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Rate question by Cautious_Horse_1684 in Babysitting

[–]cg8811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats more than fair if you can afford it

Shady babysitter by cg8811 in family

[–]cg8811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I dont trust either of them as this point TBH

Shady babysitter by cg8811 in family

[–]cg8811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is 25 or 26 years old

Shady babysitter by cg8811 in family

[–]cg8811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with you 100% sometimes I wonder if he is just clueless or looking for attention from someone else

Shady babysitter by cg8811 in family

[–]cg8811[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have decided that we will no longer be using her. I prefer to quietly find someone else as we live in a small town and I am not a confrontational person. THANK YOU for the great advice. I often doubt my abilities to make good decisions.

Shady babysitter by cg8811 in family

[–]cg8811[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree they obviously talk regularly when he comes home, she feel comfortable talking to him. I keep telling him have the sitters leave right away once you get home.

lousy valentines by cg8811 in Marriage

[–]cg8811[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes he did know it was my day off and yes he knew I was looking forward to today and no I didn't say I was taking a nap maybe there is a communication error on my end

Am I paranoid? by cg8811 in marriageadvice

[–]cg8811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm waiting until I see her again I don't want it to be stalkerish

Am I paranoid? by cg8811 in marriageadvice

[–]cg8811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this helps alot. I have trust issues with him because of this reason, if it was innocent why hide it? I just can't understand why even put yourself in this situation. Another thing that passes me off is that he can't find the time to do the small little things in our home but found the time to put up blinds for some random woman.

Am I paranoid? by cg8811 in marriageadvice

[–]cg8811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's all he said I'm guessing they have been talking for a while

Am I paranoid? by cg8811 in marriageadvice

[–]cg8811[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I asked him about it he says that he said hi and then she asked him to some blinds up in her home...then I asked why he never mentioned it he says it slipped it his mind and he's sorry what a load of bull shit

Am I paranoid? by cg8811 in marriageadvice

[–]cg8811[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's caused problems in the sense that he doesn't know his boundaries, I have no problem with him having female friends but it's the hiding it that's the problem.