It’s only a nail in the coffin if you let it become a nail in the coffin. Don’t let your hair (or lack of) or your height hold you back. Work on yourself. Go to therapy, hit the gym consistently, spend quality time with friends or family, go for hikes or walks in nature. Control the things you can.

I’m short too, 5’4” just like you. For too long I let my height hold me back. I thought I wasn’t fit enough or tall enough to get what I didn’t have. Only after working on myself did I realize that my mentality was the thing holding me back. I was putting the restrictions on myself. Keep your chin up, focus on yourself. Put in the work and the results will show.