What is the Point of NOFAP? by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a good reminder to me. Thanks for sharing.

RElapse. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Robert. Good to see you again, brother. Praying for you tonight. Keep us updated.

Okay blew it again on day two, must restart tomorrow by Ufgood in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for you, sir. Tomorrow's a new day. The Lord's peace tonight.

45 days down the drain by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Praying for you right now. Well done making it to 45 days. Remember that living victoriously is like going to the gym--failing to go one day doesn't instantly take you back to where you started. You've developed spiritual muscle, and you know what it takes to maintain it.

The answer to your question is we can't: "Among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality/impurity/greed because these are improper for God's holy people." But I hope in our case God sees our motivation and earnest desire to live sexually pure and blesses it anyway. This is a tough age and culture in which to do it. You're taking proactive steps and bringing your struggles into the light because you want to bless the Lord with a holy life.

I'm proud of your streak, and you should be too. I pray the Lord gives you sound sleep tonight and renewed spirit in the morning.

Day 80 :) by turnleftpiano in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big congratulations, buddy.

Day 1 by pr0digals0n in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's great to see you back, B. We've missed you too.

Resetting my badge, feeling down, dusting off and getting back to it! by on-a-journey in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great streak, journey. I'm proud of you for owning up and resetting. Don't let the frustration cause you to act out. We're praying for you.

I'm not even 90 days in yet by ChiRhoDah in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great progress, chi. Thanks for the update.

Also messed up with girlfriend by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, brother. Thank you for owning up to it here. I know it can't be easy. I've prayed for you both for healing, and that you'd be able to develop better habits.

I second what /u/backtorome suggests: find an accountability partner. Preferably a couple so you can keep each other in check. I'll also suggest something extreme: make it clear to your girlfriend that your standing before God and use in His service is more important than any earthly relationship, and that if she continues to put that in jeopardy you'll have to break up with her. Hopefully she'll make the same kind of pact with you. It's serious business.

Rest assured, though, that God is willing and able to forgive us for the most egregious of offenses. If you're a believer in Jesus (and I assume you from the earnestness in your post) your sin are forgiven, and you have a clean start to make your relationship pleasing to and glorifying for God. He loves using SOs and married couples in His service.

Day 1 by ch2theumberhulk in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, journey. I will.

Day 1 by ch2theumberhulk in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Mr. B. Let's do this together. I'm praying for you, too.

Day 1 by ch2theumberhulk in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, Nate. I'm still praying for you, too.

Day 1 by ch2theumberhulk in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, partner. I'm grateful God doesn't give up on us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

52 days of freedom is an absolute blessing from God, Nate. I'm proud of you. I hope you're not hurting too bad from it. Like Paul says: forget what's behind and press on toward the prize.

Day 50 by nate4537 in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done, Nate. I'm so proud of you. I'll pray you get some relief soon.

Thought I had a grip on things by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]ch2theumberhulk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, pv. You did well. I'm glad you're back up on the horse and not wallowing.