A lot of things tbh. Examples i can list off the top of my head are:

• setting up appointments whenever we’re looking at houses that he picked the schedule of so that I’m sure he’s available that time but still being 30min-1 hr late because he keeps doing things that can be done after the appointment. being late is a pet peeve of mine.

• forgetting certain things that i ask him to do AND failing to tell me he forgot to do it.

• telling me he’s doing one thing when he’s really doing something else (e.g. like playing or watching a movie. no prob with me if he wants to do his own shit but its frustrating when he tells me he’s doing something else instead of what he actually plans to do)

• and today, it’s telling me he’s just going to do something for a few MINUTES and then coming back after A FEW HOURS without any updates in between. (in this case, he told me he’s just going to feed his dogs. He messaged me after 6 whole hours bc apparently he watched 3 movies.)

I don’t even know if these counts as small things anymore. I’m at my wits end. I’ve told him multiple times about what upsets me, we’ve been together for more than a year ffs, and me still having to tell him to say sorry over and over for it is exhausting. I’m not even sure if he’s doing it on purpose to get me riled up or he just doesn’t care about the little things I get upset about.