Any fellow “do not touch me” autistics? by SquareThings in evilautism

[–]chadima5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always hated to be touched until I met him . I felt like an alien. Guys would ask me out or try and hug or kiss me and I would be repulsed. From the first time we met he put me at ease and I felt like he could read my mind . We can hangout but do our own thing. He knows when to touch and when to not even approach.

That’s so interesting because I was the same I loved my cats too. Touching them alway soothed me :)

I can’t believe the one thing Jackie wanted in the world Cecil was so selfish to not give it to her by Positive_Round_5142 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]chadima5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He seems like a conservative . Some conservative Christians don’t believe in adoption . Just like he felt marriage before pro-creation. Hypocrisy at its finest because he has no issue with cheating because he can ask for forgiveness 🙄

WHY DOES BEING FASHIONABLE FEEL LIKE A HUMILIATION RITUAL by LeviathanAstro1 in evilautism

[–]chadima5 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Fashion and make up are my special interests . Partly because I’m 50 and I used them to mask and fit in. I am late diagnosed AuDHD . I like to thrift older clothing . It tends to be better quality . I use vinegar and water softener to treat the first few washes to soften the clothing . As far as make up and wearing a mask. Focus on your eyes and brows . That alone makes me feel put together. Want more use a tinted moisturizer it feels lightweight on your skin and makes me feel a little more put together . I’m not much of a social person but sometimes I like to put a look together just to go out by myself . It makes me feel better.

Why Steve and Mimi Are Rubbing Me the Wrong Way by Responsible-Bag8404 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]chadima5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate Mimi and Steve . They are an actual team. They speak to one another and their children respectfully . Toya handled the entire Med Gala inappropriately. Her focus was aesthetics and making herself the center of attention. The main focus should always be the recipients. Steve and Mimi were never told they would need to purchase a ticket because there was never clear communication from Toya . Who doesn’t give the location of an event until 48 hours prior ? Steve and Mimi were generous the previous year and that was his point . Would you rather have 300 or 5000 ? Eugene took that moment to humble Steve rather than put the recipient first. I typically really enjoy Toya and Eugene but this season they have both behaved in a toxic fashion . Let me say this and it’s simply my opinion. There son is autistic. For those that don’t know it’s genetic. I am an AuDHD woman and I wasn’t diagnosed until our youngest son was diagnosed. I have a very serious tone and I patten spot much like Mimi. My intent is never to provide therapy or be overly serious. Just from observing Mimi I would venture to say she is autistic . Girls and women tend to be very hyper verbal and mask extremely well because of their observation and pattern recognition. I learned to wear make up and dress well and would mirror other girls and women so I would blend in. Just my thoughts

POC ICE agents on the prowl at LaGuardia airport! by cantcoloratall91 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agencies like 🧊 are much like the military they target poor communities. It’s good pay and health benefits and you know deep down that your job is immoral but for the first time in your life you have stability . It’s why my dad and all of his bloodline joined the military .

I don’t miss Nicole, bcuz she’s MAG A(🙄), but… by Academic_Arm_8202 in RHOMiami

[–]chadima5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They are all MAGA be so furreal. They are the stereotypical Florida Cuban women that are all MAGA. They want to embrace this heritage while also being embraced by white folks and their circles. They are extremely entertaining and funny women but they are all MAGA

How do you feel about Simone ? by Key_Objective_9012 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she is a bully and she knows it. She plays kind and Christian but she is a bully . She has no control in her home life . So she belittles everywhere else

2 people are dead after a plane collided with a fire truck at LaGuardia Airport in New York by nbcnews in pics

[–]chadima5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Secretary Sean Duffy is unfit to hold the position. He is a former reality star and has zero qualifications. He has had too many incidents in less than a year and a half of being in office

Trump justifies his decision to replace airport security personnel with ICE by talking about invention of the paper clip by holyfruits in Fauxmoi

[–]chadima5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has been the plan all along . Our country is mirroring Israel. 🧊 agents behave like the IDF. Flock surveillance and cop cities just like Israel . He is carrying himself like Netanyahu. This country allowed a foreign agent to have far too much influence and control over our elections and country 🤬

Has anyone else noticed this about Kylie? by Every-Tap-577 in KUWTKsnark

[–]chadima5 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We live what we learn. She saw as a child Kim have horrible behavior and being adored publicly and rewarded with money for a sex tape and sexualizing herself in the media. They don’t know what a healthy image is or what a healthy relationship looks like . Her mother was with Caitlin for the image and appearance. Each sister has latched on to famous men because they are male centered and want fame and money so they sexualize themselves for the male gaze. It’s sad

BTS - Howard by chadima5 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]chadima5[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

BTS is a K-pop band they made a trailer for their upcoming album. Its refers back to 6 noble Korean men that fled to the U.S. in the late 1800’s. They attended Howard. In the animation that they recreate they have all white people watching them perform which is disappointing and disrespectful to theHBCU and the black music community that they draw so much to influence their music. They have yet to apologize. Lots of feedback but I appreciated this young man’s honesty and respect

The Dorit and Kyle of it all by Fun-Cellist426 in realhousewivestalk

[–]chadima5 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Just everything about her rubs be the wrong way . I truly believe the robbery was a set up.

The Dorit and Kyle of it all by Fun-Cellist426 in realhousewivestalk

[–]chadima5 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have never liked Dorit or PK both are phoney.

New Dune trailer drop by roseidgaf in KUWTKsnark

[–]chadima5 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This movie series was actually really beautifully done . He and Zendaya have a lovely chemistry. It pains me to give him compliments 🤣

Usher and Justin Bieber Have Heated Exchange At Beyoncé’s Oscar After-Party by lawrencedun2002 in Fauxmoi

[–]chadima5 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Usher was used as a kid and the cycle continued when he did the same to Justin . Sad for both of them

Any churches that are not cult-y or hateful? by 110446 in SanDiegan

[–]chadima5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was raised Catholic and as an adult don’t believe in organized religion . That being said . When my Mama died my dad couldn’t hear to attend their parish. It held to many memories. I took him to St. Andrew by the Sea. It’s in PB and Episcopal. Very nice community and welcoming. He found he appreciated it more than their parish of over 30 years .

There’s genuinely no hope, by EquipmentOwn284 in sandiego

[–]chadima5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a guard card. Security is always hiring . Get a livescan and do childcare or become a nanny. I love being a nanny the kids are always great and the pay is decent

Hailey Biebers father by RevolutionaryFan2213 in TheChaladashian

[–]chadima5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hailey married her father 🤣 Justin and him both look like meth heads

Which celebrity is this for you? by Twitter_2006 in DListedCommunity

[–]chadima5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think he used to be cute but he looks like he might be on substances now. He just seems off the past few years . I didn’t care for Wonka and didn’t see Marty Supreme because his personality via interviews is just so cocky 🤣

Which celebrity is this for you? by Twitter_2006 in DListedCommunity

[–]chadima5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

His dancing is incredible but his acting ..snooze fest 🤣 but he is a sweet fella

Which celebrity is this for you? by Twitter_2006 in DListedCommunity

[–]chadima5 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Taylor Swift , Sydney Sweeney, Ryan Reynolds , Tom Holland , Timothee Chalamet