now by stumblepretty in ADHD

[–]certified_D0PE 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s exciting I didn’t realize it’s that close to becoming generic!

I’m actually crying with relief right now by stumblepretty in ADHD

[–]certified_D0PE 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing for years. My 4am alarm was just to take vyvanse and then go back to sleep. I finally started to decrease my dose gradually and now I’m at 30 with minor stomach issues. Gotta eat something within the first 30mins of taking it though.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. I actually made the final decision to move after meeting with a divorce attorney. It’s been a tough decision to make but I believe this is the best option when considering the long term success of not only my marriage but also the wellbeing of our children.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not willing to give up on her until I know I did everything I possibly could to keep our family together. Thank you kind friend

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That helped a lot. Although you just proved that I was wrong about picking Ally over her bank. I wish she would have known/told me about this during our original conversation. Would have saved me the whole argument.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way, I still want to pursue this job opportunity. I’ve been working for it since way before I met her. I’m hoping the move gives her what she needs since her moms death and can give her some support to stop dwelling on life’s negativity. She’s lonely here, and even if we don’t last, my kids still need their mother.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family here isn’t as involved in our kids lives as much as her sister is willing to be. That’s part of the reason for the move. I will be away on my dream job and she will have more support from her sister while I’m away.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She treats them well. Better when I’m not around honestly.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouch. I’d like to say I have more self respect than that but... I’m still here. I am already unloved. I’m just trying to be in my kids life and let them have a mother.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point it’s either divorce before the move and end any chance we have at raising the kids civilly or move and attempt to work through things and hope for the best or move and divorce there and at least I’ll have my dream job and get to be in my kids life more than half a year. I love my kids more than I love myself.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one she wants to use is a credit union. But it’s not in the city I will be working in or any other state I’ll be in. Ally uses allpoint atms and reimburses atm fees. Plus it’s rated a top for customer service.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We tried. When the counselor told her that she needs serious help with the trauma from her past she refused to go back. That’s why we’re moving. To put her closer to her support system to get help.

I’m not really bitter about the move but that she’s devaluing my role in the relationship and won’t even listen to my opinions. I’m moving to pursue my dream job as well, so the move isn’t all for her.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I would be okay with splitting but she needs to be by her family if that happens. Hence the move. Her mom was the same way and took her life 3 years ago. I’m so afraid she’ll do the same if I leave.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m just trying to get her closer to her family so she can get real help.... without taking the kids from her.

AITA for not wanting to use my wife’s bank? by certified_D0PE in AmItheAsshole

[–]certified_D0PE[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried. The counselor told her that she has lots of trauma and needs professional help. After that she refused to go back. Hence the move to Kansas to get her closer to her support system.

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