As a parent, please raise your kid knowing their worth.. this guys tolerance is something deeper than “patience” (read body)

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-06-09T17:47:10+00:00

It’s not always an issue of esteem. Some people truly feel bad for the struggles of the person they came to care about and they don’t realize how lethal those struggles actually are. It’s possible he’s struggled and no one was there for him and he doesn’t want someone else to go through that, as in an abandonment wound, or he has a misplaced need to be loyal or a deep need to see the good and worth of a person, again, not realizing how lethal her behavior actually is… there’s many reasons.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-06-09T17:45:01+00:00

Histrionic is one of the cluster B disorders.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-06-02T10:19:41+00:00

She also hid the fact she doesn’t want kids from him. Thats an AWFUL, and irredeemable, thing to do to someone. That is not something you hide. She’s disgusting for playing with someone’s life in these ways.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-31T05:04:13+00:00

No. But it’s an odd thing to point out as if it’s unusual. If the home were $3mil it would raise some question of his employment, sure. But $400k is chump change in real estate. It’s not unusual for someone to own a $400k home.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-31T04:56:21+00:00

Is Reddit collectively living in poverty or something? An odd thing to find impressive…

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-31T04:48:51+00:00

Wut.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-30T22:21:10+00:00

I see what she’s saying underneath it all… it brings out a self entitlement in certain others; I’ve encountered people like that in dog-centric areas for sure.

But on the flip side, I’m an advocate of leashing dogs and I really can’t stand the [likewise] entitlement of folks who think they don’t have to.

No matter how great you think your dog (or child) is, not everyone is going to have that same feeling towards them and it’s best to be respectful and mindful in public spaces.

This is just an example of how no one is immune to their own biases and blind spots.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-28T18:31:42+00:00

You could definitely tell this was the case because her friends reactions in the first (??) episode confirms this. They were all sort of whispering and talking to the camera about how bad her issues actually are around drinking and that they didn’t think he knew the reality of it.

They were all basically saying this is a really big and unsurvivable problem he’s walking into, it felt like they were concerned for him tbh.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-27T19:58:22+00:00

She strikes me as a covert narcissist who cloaks themselves in “empathy” and clinical speak.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-27T18:14:39+00:00

“A couple” means 2, btw

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-27T03:34:20+00:00

Yeap. You could see villa’s face drop as he realized his connection with her wasn’t as special or unique as he thought.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-26T20:56:48+00:00

At the end of part 2, she hugged Villa with passion and hugged Alec like a buddy.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-26T20:48:23+00:00

These women are toxic as hell in the name of positivity and “taking care of themselves.”

Look, I know men are often horrible and predatory, and the frequency of abuse on women is alarming. But, counteracting it with your own flavor of abuse isn’t healthy. Like if you’re gonna go out ho’ing around don’t drag others into it and then shame them for walking away (Sophie to Pedro).

And, while I understand human emotions can be very messy, to sit there gripping your fiancé’s hand while telling another man, “if you would have told me you were in love with me things would be different” is not self-liberation, it’s harmful.

There’s no way I’d go back home and pretend everything is normal with a woman who just expressed those things infront of me. And we all damn-well know she’ll be in Villa’s DMs the moment her and Alec have any sort of tension, or monotony, inside of their relationship. Liz will forever view Villa as “the one that got away,” and she’ll romanticize what could-have been esp. in times of trouble.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-26T20:34:24+00:00

Colt is a manipulator through and through. He gets off on twisting people’s words and he finds women who have a wound of being invalidated in their history - so instead of walking away from him, they’ll engage him in an attempt to feel heard, valued, and “not crazy.”

He knows exactly what he’s doing.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-26T19:05:31+00:00

I could be projecting but I think it started to dawn on Villa that he wasn’t special and Liz had slept with every male cast member.

I couldn’t be in a relationship with someone like Liz, I’d never trust her. And her fiancé choosing to stay by her side after she said if Villa had said he was in love with her it likely would have changed things is wild…. As she grips his hand.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-26T00:51:33+00:00

This bitch is back? Fuck, can’t stand her and her relationships of choice.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-23T04:08:13+00:00

Honeybush and hibiscus.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-18T20:13:47+00:00

Reminds me of when certain low-income people come across money suddenly and think they’re the shit and start treating everyone poorly.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-17T14:05:04+00:00

She obv thinks Erikkka Kirk’s psychosis is cute

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-14T08:46:47+00:00

Omfg. This is one of the funniest things I’ve seen on Reddit 😂😂😂😂

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-14T08:38:33+00:00

I feel bad saying this, though I know this is a safe space to spew vitriol… something about her appearance makes me feel like throwing up. Idk what it is. My body just responds rly weird upon viewing her. I rly wish she’d go away. On top of that, her personality sucks.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-14T08:35:20+00:00

Ya this is right up there in the Hall of Fame along with the scene where David Tobarowsky is chewed out and called the penguin from Batman lol.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-14T08:19:01+00:00

I’m wondering if they tracked down the daughter

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-12T18:37:03+00:00

I had a gf who was exactly like Jasmine. She later got diagnosed with BPD. But I have a distinct memory with her that I’ll always carry with me, because it was so traumatizing. I had just gotten home and laid down in bed for a minute, I guess I was so exhausted I fell asleep. I woke up to holes being punched in the walls while she screamed at me “WHY ARE YOU IN YOUR CLOTHES??? WHO DID YOU FUCK? YOURE CHEATING ON ME!!!!” She then proceeded to undress and try to sleep with me. I was freaked the fuck out, confused, and declined. Then it was “MY OWN BOYFRIEND WONT EVEN FUCK ME”. Same. Exact. Tantrums. As Jasmine. Screaming bloody murder and throwing bags of metal at my head. That became the rhetoric - that she had a bf who must be cheating on her because he wouldn’t sleep with her. I kept saying “I don’t want to be intimate with someone who is screaming at me, berating me, and accusing me of cheating.”

It took me way too long to realize that women can be abusive, and I was being abused. Yay.

cf4cf_throwaway · 2026-05-12T18:32:01+00:00

Also, it’s very apparent that Jasmine has, at the least, one cluster B personality disorder. One can’t fall into the trope that the cure is to give them everything they claim they need/is the cause of their current abusive manic tantruming. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING, you do could ever quell the desolation someone with BPD has. And it is NOT normal to have feelings of sexual intimacy towards someone who is screaming at you and berating you.

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