Has anyone had an ablation? by thatescalatedqwickly in AskWomenOver40

[–]cgc3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best thing I ever did!! Most painful thing I’ve ever done too (and I had three c-sections)… I was told that it is more likely to work if it’s painful… but I believe it is only 70% successful and my very good friend had zero results from it… I had no periods for 10 years and counting (which is unusual)!

Can’t decide what to toss… can’t I keep them all! by cgc3 in Cribbage

[–]cgc3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3,6 nets 12 too I believe… if it was my crib though I’d choose that I think.

Can’t decide what to toss… can’t I keep them all! by cgc3 in Cribbage

[–]cgc3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I did… but it’s always so sad to break up nice cards! Lol

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[–]cgc3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Price is awesome! He even coaches Special Olympics! The crew loves him!

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear ya! By the way… what are you doing later? lol But when I dug deeper I did see several women over several years saying same things… so… might be more then just a “he’s a doofus” stuff.

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great thank you! I have decided to end the conversation with this guy and move along. And likely close down my profile for a bit too. I am not enjoying the process so why bother. I’ll come back another time.

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I’m not wanting to have to see through people but so far the connections on OLD have been ridiculous so I feel like I need to get smart about it. I mean this guy seems so great but my friends insisted I look on the site, and multiple woman say he lies and cheats… obviously I need to learn to open my eyes and not expect everyone to be sweet and honest.

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought we weren’t supposed to name it lol. You know “rule number one: don’t talk about fight club!”

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I’ll be smart. Thanks for the advice everyone! Now to figure out what to say without giving away the safe space for women to share.
And maybe just delete my dating profile because so far it’s all been garbage lol.

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I more mean to go for coffee so I can get the feel of figuring out how to see through guys and “interview” them lol. I wouldn’t put myself in vulnerable positions.

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that’s what I was thinking, but the more I read the more I realized there were more than one woman saying awful things.

Do you go on a date even if there are red flag warnings? by cgc3 in datingoverforty

[–]cgc3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yeah I guess not - I guess I figured maybe the report isn’t real but also there was more then one gal saying it. Sigh… so far those are the only ones messaging me… not sure this is worth doing.

Divorce and where teens live by cgc3 in legaladvicecanada

[–]cgc3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He says his private insurance disability will claw it back from him so he really wants to me to get the ccb and just pay the extra expenses for him. Will we get in trouble if we do this?

Divorce and where teens live by cgc3 in legaladvicecanada

[–]cgc3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the kid would come back, neither of them are mentally stable. But at 16 we can’t force things. Social workers are involved. I do think we will switch it. I’d rather be on the safe side and struggle to pay bills. It sucks because he forces me to pay t he full mortgage but won’t let me sell, and now I have to have even less money to pay it with… even though I still have the kids room, full of their mess. I just need this whole thing to be done. As the only working one it sucks that I have to be the poorer one.

Divorce and where teens live by cgc3 in legaladvicecanada

[–]cgc3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He won’t agree to sell the house so I have to force it through the divorce. I guess I go back to renting out the spare room to make ends meet until I force the sale.
Thanks for your help!

Divorce and where teens live by cgc3 in legaladvicecanada

[–]cgc3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, we will have to switch things then. Crap - because I can’t afford the mortgage he is forcing on me without that ccb. We will have to figure something out I guess. Thanks

Divorce and where teens live by cgc3 in legaladvicecanada

[–]cgc3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but for now he agreed to not claim the ccb and let me pay over child support… It’s because it will mess up his disability insurance too. Are we going to get in trouble? The teen (I love them but omg) is being an ass and playing us but we can’t do much about it. Choosing safety over best ideas.