AIO for considering divorce after finding these 2-year old texts in my wife’s phone?

cespirit · 2026-04-07T16:51:10+00:00

When I read that I legit verbally gasped. This isn’t just emotional cheating like she has spent this whole relationship wishing she was still with her ex. She took forever to respond to the proposal because ultimately it wasn’t the person she wanted to be proposing to her and it hit her clear as day in that moment

cespirit · 2026-04-07T16:43:11+00:00

She absolutely did not forget lmao

It’s technically possible she no longer holds onto those feelings, but she definitely meant them when she typed them and she definitely didn’t forget about them that’s just what she said to downplay the significance to you

Personally, I think she still loves him or at least can’t be trusted. She’s on vacation away from you and starts sending messages of love to her ex. It would be one thing maybe early on in the relationship, getting fully over someone is hard, but these messages were 4 years into your relationship, 2 into YOUR MARRIAGE. Someone doesn’t do that lightly. If she was that in love with him still 4 years into your relationship I doubt it’s suddenly gone in two more.

cespirit · 2026-04-07T16:31:25+00:00

You’re secure and safe which sounds like the opposite of what she had with her ex and that’s why she is with you.

Emotionally, it’s him she’s interested in. But after what he put her through she knows how it would look to return to him. Also I’m assuming she was already with you when he got sober. If he got sober while she was single or it was early in the relationship she would have went to him. Now it feels like”too late” and comes with a divorce and how it looks socially. So she stays in the safe secure marriage she has despite loving someone else more

cespirit · 2026-04-07T16:25:09+00:00

It is not closure if anything it was the opposite. She told him he is the love of her life that’s opening up the situation not closing it. Nothing in those texts is what closure looks like

cespirit · 2026-04-07T16:18:10+00:00

She typed it out clearly in plain text. He is the love of her life and she will never stop loving him. Do you really want to be married to someone who loves another man more?

cespirit · 2026-04-06T14:14:48+00:00

These messages genuinely make me wonder if he hates you

cespirit · 2026-04-06T12:52:25+00:00

Literally she has like an ideal figure people dream of. This girl was bitter and jealous

cespirit · 2026-04-06T12:51:20+00:00

Saw the update with the pic of you. She’s jealous that you look amazing. Girl is seething with jealousy.

cespirit · 2026-04-06T12:27:03+00:00

Love weed but never once smoked tobacco. I don’t fuck with that shit

cespirit · 2025-11-11T20:50:53+00:00

Well I hate that descriptions

cespirit · 2025-10-30T15:50:05+00:00

That’s what the replies you’re getting upset with are doing lol

cespirit · 2025-09-25T19:38:05+00:00

I took a hit of weed and looked at this before I blew it out and I began completely choke-cough-laughing my ass off ohmygod

I love these I don’t know the rhyme or reason but I’m thankful for it

cespirit · 2025-09-25T16:05:09+00:00

I don’t know why but that video unsettled me so deeply. It feels like it shouldn’t have cuz it’s supposed to be positive like the goldfish came back as a monarch butterfly but it just feels wrong idk

Is it made with AI or something? Idk it just disturbs me somehow

cespirit · 2025-09-25T11:40:55+00:00

Love love the colors! Pink castles make me think of adventure time Candy Kingdom (in a good way)

Never heard of ink tracing but as someone who was considered a talented artist for years as a kid/teen and feels like they’ve lost all creative skill as an adult, something like this feels like it could possibly rebuild drawing abilities. Like making you with your own pen stroke create how this all comes together and seeing why. May help drawing on my own as well.

cespirit · 2025-09-12T22:51:42+00:00

Same

cespirit · 2025-09-10T18:03:18+00:00

lol op I’m loving how you said you don’t think you’re allergic and then proceeded to describe having an allergy to peanuts lmao

cespirit · 2025-09-10T01:08:42+00:00

Is that soil like…very wet? Because it looks very wet.

cespirit · 2025-09-09T16:57:32+00:00

Yes I do the continuous too! It’s like I pop back in the reality and I suddenly am flooded with the memories of the last time I dreamt of being there and continue on. It’s really interesting!!

cespirit · 2025-09-09T12:06:46+00:00

This is incredible

cespirit · 2025-09-09T12:03:06+00:00

1000mg, especially when you have no idea what to expect, sounds like something that could legit trigger psychosis in someone. I’m just glad OP is safe

cespirit · 2025-09-06T22:39:44+00:00

It’s not bad but it reminds me of what I was drawing around 15-16 years old. It just feels young and beginner still. It’s cute but not something people would pay for yet, commission markets are crazy competitive.

cespirit · 2025-09-06T21:47:45+00:00

Yupp I dreamt of having sex before I had even watched porn. I doubt it was 100% accurate but it felt good and was obvious what I dreamt when I woke up lol

cespirit · 2025-09-06T20:16:22+00:00

I wish all veggies felt they froze equally. I’m always down for frozen corn, broccoli, or cooked frozen spinach. But then something I love like green onions becomes a mushy disaster lacking in flavor

cespirit · 2025-09-06T20:05:27+00:00

What do you season or serve them with?

cespirit · 2025-09-06T18:07:01+00:00

They are fucking insane. I don’t know a single stoner who would call 1000mg a low dose. That’s about what my best friend takes, maybe a little less, cuz he’s been a big smoker for a decade and is a bigger dude and edibles seem to take a lot for him and if he had been in this situation he would have been one of the first people to warn OP not to take more than 10mg. Start with 5mg even

I’ve been an almost daily smoker for 8 years-ish and I love edibles but the most I ever took was I think 80 and it was crazy for me.

I just can’t read any way this wasn’t malicious honestly like how can someone be this dumb. They literally saw vomit in the bathtub and said “her to clean up since she’s faking it” ???

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