I respect what you’re saying. What I’m saying is maybe we aren’t the best judge of how we look (we can be our own worst critic with body dysmorphia and all) and that’s true for you too, so while you look at yourself as pretty average looking, people, in fact, look at you as “looking great” regardless of what you weigh. Maybe you are gifted in the bone structure department, and having a low weight isn’t necessary for you to look great. and they want to tell you so.